You know how when you hear the same thing over and over again, it kind of makes you want to kick someone in the shin? Yeah ... this article is totally about that.
Reddit user _ligaya asked:
LGBTQ+ people, what are you tired of hearing?
And if you, like me, foolishly thought that some of the more awful or annoying stereotypes had gone away, then brace yourself. They're still here in full effect. Here are some of the things that members of LGBTQ+ community are tired of hearing, both from outside and inside of the community.
In the words of Motormouth Maybelle: "Brace yourselves for a whole lotta ugly comin' at you from a neverending parade of stupid."
Community Steps Up To Support First Bisexual Rose Parade Queen After She's Targeted By Westboro Baptist Church
The Pasadena Tournament of Roses announced Louise Deser Siskel in December as the Rose Queen in a groundbreaking decision in the organization's history.
The 18-year-old Jewish student is the first openly bisexual to be honored as a member and queen of the royal court.
But not everyone embraced the news. On Monday, five members of the reviled Westboro Baptist Church (WBC), a congregation deemed as a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center, staged a protest at Sequoyah High School where Siskel attends.
They carried signs that said "God H8s Sin & Sinner," and "God Hates Proud Sinners."
The Topeka, Kansas-based anti-gay group issued a statement spewing their vile opposition and slammed the faculty members for teaching "doctrines of lies".
WBC wrote:
"That poor child has been so saturated in filthiness, that she bragged about being a pervert of the deepest waters ('the first LGBTQ queen'), honouring what God has called abominable. Uh-oh! That calls for preaching!"
About 5 members of @GodHatesFagsWBC are protesting outside Sequoyah High School/Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist… https://t.co/2hkemP4Xbk— ChrisMYee (@ChrisMYee) 1551109772
But Siskel has allies. Plenty of them.
Community members in Pasadena, California rallied to support #bisexual Rose Queen and high school student Louise De… https://t.co/zkTSoZ0dgr— Our Lives magazine 🏳️🌈 (@Our Lives magazine 🏳️🌈) 1551225319
You can watch the CBS News report of the incident in the YouTube clip, below.
Community Rallies To Support Openly Bisexual Rose Queen Under www.youtube.com
According to Pasadena Star News, Siskel's fellow students in addition to members of the local Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist Church were prepared with a countermeasure.
However, the Rev. Lissa Anne Gundlach sent a letter to the Universalist Church community members discouraging engaging with the WBC protestors and set up a training session for those interested in supporting Siskel peacefully.
A copy of the letter was also posted on the group's Facebook page.
Instead, she wanted to envelope the students at the high school with a non-violent response.
"We do not want to feed this group's hunger for publicity or provide a megaphone for their words of hate. We want to support and surround the Sequoyah students and parents with messages of love."
Twenty five supporters from both Sequoyah and the church held a hand-painted sign with rainbow lettering that read, "My God (Heart) All & So Do We" while standing in the driveway during the morning-drop off period away from the protesters.
Yesterday (Feb 25) members of a hate group protested Louise Deser Siskel, Pasadena Rose Queen @rosebowlgame, for be… https://t.co/d2KLgOP7AK— Larker Anthology (@Larker Anthology) 1551189910
Jessica Gable, communications coordinator for Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist Church, expressed her pride to PSN about the demonstration's effectiveness in avoiding distracting the students.
"It's still a school day. Honestly, the only thing they should be responsible for today is going to school and learning and growing as human beings. They should not have to have their day interrupted by hateful rhetoric."
@CraigNews3LV @WBCSaysRepent @KNX1070 https://t.co/qGSVOu0At1— brooohah (@brooohah) 1551112502
Rev. Gundlach said WBC's protest won't prevent her church from praying for the protestors so they that may find love and compassion for others.
"God is a God of love. Even in this moment when they are sending us messages of hate, we will continue to love them and pray for them and have compassion for them because hate is a corrosive element for our hearts."
Former Rose Queen from 1962 Martha Bell also expressed her praise for the new member on the royal court.
CALIFORNIA: Local community in Pasadena showed support for first #LGBT+ Rose Queen amid Westboro Baptist Church pro… https://t.co/x2ghu5Fjqn— Mondokoosh (@Mondokoosh) 1551153215
She told CBS News of Siskel:
"I think she's a wonderful Rose Queen, she's extremely articulate, she's well-balanced and I believe in her right to be exactly who she is."
The Tournament of Roses is Pasadena's annual event culminating in the Rose Parade that takes place on Colorado Blvd. in the city of Pasadena on New Year's Day.
To be eligible as a Rose Queen, applicants must never have been married or marriages annulled; and between the ages 17 - 21; and either be a senior in high school or enrolled in college in the Pasadena city college district.
Selected members of the royal court attend hundreds of events throughout the year in Southern California and preside during the Rose Bowl after they've participated in the nationally televised new year's procession.
Fans And Fellow YouTubers Are Showing Support For Lilly Singh After She Comes Out As Bisexual
IISuperwomanII has some new superpowers.
YouTuber and Canadian actress Lilly Singh, 30, officially came out as bisexual via a Twitter post on Sunday, February 24th.
The tweet checked off three boxes: "Female," "Colored" and "Bisexual," which Singh self-identifies as her superpowers.
✅ Female ✅ Coloured ✅ Bisexual Throughout my life these have proven to be obstacles from time to time. But no… https://t.co/L68ls7RoUL— Lilly (Pre-Order Be A Triangle 🔼) (@Lilly (Pre-Order Be A Triangle 🔼)) 1551056775
This announcement has already been garnering tremendous, thunderous support from across the internet.
Including from fellow YouTubers:
@IISuperwomanII I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜— Hannah Hart 🌱 (@Hannah Hart 🌱) 1551057174
@IISuperwomanII So proud of you Lilly! 😍😍😍 welcome to the family babe!— Manny MUA (@Manny MUA) 1551058519
IM SO PROUD OF YOU LILLY!! my heart is exploding!!!!!! 😭❤️ https://t.co/0SNLFdsWsn— Shane Dawson (@Shane Dawson) 1551058214
Prior to this, Singh posted a video in November 2018 saying she was taking a break from social media altogether.
"I'mma be real with y'all, I am mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually exhausted...I've enjoyed it, I love it, but that doesn't take away from the fact that it's a lot … I'm also about happiness. And I always preach that. You should be happy, you should take care of yourself."
I'll see you soon... www.youtube.com
"I could be happier. I'm not my optimal happiness right now. I could be mentally healthier, I don't feel like I'm completely mentally healthy, I think there's a lot going on up here that I need to address that I'm not able to, constantly pumping out content."
While she resumed creating and posting videos the following month, this post marked a big step forward for her.
And aside from fellow YouTubers, the general LGBTQ community is welcoming her with open arms.
@IISuperwomanII Me rn https://t.co/LVfRz2tEbx— Humble The Poet (@Humble The Poet) 1551057551
@IISuperwomanII WELCOME TO THE WORLD’S HOTTEST CLUB #20BITEEN https://t.co/voWCyChey9— Ashly Perez 🤙🏽 (@Ashly Perez 🤙🏽) 1551069403
@IISuperwomanII 😭😭😭😭 lily i had no idea you were queer too, i love u even more now! it’s amazing to see another bro… https://t.co/1o4GowrOIn— leo kaLyan (@leo kaLyan) 1551089330
you forgot to add frickin awesome to the list the reason the world is in love with you lil is because u make us al… https://t.co/R7NAESxplf— Jassi Sidhu (@Jassi Sidhu) 1551086012
And other presences on social media, including influencers, are showing their support.
@IISuperwomanII love you lilly!! love always wins! 💖— ashley liao (she/her) ⁷ (@ashley liao (she/her) ⁷) 1551058725
@IISuperwomanII I am so proud of you sister!!!!! 🏳️🌈🌈— James Charles (@James Charles) 1551115953
@IISuperwomanII Love you Lilly!!!! 🌈😊💜— Joey Graceffa (@Joey Graceffa) 1551109726
@IISuperwomanII YO WHAT HIGHKEY FELL OFF MY CHAIR but you’ve always been unstoppable despite any obstacles - love u always ❤️— s (@s) 1551056967
@IISuperwomanII My heart 💜 https://t.co/P0rJijr20W— Bridget 🦄 #LateWithLillySeason2 (@Bridget 🦄 #LateWithLillySeason2) 1551057707
And some are reveling in sharing their superpowers.
@IISuperwomanII I commend you for your courage to speak your truth. I know it wasn't easy for you, but just know th… https://t.co/mxSZVcsxNh— Michelle Brown (@Michelle Brown) 1551058858
Singh took to Twitter one last time to thank everybody for their support:
Thank you so much for the love and positivity. Words can’t describe how much it means. I appreciate you all. Group hug ❤️❤️❤️❤️😊— Lilly (Pre-Order Be A Triangle 🔼) (@Lilly (Pre-Order Be A Triangle 🔼)) 1551074314
If you want more Lilly Singh, check out her inspiring memoir and how-to-be-awesome guide, How To Be A Bawse—A Guide to Conquering Life—A Guide to Conquering Life.
Bisexual Woman's Tweet About The Struggles Of Flirting Ignites An On Point Discussion About Gender Norms
The first stage of dating is hard.
You want to show your potential significant other that you're interested in them enough to pursue courtship. Yet, you don't want to come off as desperate.
For one bisexual woman, such social graces are particularly challenging, to say the least.
Twitter user @gilltheamazon, who identifies herself as a bisexual woman, spilled the beans on the difficulties of complimenting women while dating.
"As a bisexual woman, I still cannot tell if another woman is flirting with me or just being nice," she tweeted earlier this month.
"On that same note I have no idea how to convey to a woman I'm not just being nice, I'm flirting with you. Like yes I think you're pretty and your shoes are hot but also kiss me?"
She added that women are socialized to compliment one another in public places, as opposed to heterosexual men who do pay compliments, but all too often with ulterior motives.
"I will literally only say this once more: women are confused because it is our CULTURE to compliment each other in bars, at parties literally everywhere. We are KIND to each other."
"Men don't compliment my earrings just for funzies. This tweet was not for men to claim. Bye."
Her introspective tweet went viral with over 24K likes.
Soon, her thread was filled with comments relating to her situation and helpful tips on how to combat this specific social obstacle.
Even some men shared the same dilemma.
It depends on the situation.
@gilltheamazon Oh, I know..thats why I get awkward reactions when I compliment women's boots, clothes, make up, etc… https://t.co/ZfAUf4P6uQ— 🏳️⚧️Luna Lilith🎮 (@🏳️⚧️Luna Lilith🎮) 1547161532
@gilltheamazon If asked an either / or question, casually dropping "I'm bi, so both" into a convo has worked for me… https://t.co/ltyvjW8XGf— Kelly Fox (@Kelly Fox) 1547135956
It's not necessarily what is verbalized.
@gilltheamazon https://t.co/HWXsKoNdEI— 1997 (@1997) 1547091323
@gilltheamazon I feel like women know because I give them this face https://t.co/CCFtI1Fmm8— The LBJ+Bey Ship (@The LBJ+Bey Ship) 1547073490
@gilltheamazon In my experience, the eyes will tell you! There’s something about someone that’s attracted to you, t… https://t.co/0pkrIJhqGU— Dije, lo que dije. (@Dije, lo que dije.) 1547084635
@Naysha080 You’re pretty 💜 https://t.co/pAisGnB1Xy— nope🛸 (@nope🛸) 1547159328
Yet, even eye contact comes with its own misleading perceptions.
@formerlyMrsNBA @gilltheamazon @sportsandboobs I make forward eye contact with everyone. It's a problem I have. Men… https://t.co/qLJnusCSKr— kasbahjes (@kasbahjes) 1547136154
To avoid confusion, there is this alternative. Or not.
@gilltheamazon Tell people you're interested.— C. Prosperity Magnet 🧲 (@C. Prosperity Magnet 🧲) 1547062649
@gilltheamazon @emoblackthot I'm too shy to even tell girls I think they're pretty or I like their clothes or some… https://t.co/t8nvXFuuCt— L 🦕 (@L 🦕) 1547133038
If you have something nice to say, out with it, regardless of the outcome.
With Valentine's Day coming up, it could be freeing to throw caution to the wind and be direct.
You got this!
Bisexual people have had to deal with a ton of unfair drama for just being themselves. They are part of the rainbow too. Let's remember that!
Redditor u/Rk8ley wanted the bisexual, gender fluids to share their tales of being ostracized by asking.... Bisexuals of Reddit, especially those in straight relationships, have you ever been bullied or abused by LGBT people for not being "gay" enough? And what's your story?
H/T: REDDIT