Puberty is such a weird time for people.
And men need to educate more men.
Times and the body will always be changing.
Redditor Taran6702 wanted to hear from the men who were willing to share about those awkward hormonal days of youth. They asked:
"Guys, what's the worst part about puberty?"
Growing up is hard. I hated my body changes. Who can understand?
Hot Days
Chicken My Body Is Ready GIF by GIPHY Studios OriginalsGiphy"You are simultaneously the horniest you've ever been in your life, while having the least amount of game you'll ever have."
MrButtermancer
Skin Issues
"Acne for sure. I never had it too bad but I remember being very self concious about it. I can't imagine how some people I knew who had horrendous acne felt."
Thorst
"Adult acne is wild. puberty isn't just from age 12-18, it continues well through your 20s. Feels like most people dont realize that. I had an average amount of acne as a teen but when i hit 20 it went insane and cystic and awful. 28 now and on a new medication for it, hopefully iโll have clear skin someday."
klausmckinley801
Bloomers
"Honestly, the worst part for me was some dudes literally went through puberty overnight. Say bye to your short friend Timmy on Friday and on Monday he walk in like 6 foot 1 with a full grown beard. Some dudes literally take their entire teen years to reach a level that feels like 'manhood' and when you're a slow bloomer, it can be difficult to watch everyone around you grow up while you feel like you aren't."
gamesireallylike
Gross
"The smell. I remember the exact day in which my sweat started to stink. Of course it was at school, and of course I was the last one to notice it."
V02D
"Ever get to school and realize you forgot to put on deodorant? That public bathroom liquid soap rub on the pits was something else."
KryptonicxJesus
Mirror, Mirror
Season 20 Laughing GIF by The SimpsonsGiphy"All of these answers, and nobody has mentioned that kids in puberty just-plain look freaking terrible. Some parts of your body are adult, some parts are still child-like, and itโs all mixed awkwardly together."
SwitcherooU
What awkward years. Good for all of you willing to share.
No Jeans
jeans GIFGiphy"Being made fun of every time your voice cracks, and having to learn to hide all the boners that constantly start happening. That's when the switch from sweats to jeans happens."
ur_a_donut
bad advice
"Being constantly desperately horny all the time while simultaneously your voice is breaking and you have painful acne and perhaps most importantly adults dismiss your problems or give you horrible advice."
ActiveOppressor
Shave
"Hair in places where razors are not ideal."
pranay-007
"Also as long as you buy a half decent razor and slap some shaving cream on there (though I like to use coconut conditioner), you can shave your scrotum without too much fuss. Hairy scrotums may be the grossest thing on a human body."
LetterkennyGinger
2X
"It happens twice. Your teen years and then โฆ your 30s happen."
Magicallyjazzedup
"Happens twice for women too. Menopause is basically puberty with hot flushes and night sweats. And it can last 12 years for some women. But the symptoms are just like puberty: hormone changes, acne, mood swings, aches and pains, sh**ty menstrual cycles."
Welshgirlie2
All of it!
Snl Queen GIF by Saturday Night LiveGiphy"Where is the 'all of the above' button on this post?"
Wrong-Ad1907
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Mom Goes All Out For Daughter's 'Crazy Hair' Day At School, And She Deserves All The Prizes
That devoted crustacean wasn't kidding when he told Ariel that the human world was a mess. But it doesn't mean you can't tie it up nicely in a braid and keep on keeping on.
A mother channeled The Little Mermaid as inspiration to style her youngest daughter Atlantis's hair to slay a "crazy hair day" contest at her school.
The four-year-old's older sister, Ariel, proudly posted a photo of the result that was no contest. Not only was Atlantis's fish tail braid green to mimic the mermaid's tail, but the incorporation of the ultimate prop was the icing on the cake, and the look is making waves on the internet.
Take a look at her hair-did.
my sister had crazy hair day at school today and my mom was not playing games and really wanted her to win ๐ https://t.co/owo78whIWIโ Ariel (@Ariel) 1553011133
"My sister had crazy hair day at school today and my mom was not playing games and really wanted her to win," Ariel wrote about her mom's sink-or-swim determination.
Ariel explained to Buzzfeed News how her mother, April Castillo, arrived at the winning look that took 25 minutes to achieve.
"My mom picked the hairstyle. She had seen people use a paper doll and wasn't really feeling it, so she went the extra mile and added a real-life doll."
@aireuhl_ https://t.co/W63y5MDmwNโ ๐ฏ๐๐ฅโจ (@๐ฏ๐๐ฅโจ) 1553127685
So what inspired the Little Mermaid look? The answer lies in the fact that the seaweed is always greener on somebody else's head.
"My parents have always had quite an obsession with 'Under the Sea', so my sisters and I have always loved mermaids."
my mom did the mermaid because my name is ariel and my sister is Atlantis which is where ariel lives under the seaโฆ https://t.co/66miymaWI9โ Ariel (@Ariel) 1553026953
Ariel added that their dad, Miguel Castillo, had a huge role in completing the look.
"What no one has noticed is that the bra Ariel is wearing is homemade. My dad made it out of tape because she was a topless doll, but my mom couldn't let my sister go to school with a topless doll."
It's no surprise who swam their way to the top of the competition.
Yes my sister did win crazy hair day!! Sheโs only in pre-K lmao yโall just wait for my mom the upcoming yearsโ Ariel (@Ariel) 1553033715
@aireuhl_ I know she won thats awesome, moms was not playing. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พโ ๐๐คTT8๐ฒ Savage - Tarius๐๐พ (@๐๐คTT8๐ฒ Savage - Tarius๐๐พ) 1553180333
@aireuhl_ The closure I needed, your mom killed thatโ Bryan Uribe (@Bryan Uribe) 1553180479
@aireuhl_ Wow! Thatโs amazing mermaid hair! Happy she won ๐โ Stephanie Ruble (@Stephanie Ruble) 1553180462
@aireuhl_ AS SHE SHOULDDDDโ Antonella (@Antonella) 1553200515
People were so impressed with April's mad skillz, they hoped for a tutorial to duplicate the look for themselves. Ask and you shall receive!
Stay tuned. A YouTube video is on its way soon.
Everyone wants to see an in depth video of how my mom made the braid. We will be making a video on my YouTube channโฆ https://t.co/JQtnwcccDQโ Ariel (@Ariel) 1553198032
Others shared their impressive "crazy hair" ideas.
@aireuhl_ my mom made sure my 5 y/o lil sis won her crazy hair day at school too ๐คช๐คฉ and ofc my 3 y/o lil sis wantedโฆ https://t.co/OCtlwZBoKtโ ัฮฑzะผฮนฮทั (@ัฮฑzะผฮนฮทั) 1553090711
@aireuhl_ When my son had crazy hair day I did this to him lol https://t.co/EEKnUY3ABnโ ๐ง๐ผโโ๏ธ Janeth Saucedo ๐ง๐ผโโ๏ธ (@๐ง๐ผโโ๏ธ Janeth Saucedo ๐ง๐ผโโ๏ธ) 1553060379
@aireuhl_ @says_Denise https://t.co/cfa1C24Wniโ $olid โค๏ธ (@$olid โค๏ธ) 1553050412
Future moms were inspired to do great things. Just remember that when you come up dry for creativity, hope floats. Keep on swimming.
when I have kids Iโm going hard for everything they have , canโt waitttt https://t.co/zNdGFKB5Hkโ erykaaaa (@erykaaaa) 1553100873
Crazy hair day is a thing, and the world is better for it.
@aireuhl_ The fact that "crazy hair day" is an actual thing at schools in America makes me really happy.โ Fox (@Fox) 1553086968
Sometimes, the internet is a happy place.
Wisconsin Lawmaker Has Refused To Cut His Hair Until A Bill For The Deaf Community Passes, And Now He Looks Totally Different
State Representative Jonathan Brostoff is taking an unconventional approach to advocating for legislative protection for the deaf community.
The Democrat who represents the UW-Milwaukee area in Wisconsin is refusing to cut his hair until lawmakers pass a measure he co-authored in 2017 that addresses the state's shortage of qualified sign language interpreters.
The measure never made it beyond the committee in the Senate despite unanimous bipartisan support, so Brostoff is letting down his hair to make an important statement.
So far what he admitted to as a "spur of the moment" decision has turned into a year-long standoff with shears.
"I'm making a commitment, and it's kind of a visual indicator to the community," he told the Huffington Post.
Aware of his unkempt appearance, he is hoping he can take shears to scalp in the not-too-distant future but is willing to hold off for as long as necessary.
"My looks are important to me, but this is a priority and I'm not stopping this until we get it done. And we will get it done. For my sake, we have to get it done because I look ridiculous."
His mission is a personal one, according to Journal Sentinel. While he worked in Washington as an intern for Sen. Tom Harkin (D-Iowa), the Democrat, then sporting a buzz-cut, became close friends with two other interns who happened to be deaf, and he even took up sign language.
He is using his growing locks as a visual reminder to fulfill his promise to crack down on illegal interpretive services and to strengthen protections for deaf citizens with high-quality sign language services in medical and legal situations.
"I said, look, I'm not cutting my hair until we get this done. Every time you see me, it's a visual indicator that we're going to keep working on this. And for myself, it's a daily reminder that I'm not going to forget this."
The Facebook photo of the state Assembly Rep. below is from three years ago, before his decision to grow out his locks.
His wife Diana Vang-Brostoff used to trim his hair on a monthly basis, but as far as she is concerned, his new look has grown on her.
"It's cute. I really want him to put it in a ponytail, but he won't do that."
Former Rep. Joel Kleefisch, a Republican who worked on the 2017 measure, commented that Brostoff's hair was "channeling the spirit of Bob Ross," referring to the famous Joy of Painting artist with similarly dark and curly locks.
A very self-aware Brostoff even dressed the part for Halloween. His wife Diane is pictured here as a gumball machine.
Despite commenting on the resemblance to the famed painter, Kleefisch wholeheartedly endorsed his former colleague's important mission.
"It's a commitment, is what it is. That hair is a commitment for him."
His friends expressed how proud they were. One even gave a hair tip.
Jonathan Brostoff/Facebook
Jonathan Brostoff/Facebook
Jonathan Brostoff/Facebook
Jonathan Brostoff/Facebook
Jonathan Brostoff/Facebook
Brostoff is hopeful the bill gets passed in the upcoming months, and he's planning ahead.
"In fact, we're going to have a party for it. I've told some of the stakeholders I've been working with, we're throwing down! And I'll let you guys cut it."
Let's get this bill passed soon, shall we? Chop chop!
Teacher Surprises Student Bullied For Her Short Hair By Getting A Matching Haircut
Every day teachers go the extra mile to help their students succeed, but few would go as far as Shannon Grimm did to stand by a student being teased for her short hair.
The first thing Shannon Grimm's son told her after she traded in her waist length hair for a short pixie cut was, "You look like a boy mom."
Shannon says that was the point.
Shannon who teaches kindergarten at Meador Elementary School, in Willis, Texas, cut her hair to teach her students a lesson about being true to yourself.
For a while, the students in her class had been teasing 5-year-old Priscilla Perez for her close cropped hair and Grimm noticed that Perez had been depressed about it for some time.
"I don't want my students to worry about the way they look, because they're there to make friends and learn," Grimm said.
So over the winter break Grimm decided to cut her hair short to show support for Priscilla.
Now Shannon and Priscilla's heartwarming story is making headlines.
We don't deserve teachers ๐ญ Shannon Grimm cut her hair last month after her kindergarten student was apparently beiโฆ https://t.co/FPeHzXoMgjโ Good Morning America (@Good Morning America) 1550331000
Grimm talked about the the experience and why she decided to cut her hair in video posted to her Facebook.
"When my students come to school upset because of the way they look, that destroys me," said Grimm.
Shannon says her friends tried to discourage her from giving up her long locks, but Grimm was determined:
"Sometimes as a teacher you have to live through what your students are going through."
Grimm's touching act of support shows just how big an impact teachers can have on their students and many got a little choked up by the heartwarming story.
@GMA ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ so beautiful! I love stories like this!โ Cen (@Cen) 1550411925
@GMA So sweet! I have a knot in my throat. ๐ #heroteachersโ Shortee (@Shortee) 1550335510
@GMA We need teachers like this, Iโm crying tears of joy.โ Terrie (@Terrie) 1550333689
@ABC One act of kindness can change the course of someoneโs life. This is beautiful!โ Vivian Quevedo Arenado (@Vivian Quevedo Arenado) 1550590431
Image Willis Independent School District
When Grimm returned to school, she says her students were shocked by her new haircut.
"You can look any way and still be true to yourself and be whoever you want," she told her students.
Grimm told Today that since getting her new hairstyle she's noticed a a big change in Priscilla too:
"She was really excited. Her confidence went up."
To go with their new haircuts, Grimm also bought herself and Priscilla matching bows to wear which she keeps in the classroom.
Image Willis Independent School District
Image Willis Independent School District
It takes a special kind of teacher to go that far for a student, which is probably why so many are praising her example.
@GMA What a heartfelt story! I wish all people had the empathy of Shannon Grimm. It wasn't just a trim for Shannonโฆ https://t.co/O1swKOI2lLโ Tiara (@Tiara) 1550595786
@ABC https://t.co/pWUrNqjXl5โ Lisa.T (@Lisa.T) 1550589448
@ABC There are good people. We need to celebrate themโ chuck warner (@chuck warner) 1550589280
@ABC This is a great teacher.โ patricia W (@patricia W) 1550589234
"In life you're always going to have somebody who's not nice to you," Grimm says. "But it's all about what you do and how you react."
That's the lesson Grimm hopes her students take away from her example, having the confidence to be true to themselves:
"Giving them the confidence at school to get excited about going to school โ knowing that they have a teacher that supports them and loves them โ is something that I want to do."
Ariana Grande Revealed That Without Her Signature Ponytail She Actually Has Naturally Curly Locks
Ariana Grande's distinguishing look is tied together with her high ponytail. He iconic lookโstraight hair with extensions flowing down her shouldersโis incredibly well curated.
A user found an older photo where she was rocking a more natural look. Grande responded with an interesting hair update.
@aintgotnotears @arianashijabi they gotta grow first ! that blonde last year ........ tarnished. BUT theyโre like halfway back. :)โ Ariana Grande (@Ariana Grande) 1549830679.0
WE NEED TO SEE IT!
@grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi ๐ฅบ https://t.co/rlFhrbC1Lyโ Ariana Grande (@Ariana Grande) 1549830930.0
Fans were excited to see it. Seeing how curly her hair naturally is, they can now appreciate how much work goes into maintaining her iconic look.
While she has featured several hairstyles over the last several years besides the high top ponytail, she hasn't publicly embraced this kind of curly.
It's really cute.
@ArianaGrande @grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi ur so cute I literally love uโ gabriel โพ (@gabriel โพ) 1549839577.0
@eliralsei @ArianaGrande @grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi she looks so cute !!โ chard (@chard) 1549939819.0
@ArianaGrande @grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi WOAH ITS SO PRETTYโ Melissa ๐ โก 51 (@Melissa ๐ โก 51) 1549840036.0
Grande has seen a few ups and downs lately, with her songs "Thank U, Next" and "7 Rings" topping the billboard charts. However, she got a little embarrassed when she tried to commemorate the latter song with a tattoo that came out wrong.
She had tattooed Japanese characters on her hand that she believed read "7 Rings"; instead, they translated to "barbecue grill finger." But Grande has a good sense of humor about it.
This whole conversation started when she shared a photo of herself as a little kid with curly hair, poking fun at her looks and tattoo misspelling.
if iโm honest ..... this is still exactly what i look like without lashes and my pony ..... anyone who knows me knoโฆ https://t.co/OU9Xnpzjiuโ Ariana Grande (@Ariana Grande) 1549829924.0
She has an upcoming tour starting in March, and fans think she should wear it like this for the performances.
@ArianaGrande please bring this look along on tour ๐๐ผ๐๐ผโ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ (@๐๐๐๐๐๐) 1549840508.0
i know her long high ponytail is her trademark but,,, i rly want her to try short hair and/or curly hair perhaps inโฆ https://t.co/tCMWTJWPapโ nina (@nina) 1549831427.0
@ArianaGrande @grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi pleaseeeee wear your hair like this all the time iโm begging do it for the gaysโ jaden (@jaden) 1549833272.0
Some couldn't vocalize their feelings.
@ArianaGrande @grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi https://t.co/yCNr94Sdzkโ gisele (@gisele) 1549835010.0
hello, i still can't believe that she replied this video to me... she's such a gift from god. wow. https://t.co/6L9E9Yz6lwโ mรฉlissa (@mรฉlissa) 1549903205.0
@ArianaGrande @grandedarIing @aintgotnotears @arianashijabi https://t.co/RYgCmjzggVโ gisele (@gisele) 1549835003.0
It's great that Grande wasn't afraid to share what she looks like without hair extensions. The natural look really works for her. Maybe we'll get to see it more often.