The Absolute Worst Ways To Tell Someone Their Zipper Is Down
Reddit user flipping100 asked: 'What is the worst way to tell someone their zipper is open?'
We've all had our fair share of embarrassing moments, and we can all agree how embarrassing it is for someone to point out that we have something in our teeth or that our hair is messed up.
But nothing feels more embarrassing than arriving at home, realizing the embarrassing look we're sporting, and wondering how many people saw us looking like that.
Until now.
Redditor flipping100 asked:
"What is the worst way to tell someone their zipper is open?"
Way Too Much Attention
"'Attention, Walmart Shoppers: The guy on Aisle nine. Dude, tuck that in and zip up!'"
- d3astman
Corporate Email Potential
"CC (Carbon Copy) the company email all list."
- 1feralengineer
"BCC (Blind Carbon Copy) for extra confusion. 'Your fly is down.'"
- Hypo_Mix
Awkward Humor
"Stare straight at their crotch and yell, 'I'VE GOT MY EYES ON THE PRIZE!'"
- mogy_bear
A Fashion Statement
"Me: *Unzips zipper*"
"Guy with zipper down: 'What the f**k are you doing?'"
"Me: 'Just following your fashion...'"
- MyWarUK
Not a Concern in the World
"Tell them, 'Your garage door is open.'"
- azourgan
"Thoroughly Texan story ahead:"
"When I worked at my small-town Dairy Queen, there was the usual table of old men who came in daily for coffee and talk."
"One day, a regular shuffled in with his zipper down. So I called him straight over before he went to say hellos and whispered to him, 'Sir, your barn door is open,' while discreetly pointing down."
"He laughed real loud and said, 'Don't worry, honey. That old mule ain't gonna hurt nobody.'"
"Best regular ever."
- vmt_nani
'Friends' References for Days
"'SIR, THIS IS A FAMILY PLACE. PUT THE MOUSE BACK IN THE HOUSE.' - Gunther."
- sam-sung
Undeniably Awkward
"Tell them their zipper's open after a while of staring down there, and then maintain eye contact after they zip up."
- Icy-Chain9308
The Dramatic Acting Approach
"Point at the pants and shout, 'The Gates are open, noooo!' and run away."
- AddictedToMosh161
Definitely Not Her Phone Number
"Be me, an oblivious woman in her 20s."
"A guy and his girlfriend walked by me, and the guy had his fly open. I didn't want to embarrass him by saying it out loud, so I wrote down, 'Your fly is open,' on a piece of paper, folded it in half, and handed it to the guy."
"The girl gave me the stink eye, and I suddenly realized that it looked like I was giving him my number right in front of her!"
"The joke's on her, I am a lesbian."
- cinemachick
Immediate Anxiety
"Just tell them, 'Your zipper was open yesterday.'"
- Olda**rollerskater
The Voice of Concern
"Look concerned, and ask them, 'Is your zipper afraid of heights?'"
- LZ__
For the Visible Double-O and Seven
"Creep around like a secret agent and say to your watch, 'The carrot has left the salad.'"
"Then yell, 'I REPEAT, 'THE CARROT HAS LEFT THE SALAD.'"
- tazwell427
Public Humiliation
"It happened to my science teacher in high school. We kept on laughing, and it escalated to laughing and pointing. He finally noticed and left the class to fix it. Sorry, dude."
- be_yourself_T
...Yeah, That Would Do It.
"True story:"
"We were on an elevator. The only other person than us on there was an older man."
"As it opened for his floor, he turned to my friend, gently caressed my friend's stomach, and softly said, 'Your fly is open.'"
"That, don't do that."
- fenrir511
We can all agree that these would be absolutely terrible ways to let someone know of an already mildly embarrassing situation they've found themselves in.
Can we all just agree to discreetly pull people aside, or whisper to them in a way that isn't intimate, to tell them this from now on?
No two people react the same way to a pungent odor, gratuitous violence in film and television, or unruly, off-putting behavior.
As some people have a fairly high tolerance for gore, aren't bothered by taste and smell, and are so patient that they simply aren't bothered by anyone.
Although, everyone has their limits.
And despite what they might say, there are very few people who don't have one thing which even the very thought of will make them gag, just a little bit.
"What genuinely disgusts you?"
Do They Think It Will Just Vanish?
"People not flushing their poop or pee in public toilets."- Acceptable_Fee_1280
"It was that hard to pull the little lever down?"- Scotsgit73
Always Carry Mints...
"Another person's hot breath in my face."
"For any reason."- MaryEstradaGT
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"People who abuse their pets."- roseteaXx
Being Tricked Into Purchases...
"Ads with a fake close button that just redirect you to the link, particularly pop-up ads."
"I forgot about the mobile game ads with fake mini games that redirect you to the App Store."
"Those might be even worse."- Tyler_Martin1
Cleaning Comes At A Price...
"The goo in the sink drain once you’ve done the dishes."
"Touching this to clean the sink is always a gut-wrenching, vomit-inducing moment."- meiliraijow
Men Marking Their Territory...
"Sitting on a toilet seat with pee on it."- KAWAiiANGXL
We All Do It... Doesn't Make It Any Less Gross...
"Vomit."- criminallscum
I Mean, COME ON!
"Littering."
"Just hang onto your sh*t for two minutes and put it in a bin instead of just throwing it on the ground."- ElmerWolfeLO
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"Dipping tobacco."
"Carrying around a bottle of your own brown cloudy spit that smells like absolute death just skeeves me out on a level I can barely even describe."
"Bonus points if you're the douche who leaves the spit bottles or cups for other people to clean up."- Porn_is_my_bae
We all have our limits.
But even if you aren't wholeheartedly repulsed by any or all of these things, that still doesn't mean you should tolerate it!
How else will people learn to stop?
People Describe The One Thing That Always Makes Them Think 'That Person Has No Manners'
Rudeness is often based in a complete lack of awareness. That is no excuse. Rather, the ability to be so oblivious about the motivations and needs of other people is a fundamental character flaw.
A rude act based on that tendency is merely the tip of an uglier iceberg.
A recent Reddit thread offered solace to the legions of people out there that were forced to bite their tongue when they witnessed someone behave unconsciously and at the expense of someone else.
The thread served as a gathering place for pent up anger that, all at once, had the chance to explode.
And the thread also may leave you wondering how you might be more conscientious and remember your manners when the circumstances leave mindfulness harder to come by.
Fonzie1225 asked,
"What is one thing that instantly makes you think 'this person has no manners?' "
Proudly ExcludingÂ
"Inviting everyone in the friend group to an event and excluding just one friend then proceeding to talk about how much fun they're going to have at said event in front of the person that was purposely excluded, in front of everybody."
"Happened today and thought it was pretty rude."
-- TDiddy_
Unfettered Rascals
"Parents who let their children run rampant anywhere. I've seen parents watch as their kid pops their fingers through every package of meat at the grocery store and do nothing...."
"Parents who let their kids kick a strangers shoe or other belongings."
"Letting the kids spit on windows and rub it with their hands. Letting them run around the store, playing with anything and everything and leaving a mess for others to clean and the parents literally just ignore it!!!"
"I never understood that. They really are your obligation, not the store associate who's unlucky enough to be working the shift you happen to stroll in during."
"Be a parent!!! Bad kids can turn into shi**y people."
A Captive Audience
"Blasting music on the bus, absolute tw*ts" -- BigBadKYDO
"Yeah absolutely, I hate those kind of people, no one wants to listen to your shi**y music especially on a bus on the way to work or something" -- Orenge01
"People who bring their speakers with them on hikes and blast them out loud for every animal and people on the trail to hear...-_-." -- banhsauce
Grocery Store Faux Pas
"Standing in the middle of the aisle at a grocery store. Not returning the cart." -- bigboywords
"When grocery shoppers leave their carts in the middle of the aisle instead of pulling over." -- Sobemiki
"The grocery store is a cesspool for inconsiderate people. Idk why this brings out the worst in humans."
"People who leave their cart in the middle of the parking lot, people who dead stop to turn around without looking and crash into someone else's cart, people who exit an isle into the main isle without stopping and crash into someone else's cart..."
"...people who spend an absurd amount of time looking at a particular meat section so everyone else has to wait, people who bring an entire cart full of food to the express lane, people who park in the middle of the driving lane and block traffic because the close spots are taken up."
"I could go on all day about how much I hate grocery shopping lol." -- Dopekick
ObstructionsÂ
"When they walk into an elevator before you have a chance to get off. Same w buses and subways." -- guyuteharpua
"Some girl did this in a building I was in once and I said 'You know it's polite to wait for people to get off before you barge on' and she just screams 'I know!' " -- jessflyc
"You would absolutely love Japan. I have never seen such considerate people when it comes to mass transportation." -- Castianna
Free Transportation
"When you offer your time and money to drive someone and they don't thank you for the ride." -- mishmash_iam_trash
"When you give someone a ride and they leave their empty soda can or coffee cup in your cupholder." -- kindcrow
"When you give someone a ride and they complain about it" -- danure
One Man's Trash is Another's Fury
"Littering" -- Regularjay69
"People who leave their litter and uneaten food all over fast food restaurant tables, and the floor area." -- ofbalance
"Hung out with a co-worker once and he threw all his garbage out the window of his car onto the street. Never hung out with him again." -- OmManiPadmeHuumm
Taking Service for Granted
"Being an a**hole to the waiter or waitress." -- lhuthien
"Yelling at retail workers. Most recently about wearing masks or putting hand sanitizer on. It takes little to no effort and people lose their minds over it" -- Klaus369
"Not saying "Thank You" to stuff like someone holding a door open for them or a waiter/waitress refilling their drink" -- Profanity_TX
"People who click their fingers at waiting or bar staff" -- GinAndBareIt92
PIPE DOWN
"Talking over people. If someone is talking stfu and listen, when they're finished you can tell your shi**y story, not halfway through someone else's." -- Its-my-d*ck-in-a-box
"Interrupting mid sentence. I know I'm guilty at times, it makes me feel like trash" -- HypnotizedMeg
"Speaking over others" -- jjstgo
Real Time Rudeness
"It's currently 10pm and my parents have decided that watching a movie at max volume with their sound bar seemingly set to max bass is an ok thing to do, in an apartment that has two families on either side one of which has a one year old"
"So I'd say that"
At the risk of sounding like a total curmudgeon, not enough people have manners these days!
The simple acts of "please" and "thank you"? Lost! People press buttons on adjacent floors of elevators of 36 story buildings!
It just doesn't make any sense. In the words of Full House, whatever happened to dependability?
u/icecoldcokezero asked:
What is a basic etiquette everyone should know but not everyone follows?
Here were some of the answers.