People come into our lives for a reason, for a season, or for a lifetime. And sometimes, the people who come in for the briefest of brief seasons can really completely change us as people.
It only takes a moment to leave a strong impression, and these people left impressions so vast that the recipient's whole lives changed after meeting them. What a role to play in someone's life.
u/vSpecky asked:
Simple Yet Effective
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When I was young, there was one flight that my mother and I had completely different seats for. I tried to hold it together, but it was still pretty obvious that I was upset over the situation. One of the men next to me noticed. He told me that he was on the flight with his family, and he had a son my age. He asked me if I'd like to have his son sit with me instead. I thought it'd be nice to have another kid to talked to, so they swapped seats. The man even gave us his laptop so that we could watch the Goofy Movie during the flight. The other kid and I had a great time.
I'll never forget that man and his son. Their kindness turned an upsetting situation into one of the most enjoyable flights I ever had.
Young Man's Game
Helped an Old Lady in Walmart. We talked while I was waiting for my ride. I will never forget how her voice broke when she told me in verbatim "While you are young, you gotta live life. Cause when you turn old and you start falling apart, you just want to stop."
Such A Lovely Place, Such A Lovely Face
I remember it because it was so random. Was camping and went for a drunken walk at 2 am. Saw a light on the other side of a large pond and walked around over to it. Met a pair of Russian guys with a 6 pack of beer and a canoe and guitar. Started chatting with them and the guy with the guitar was trying to play Hotel California but they didn't really know how the vocals part went. We ended up sitting in the canoe (on land) drinking beer and singing Hotel California.
Business Biddies
I met a really successful guy on a layover in China. He was succesful in many ways: podcasts, teaching seminars, and this guy was a financial advisor. I was maybe 22 at the time and he never bragged about himself. He just wanted to get to know me more and wanted me to pursue my dreams. I still have his business card and think of him and his kindness every time I travel.
+1 Charisma
My fiancé and I once stopped at a Jack in the Box for a snack and ended up talking to a stranger for about 15-20 minutes even though we had already gotten our food. He came up to us and asked if he could talk to us because he was trying to put himself out there more, and that he didn't have good people skills. We said sure, and had a really lovely conversation with him. He definitely seemed anxious and like he may have been having a rough time in general, but I think that conversation was good for all of us, and he was genuinely trying to improve on himself. I wonder where he's at today and hope he's well. A cool dude.
Tunes For Bears To Dance To
When I was in my mid teens (a loooooong time ago) I was with some mates in town and we saw an old fella trip and fall over. We dashed over and helped him up and the owner of the cafe he was in front of came out and beckoned us in. While she fixed him a cool drink and waited for the ambo to turn up, I noticed he had a tattooed number on his arm. Being young and dumb I asked him about it. He smiled and told me that it was a concentration camp number and spent the next ten minutes giving us a factual but quite harrowing description of his younger life. When the ambo arrived, he shook all of our hands in both of his and said "you are kind boys, stay kind. I have seen many unkind people and it makes me happy to find kind ones."
To this day, I try to be kind because the impression he gave me was that evil is not thwarted by power or cunning or acts of equal evil. Genuinely, this was a brief encounter that I will never forget.
Artistic Perception
Not a romantic story: I ran a class one time which was attended by several older people, including a 77 year old man, an artist who brought some of his unpublished work and showed me. I thought he was really talented and I wanted to see him put his work out there, tried to follow up a couple of times but everyone was busy and I wasn't able to be helpful. He died not long afterwards and his work will probably never go out into the world now because I don't know if anyone he knows was really invested in it at all. I only met him that once but it still cuts me deep to think about him and everything that died with him.
Boomer Fail
Oh this is easy. I sat next to a man on a plane from Boston to Chicago who, during boarding, complained about a woman's dress bag containing her wedding dress being placed gently atop his suit jacket in the overhead bin, because it might crush it. This should have been warning enough but I'm chatty by nature and asked him some inane small talk question as we took off. This turned into a flight-long conversation in which he revealed himself to be just...awful.
He was the epitome of an oblivious boomer living in the past. When I told him I was newly employed at a university his response was to blame the recent supreme court decision for gay marriage on Harvard (???) and predicted that "now a man can marry his parrot or whatever." He expressed regretful surprise that college grads with great resumes have so much trouble finding jobs these days...and in the same breath basically called his daughter a failure for still living at home. And then for extra fun, after a few cocktails he started touching me casually, which at that point in my life and in such closed quarters I did not know how to shut down. Luckily we landed shortly after and I noped out of there reallllll fast.
He's labeled in my head as Worst Man In The World. I think of him surprisingly often.
Twix And Take 5
The guy who drove slowly through my neighborhood with the window down yelling "SNICKERS!" over and over again.
He stops and asks "Yo, have you seen a cat in the area?"
I reply "Sorry dude, haven't seen a cat."
"Cool, thanks anyway........SNIIIIICKERS!" and just keeps driving.
I hope he found his cat.
Standing Up For Fellows
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Wandering Istanbul alone (I am female) during the day. Started getting followed by a group of men - catcalling and getting explicit.
I am not a small woman but i was getting uncomfortable. Instead of walking to my hotel I stopped at small cafe hoping they would leave me alone. I sat down and ordered Apple Tea and as the owner brought it out to me the group showed up. The owner (middle aged man) laid into the group and threatened to call the police. They scattered and I spent the afternoon smoking shish-a and drinking tea while watching soccer with the owner and his son.
Went back for tea the rest of my stay but won't ever forget the feeling of safety from that man or how delicious his tea was!
When we're intoxicated, or even the slightest bit tipsy from having a little too much to drink, our immediate perspective on things is hazy.
But there's nothing like a bit of alarming news or a jarring incident to snap us out of the fog and focus on the moment.
Sometimes alcohol isn't always to blame for our impairment.
It can be a state of mind, like a perpetual numbness from being complacent in life, and all it takes is one shocking moment to rattle us back to our senses.
Curious to hear from strangers online about this type of scenario, Redditor Known_Challenge_7150 asked:
"What’s one thing that sobered you up real quick?"
These individuals were witness to shocking events that sobered them up right quick.
Bleeding Out
"Got out of a taxi and found a naked man profusely bleeding from his head crawling up the driveway in my condo. Called him an ambulance completely forgot I was absolutely wasted until 45 minutes later when I'd helped him translate and in to an amublance and stepped in my front door."
"Later a few days later learned he'd slipped in the tub and literally crawled out for help. Poor dude. He was fine but I genuinely thought he was going to die there."
– DongLaiCha
Tragic News
"At a bachelor party and we got a phone call that the groom’s father had suddenly passed."
– accountnameredacted
Bottom Of The Barrel
"I went to visit my parents back in July. I was homeless and deep into fentanyl addiction so I lost a lot of weight. My folks could see it. They knew something was up. Anyway, I spent the night and I was getting ready to leave in the morning and I looked at myself in the mirror for a good long time. I finally had enough and told them everything. They took me to detox, from there I went to rehab. Graduated in August and been living with them ever since then. I have 160 days clean and sober."
– Crotch-Monster
A reality check can be enough for some people to snap out of it.
Like Father, Like Son
"Was driving a drunk friend home, he had been on a bender again and was smart enough to call me for a lift rather than try and drive. As I helped in to his house his mother came down the stairs and said 'your as drunk as your father' and went back upstairs. I haven't seen him drunk since then, he still drinks but the thought of turning into his dad scared him out of hard drinking."
– psycospaz
Busted
"Flashing blue lights."
– FiddleOfGold
"This sobered me up just thinking about it."
– redmaple_syrup
Losing Sight
"Woke up to no sight in one eye. I had cataract surgery so just thought one of the lenses had slipped and it was an easy fix. Eye doc says nope, you had a stroke. I loved soy sauce, teriyaki sauce and salty food, which caused high blood pressure, which caused retina damage. Over six months was able to get most of my eyesight back with medication, and all back within a year. Trying to navigate life with one eye was very sobering. Started taking HBP much more seriously."
– MissHibernia
Quitting The Bottle
"Looked up someone I went to highschool with who was an awesome guy. Found out he had been dead for 3 years from alcoholism, at age 33. I made an overnight change. I hadn't started drinking that night yet, 10 months ago. Haven't touched it again since."
– omgtater
These disturbing moments were enough for Redditors to immediately come to their senses.
Unplanned House Guests
"Me and a buddy Woke up in someone’s living room, realized neither one of us knew the people, they were just nice and let 2 drunk guys sleep on their living room floor. We didn’t even say goodbye."
– Oneinsevenbillion75
Serious Health Warning
"Elevated liver enzymes."
"And the knowledge that this sh** was gonna kill me and I just couldn't orphan my family over it."
"So I opted for recovery, instead."
"Clean and sober since June 5, 2009."
– Far_Meal8674
The Joyride
"Grew up in a rural area. The little town hosted dances at the hockey arena, everyone (adults and kids) went and they overserved everyone, regardless of age. I was maybe 16 or 17 and was absolutely sh*tfaced, and jumped in the back of someone's truck with about 8 other people to go back to someone's cottage for after dance drinking. The driver (still don't know who it was) started racing one of his buddies and we whipped around small dirt roads, flying around blind corners on the wrong side of the road, going god knows how fast. It was basically a disaster waiting to happen. It was crazy scary and I was sober and thankful to be alive when we finally arrived."
– foxfood9116
The human psyche is a fascinating thing, isn't it?
How we can automatically focus on something urgent at a crucial time, even after getting buzzed from drinking too much alcohol.
But as we're in the thick of the holidays, it's a good reminder to drink responsibly and stay off the roads if you drive to your celebratory destination.
Cheers. Stay safe. And happy holidays.
We've all complained or vented about something in our lives which, in the grand scheme of things, wasn't exactly a problem, or is very easily solved.
Then there are those who complain about things that others almost hope will happen to them at some point in their lives.
These are known as "first world problems", as they are problems that pretty much only the world's one percent faces.
From having to fly business class instead of first class, or being served Roederer instead of Dom Pérignon, these complaints are often met with amusement, bewilderment, or even anger.
Redditor jennimackenzie was curious to hear the most absurd "first world problems" anyone ever complained about, leading them to ask:
"What’s the most ridiculous 'first world problem' you’ve seen people get worked up over?"
"Tale As Old As Time..."
"I once knew a mom who was legitimately devastated, to the point of tears/grief, because a doctor predicted her 8 year old daughter's final height to be around 5'2","
"Which wasn't tall enough to get cast as Belle at Disney World."
"That was the child's (and her mother's) only dream in life, apparently."
"Didn't appreciate my suggestion that she could be Minnie or Mickey."
"Lol!"
"Only a face character would do!"- TravelLovingMom
"Must Be Funny, In A Rich Man's World..."
"My boss from about a decade ago was this insanely rich dude who always went to the bank to get fresh and crisp currency."
"He'd call the bank in advance to make sure they had some on hand."
"I think he was a germaphobe."
"He had a trash can that he'd throw $1 and $5 bills in that he thought was 'dirty' and regularly just donated it vs spending it."
"I asked him why he did this and he said it was too much trouble and asked if I wanted it."
"I said f*ck yeah dumped it into my bag and when I got home it was close to $400 in singles and fives.
"Another time, he wanted to upgrade all the computers in his studio, so we went to a store and bought 10 PCs."
"They all had $150 mail in rebates and he wasn't bothered to go through the trouble of mailing them in."
"3 weeks later I received $1500 after spending a whole afternoon filling out all those goddamn forms."- azninvasion2000
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Who Wore It Better?
"When I was about 19 years old, I was at my boyfriends family BBQ."
"I was wearing this pretty floral sundress."
"His cousins girlfriend showed up in the same dress and she was SO mad that she went and changed."
"I will never understand being upset when someone is wearing the same thing as you.'
"Did you really think that your shirt you bought off the rack is going to be unique to you?"
"No."- mertsey627
Seeing Red! Or Blue In This Case...
"The blue of the balloons wasn't quite the same as the bridesmaid's sashes."
"Years ago my wife and I attended a wedding."
"It was very low key."
"The dinner was in the dining hall at the university where the couple met, cinder block walls and all."
"It was a Baptist wedding - no booze and very serious."
"The dark blue balloons attempting to liven up the hall were a slightly darker shade of blue than the sashes on the bridesmaid's dresses."
"The bride lost here sh*t and absolutely raved for nearly an hour."
"I can't remember how they finally managed to talk her down."- mechant_papa
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See You In Court!
"Rich neighbors who end up in expensive court battles because they disagree about where a tree can be planted or whether the color of a fence fits in with the street’s 'amenity'."
'These disputes get really heated and rack up huge lawyers’ bills."
"The most pathetic part is after the judgement when they are arguing about who should pay the other party’s costs."
"Lots of affidavits filed citing the 'emotional distress' they had to endure, or painting themselves as brave warriors who were forced to take a stand to fight for 'justice'."
"Also lots of pompous litigants insisting that the judge refer to them by their 'Dr' title."
"An absolutely insane dumpster fire of entitled rich people problems."- ElectrocRaisin
It's Always People With Money Who Don't Want To Pay!
"I work in a public library."
"People will get so so mad if they have to be put on a wait list for a book."
"A popular book that just came out."
"Ok our services are not only free but so are the books."
"You’re welcome, a**holes."- Switchbladekitten
A Warm Butt Is A Happy Butt!
"My own."
"We have a bidet toilet seat (Fabulous! Everyone should have one!) and not only does it wash your bum and blow dry it, but the seat's heated!"
"It's shocking how much a heated toilet seat makes the whole process more agreeable."
"Except: We had a power outage and I went to use the toilet and the seat was cold!"
"Unacceptable!"
"This shall not stand!"
"I was really upset because it didn't feel good."
"Then I stopped and thought: This is the most first-world problem anyone's ever had."
"I was really pissed because my heiny was tepid."
"I got over it."- DeathGrover
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Holy Matrimony!
"Weddings are a gold mine for this question."
"People get so hyped up over their 'most important day of their life'."
"They'll destroy friendships, go into debt, and have crazy expectations."
"It's not always the couple who go crazy, either."
"Sometimes, it's the parents or another family member who feels entitled to control the wedding."
"It's just a party."
"Be considerate of guests, have plenty of food and drinks, and enjoy it."- magicrowantree
When Fast Food Isn't Fast Enough...
"Having to pull off to the side to wait for a drive-thru order to be brought out to you because your food isn't ready and there's a line building up behind you."- demanbmore
In Case You Don't Think Customer Service Employees Are Undervalued...
"I was working the return desk at a Target next to a military base so I have so many stories."
"One of my favorites was a lady who had her baby shower before revealing the gender and was livid that she had received floral newborn diapers when she’s having a boy."
"It was a huge box of super expensive, all organic diapers, that we didn’t carry and therefore could not return."
"I cannot accurately express her fury and disgust."
"How dare either suggest her boy could wear feminine diapers."
"I suggested she donate them if she didn’t want to use them and she instead threw away the entire box."
"When she left we pulled it out and threw it in our donate bin."
"There have also been multiple times where mom’s order massive toys and when we bring them out to the car they get furious that they aren’t wrapped."
"We don’t offer wrapping services."
"Here’s the thing, if you don’t want your kids to see the toys you got them for Christmas or their bit to day DON'T BRING THE CHILD WHEN YOU PICK IT UP."
'I’ve had multiple women scream and curse me out that I had ruined their kids Christmas by bringing the toys they ordered out to the car like they requested."- clever-mermaid-mae
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Happiest Place On Earth!
"I used to work for Disney."
"That in itself should tell you everything."
"However for fun I'll give you two specific stories one form our tech department and one from my wife who worked bookings."
"I specifically worked for their call center to help with technical issues with magic band and the website."
"Suddenly got worse huh?"
"A right of passage call everyone has at least one story of is the 'Dome call'."
"Basically there is a subset of Disney Guest (TM) that believes if it rains at Walt Disney world there is someone that will push a button to encapsulate the whole of Disney property in a dome to keep out the rain."
"I'm not kidding."
"If this button is not pushed they call our tech department to angrily ask why."
"My wife worked booking."
"Pretty much everything including Bibbidi Bobbidi boutique and Pirate's league."
"These two things did roughly the same thing difference being price and theme."
"BBB was expensive did more and was focused on princesses, pirates league did a bit less and focused on mermaids and pirates."
"Lady called up my wife, and got pissed about BBB being booked up (It goes FAAAAST)."
"Karen: 'Im going to give the phone to my daughter and I want you to tell her how you are ruining her vacation by not letting her do BBB'."
"Wife proceeds to explain how pirate's league is so much cooler and how she can be a mermaid or pirate and basically gets the kid to start demanding to their parents about how they want to be a mermaid instead of a princess."- trollsong
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The horror!
Being booked into a junior suite at Disney World instead of an executive suite!
It's almost as bad as having no money for groceries, or no food to feed you children...
Said absolutely no one.