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People Break Down Which Things Tourists Should Never Do When Visiting The United States

Roughly 80 million tourists visit the United States annually.

Not a surprise, considering all there is to see.

And, generally speaking, America is a safe and welcoming place to live, where tourists will hopefully be welcomed with open arms, be it in San Francisco or New York City.

But, as is the case with anywhere, there are a few things which visitors to the United States might want to avoid doing.

Be it for their own personal safety, or just so they don't stand out too much as a tourist.

Redditor, sarra-sagesse was curious to hear everyone's the tips and pointers on what to avoid while visiting the United States, leading them to ask:

"If visiting America what is something that person should NEVER do?"


What are you looking at?

"If you’re in a New York City subway, try not to make too much eye contact or look too long at people around you."

"Just ignore the smell."

"Woman near you screaming at the top of her lungs at her silent child?"

"Keep listening to your music."

"Someone digging through their bag, muttering to themselves, and throwing rose petals on the floor like they’re preparing for a seance?"

"Just keep staring blankly at your phone."

"Trust me."- Jroks2

They're not as cute and cuddly as they seem

"Raccoons are cute… but from a distance."- Legoboy514

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That's not how we do things here.

"Don't think the laws are the same everywhere."

"You can walk with an open alcohol container in Vegas but not many other places."

"Alcohol laws, pot laws, firearms laws, smoking - lots of very different laws depending on the state and city where you are."- Babstana

Be very careful around the police.

"If pulled over by the cops, do not exit the vehicle unless they ask you to."

"The cops might sit in their vehicle for a while, & then they will approach the window & expect you to talk to them while sitting in the car."- yahdinguus

Don't go in the water.

"If you find yourself in Florida, absolutely do not swim in the lakes, ditches, or channels."

"Any standing body of water can and does have alligators in it."

"Also possibly water moccasins."

"And maybe even diseases."- Dobbys_Other_Sock

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"I live in an area around 4 major rivers and my town has a booming river industry."

"It never fails someone drowns at least once a month."

"The current is so strong as soon as your feet hit the water you’re most likely gone."

"Look at the river, take pictures, stop and look at our murals along our flood walls, but do not go near the river!"- Cuesey123

Don't believe everything you see

"Don’t assume that the price shown on an item for sale is your price for said item."

"There are almost always taxes that are added to the price when you go to pay."- Red_Queen592

Take one more look at a map before you take off

"Underestimate distances."

"When I was a tour guide, far too many customers asked how many HOURS the train to New York was [in seattle] and I had to put their jaw back in when I said 5 days."- a9249

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"Just walk on by..."

"Don't take pictures with the people dressed up in costumes in LA/ NYC."- 541mya

Take pictures, leave everything else.

"To not take anything from national parks."- Objective-Dingo6603

Maybe just avoid discussing politics altogether?

"Don’t think that politics from wherever you’re from, specifically Europe and Australia/New Zealand."

"Also don’t try and talk about American politics when you don’t know anything about it."- Saschajoon

"Better not to talk about guns, and abortion especially in the south."- chaseanimates

They earn every penny!

"No matter how your country feels about tipping, ya gotta tip your waiters here."

"It's how they earn their living."

"But don't let people take advantage of you."

"18-20% is standard, feel free to tip more if you had extra good service."

'And look at your check."

"Some restaurants add the tip for you, not cool, but they do, mostly if you are part of a big party, but I've had it happen when I was eating alone."


'My two favorite places in the US are NYC and Texas, and yes, we are extremely nice in Texas."

' However, I lived in New York for 17 years and they are very nice there, as well, it's just different."

"New Yorkers are no nonsense, and as much as everyone enjoys bashing the Texas, we are really, really nice, and Houston has some of the greatest food o the country."

"Just be aware of your surroundings and don't look like a tourist wherever you visit."- Winter_Opening_7715·

"Not tip your waitress or server at restaurants."

"Most are severely underpaid and get most of their income from tips."

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They are convenient though

"Skip going to Wawa".- nilla_wafer__

A controversial opinion?

"If it's your first time, DO NOT GO TO LA or California in general."

"Not as nice as you think."- mincraft890

There are certainly areas for improvement.

"Do anything that requires medical attention."

"Insurance is a complete scam."- ChucksNorris243

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Best in small incriments.

"Please do not plan to have a road trip from California to Texas to Florida to New York or anything along those lines."

"You will spend the majority of your vacation in a f*cking car paying a ridiculous amount of money for gas."

"People do not realize just how big the US is."- Vo_Lair

Is this so out of the ordinary?

"If you are visiting someone in America, take off your shoes when you enter their house."- certifiedzay

Needless to say, there is no handbook of rules of do's and don'ts when visiting the USA.

And more often than not, your own good judgment will often serve you well.

Though, when in doubt, follow any advice you're given.

Things People Secretly Love But Would Never Admit To In Public

Reddit user sweet_chick283 asked: 'What do you secretly love that you would never admit to in public?;

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What makes us all unique is our passions and the things we love, whether it's singing in the shower, reading books, or listening to specific music artists.

Unfortunately, we live in a world where we are judged for our various tastes and interests thanks to social media, and it makes us consciously selective about sharing the things we love on the internet.

Curious to hear about people's personal desires under anonymity, Redditor sweet_chick283 asked:

"What do you secretly love that you would never admit to in public?"

These aren't really chores for the following Redditors.

Good Clean Fun

"Mopping, im a janitor and generally hate my work... but damn mopping is so good."

– MrDDog06

"When you have a great rhythm going it is something special. I get the same feeling while I vacuum, but won’t let my wife know I enjoy it."

– Bogus_34

Act Of Unwrinkling

"Ironing clothes. A dozen of them. Can’t explain how it relaxes me. I told one person and they looked at me like I’m crazy."

– eerie_white_glow

"My mum misses the days when dad would be out on a Friday night, my brother out with friends and me upstairs quietly playing PS1. She would pour herself a Bacardi & Coke and do the ironing while watching her TV shows."

"I'm sure she doesn't really miss it now that we've moved out and they've retired but it was her wind-down after a busy working week so I can see how people can find it relaxing."

– xdq

Our solo actions can spark joy.

Big Brother Is Watching

"pretending to be on the Truman show and whenever im in my house i act all inconspicuous so they dont know that i know that they’re watching me."

– Bec_121

"C’mon man, you’re not supposed to let him know. You signed a contract when signing up for live views. I’m reporting you."

– doeswaspsmakehoney

The Multi-Tasker

"Playing video games naked at home while eating cheese."

– thickening_agent

Releasing The Kraken

"I love the feeling when you've eaten good fibre and let out a solid long train log in the toilet. That feeling is heavenly."

– therapoootic

"Even better when it’s a clean wipe and not a poo crayon."

– TheWarmestHugz

Ultimate Comfort

"My (male 41) weekend routine is coming home from work, make hot chocolate, start a fire, dress in a ugly pink nightgown made for old ladies and watch forensic files."

– crazyloomis

Some people are obsessed with collecting things.

So Kawai

"Sanrio stationery stores. All those different multicolor pens, a thousand kinds of erasers, spiral bound notebooks galore... my kids sadly have absolutely no appreciation for this wonderland..."

– HavingNotAttained

It's A Staple

"Office supplies have a weird, special place in my heart ever since I was a kid. They don't even have to be 'cute' necessarily."

"Japan's legendary stationery stores is unironically a reason I want to go."

– _CozyLavender_

Not Caring Anymore

"The older I get the shorter that list gets. Not because I love less things, but because I don't care about hiding it."

– Bi-Beast

"YES!! I'm 53 now. I'm working my first job in public since 2006. Today is Halloween and we're allowed to dress up so I am sitting here waiting to go to work dressed as a VERY bad Wednesday Addams. My bf said I'd 'look stupid' because no one else will probably dress up and I'm like, 'WHO CARES!' My makeup looks horrible and not like I practiced, but I DO NOT CARE! I'm having fun with it anyhow and I don't care if my coworkers dress up or not. I'm bein' ME! :)"

– deanie1970

Honorable mentions start here.

The Savior

"Picking up worms from the street and sidewalks when it rains and moving them into the dirt so they don’t burn in the sun, every time it rains I do this."

– sky_kitten89

Hero Of The Moment

"Yoooo I scoot SO many snails and worms. I work as a tech/mechanic at an automotive shop, I had a peoject car towed to my house the other day and it was covered in snails. I saw them when the tow guy/coworker was unloading and I was like, 'oh! It comes with free snails!' and began moving them. He laughed then realized and said, '... Oh, you're serious. Uh... Okay.'"

"I don't care who knows it. These little things barely can look out for themselves, why shouldn't we if we can take a moment to help? I don't care what happens next, it probably doesn't matter overall but I can help this moment."

– chris14020

Why should some of the hidden desires mentioned above have to be secret?

Redditors opening up about some of these would make them a hit at parties–no shaming.

As a matter of fact, I'll totally be down for a Forensic Files viewing party where we all make hot chocolate, light the fireplace, and cozy up together in our respective pink ugly nightgowns for old ladies.

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We've probably all heard some variation of the saying "Truth is stranger than fiction."

Real life isn't just strange, it can also be downright ridiculous.

History is riddled with moments of absurdity.

So ridiculous that people have a hard time believing real life is, well, really real.

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