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People Reflect On Which Aspects Of Their Lives Are Going Well

People Reflect On Which Aspects Of Their Lives Are Going Well
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Self reflection is a critical skill. When we reflect on our lives, our work, our academics, we actually learn more about ourselves and can improve in the future.

Not only that, but looking at the positive aspects of life can actually improve your health.

The Mayo Clinic says positive thinking can reduce stress and depression, increase resistance to the common cold, improve cardiovascular health, and even lengthen your life span.

Redditor poodewoopwoopwoop wanted to know:

"What is going good in your life?"

Let's take a moment to reflect on what good is happening in the world and in our own lives.

The treatment is working.

"My cancer is finally showing signs of shrinking from treatment."

- 22poppills


- Microsofte

"F*ck yeah. F*ck cancer, go you. I hope you're feeling well. Treatment can be a b*tch as well."

- poodewoopwoopwoop

It's good to be grateful for you're and it's also okay to have thing you're sad about at the same time.

"Good Health."

"I have fortunately been blessed with good health, and I'm even more grateful then I ever would have been before the virus."

"But at the same time, my social activity has been really bad. I'm unfortunate enough to live far away from my entire family. I want to see them all so badly."

"Even though I may be out of lockdown, borders are still closed. This really makes me upset at times, especially considering I have some new family members I want to meet."

- uhhiiguessuhm

​There's a lot to be grateful for.

"I'm coming to appreciate the basics on a day-to-day basis."

  • "I have a roof over my head; there were times I nearly didn't."
  • "I have a job that always pays on time, and pretty well given my lack of degree; there were times I made minimum wage in a clay factory."
  • "I can afford food; there were times I couldn't."
  • "I have a car and enjoy it; there were times where I could barely keep a beater on the road."
  • "There's a couple people I could call upon if I need help; there were times where I didn't and it was terrifying and lonely."
  • "Despite chronic pain and spine issues, I have all my limbs and they work. My organs function pretty good, too. I can be active and still enjoy life despite that."

"I still get caught up in both boring and existential anxieties about the future, because of course. Will the job last? Will the chronic pain send me back into another depression? Will I ever be able to retire?"

"But I like to take a step back and have that moment of, 'You know what? This isn't so bad, and you know what? It's not just not bad, it's pretty good, too.'"

- NotChristina

A new love.

"My relationship is amazing."

- BriaCass

"New relationship, nearly together for 1 year. Getting over a past ex, therapy going well which is helping me to ruminate less."

- Jusmumbo1

"I never thought I'd date again. Forced myself anyway and found the person for me. You couldn't tell me love existed. I'm moving into his house soon. It doesn't feel real to be loved like this. It's awesome."

- Ariannaree

New jobs.

"I have a great new job. I'm so happy here."

- AdZestyclose353

"I quit a bad job with no backup plan, and then I got a letter saying 'Btw you had a 401k you can withdraw from if you need.'"

"I'm not planning on it but it's helping me avoid getting over-stressed."

- Jusmumbo1

"I have less than 2 weeks left at my current 2nd shift hell job I've been at for 3 years (though to be fair, it only started sucking HORRIBLY this past year), and will be starting a M-F 8-5 government job later this month."

- legolug

"I'm leaving my current job which has turned into a depressing nightmare and landed a job with my #1 engineering firm."

"Worked with them in my current position throughout the years. They all seem friendly, like their jobs, and I like the kinds of work they do."

"They're also located in our downtown area and I'm trading a 30 minute driving commute for a 30 minute bus ride. No time saved but I don't have to be functional for it, so it's a win to me."

- FistedTate

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The world can be a superstitious place. If you've ever knocked on wood or thrown salt over your shoulder then you've run into one or two throughout your life...

"My last day working at a job that makes me miserable is on Friday, and I'm about two months away from being permanently reunited with my fiancé and our doggos."

- thatsapaddlin31

"Well, I'm 27 years young and about to be making 18.50 an hour once my job gets the details about all of our raises ironed out. Which is awesome. Financial security is a huge stress relief when you come from a family who is still not financially secure on their own. Also sticking to some pretty healthy boundaries and I've been happily married almost a year and a half!"

- beautifulbloop

"Almost 4 months sober and a new job!"

- Icy_Ad_6066

"I got out of rehab 3 months ago and just got my first 'adult' job. Finally feel like I have at least some semblance of a path, albeit not one I've dreamed about. It's progress nonetheless and I'm learning that sometimes a wrong choice is better than no choice at all. Happy to end a long period of stagnation in my life and hope this flourishes into something I can take pride in one day."

- Glum-Fishing5

Thankful for family.

"My daughters. Only thing keeps me going."

- Mrlostsoul90

"Having my 2 wonderful kids. They are what puts a smile on my face every day and keeps me pushing forward."

- Open-Platform7196

"My daughter is the most amazing thing in this world. She's beautiful, smart as a whip, funny as all hell, and more loving than anyone I've ever met. Two weeks ago she made me the most proud father ever. We were at a little pond and she hooked, and fought for about 5 minutes, an 8 pound largemouth. Later that night I found out she got the highest grades in her class. She is five years old."

- WranglerSilver6451

A frank discussion.

"Despite being 26, I've never had a job or really gotten started on being an adult because my overly lenient and emotionally distant father never helped me get the proper stuff to get the ball rolling so to speak."

"But it seems like that's finally started to change after a pretty blunt discussion I had with him about it after he tried to tell me that I need to start taking responsibility for myself."

"We've talked about finally getting me an ID so I can start working at a nearby gas station that my friend works at that pays decently well for a first job ($14 an hour) has full benefits and is really close, and while I'm nervous it also feels good knowing that I'm finally taking some real tangible steps forward in my life."

- FrameUsual

Thankful for friends.

"I have a good group of friends and i am about to start college in a year."

- not-creative123

A new home.

"29 and just bought a house."

- No-Worldliness-3741


- missyo5

Confidence in school.

"I actually feel like I'm trying in school, whether or not that backfires in my face when I get a report card I don't care right now. I have some academic confidence and it feels pretty nice."

- SomeKidWhoPlaysGD

"A year ago, I decided to go back to school to get a certification in the medical field. My kids are getting older, my husband would like to retire or at least work less, and I wanted a new marketable skill for myself. Here it is a year later and not only did I graduate from that program top of my class, but I went for second certification in a related field and I graduate next week. Job prospects look good too. It just blows my mind that a year ago I had none of this."

- PacificCoastHighway2

"Gained a habit of studying everyday (sometimes with one day off). Makes me way happier than procrastinating all the time."

- RaccoonsBurnInHell

"Hockey! I'm hoping to make varsity at my high school so fingers crossed!"

- tottheshmeeg

Making a nice meal.


"I was terrible at cooking before I met my fiancée, and now we have started cooking together every night and I have improved quite a bit. It's quite relaxing and exactly what I needed in my life."

- MourningPath

An upcoming birthday.

"I'm like 6 months away from being able to legally drink myself to death. This also means the ladies will want me more. Right? Right fellas? Fellas?"

- MarvinMelancholy

"Y.. yeah. Sure man, they will. Absolutely."

"So um, how's it going? I heard therapy is nice and all."

- poodewoopwoopwoop

Stocks are up.

"Stocks are flying high lately. Looks like risk-on trading is back on the menu, boys!"

- Hrnghekth

Sometimes it's hard to see what's going well.

"Not much at the moment."

- _ManWhoSoldTheWorld_

If you feel like there isn't a lot going well in your life, that can be very overwhelming or depressing. Here's a list from Psychology Today of helpful ways to keep yourself going when things just aren't going your way.

Whatever it may be that you're going through, reflecting on what we have to be grateful for is an important practice.

It's part of taking care of yourself, especially when there's a global pandemic and the world feels really heavy.

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People Reveal The Weirdest Thing About Themselves

Reddit user Isitjustmedownhere asked: 'Give an example; how weird are you really?'

Let's get one thing straight: no one is normal. We're all weird in our own ways, and that is actually normal.

Of course, that doesn't mean we don't all have that one strange trait or quirk that outweighs all the other weirdness we possess.

For me, it's the fact that I'm almost 30 years old, and I still have an imaginary friend. Her name is Sarah, she has red hair and green eyes, and I strongly believe that, since I lived in India when I created her and there were no actual people with red hair around, she was based on Daphne Blake from Scooby-Doo.

I also didn't know the name Sarah when I created her, so that came later. I know she's not really there, hence the term 'imaginary friend,' but she's kind of always been around. We all have conversations in our heads; mine are with Sarah. She keeps me on task and efficient.

My mom thinks I'm crazy that I still have an imaginary friend, and writing about her like this makes me think I may actually be crazy, but I don't mind. As I said, we're all weird, and we all have that one trait that outweighs all the other weirdness.

Redditors know this all too well and are eager to share their weird traits.

It all started when Redditor Isitjustmedownhere asked:

"Give an example; how weird are you really?"

Monsters Under My Bed

"My bed doesn't touch any wall."

"Edit: I guess i should clarify im not rich."

– Practical_Eye_3600

"Gosh the monsters can get you from any angle then."

– bikergirlr7

"At first I thought this was a flex on how big your bedroom is, but then I realized you're just a psycho 😁"

– zenOFiniquity8

Can You See Why?

"I bought one of those super-powerful fans to dry a basement carpet. Afterwards, I realized that it can point straight up and that it would be amazing to use on myself post-shower. Now I squeegee my body with my hands, step out of the shower and get blasted by a wide jet of room-temp air. I barely use my towel at all. Wife thinks I'm weird."

– KingBooRadley


"In 1990 when I was 8 years old and bored on a field trip, I saw a black Oldsmobile Cutlass driving down the street on a hot day to where you could see that mirage like distortion from the heat on the road. I took a “snapshot” by blinking my eyes and told myself “I wonder how long I can remember this image” ….well."

– AquamarineCheetah

"Even before smartphones, I always take "snapshots" by blinking my eyes hoping I'll remember every detail so I can draw it when I get home. Unfortunately, I may have taken so much snapshots that I can no longer remember every detail I want to draw."

"Makes me think my "memory is full.""

– Reasonable-Pirate902

Same, Same

"I have eaten the same lunch every day for the past 4 years and I'm not bored yet."

– OhhGoood

"How f**king big was this lunch when you started?"

– notmyrealnam3

Not Sure Who Was Weirder

"Had a line cook that worked for us for 6 months never said much. My sous chef once told him with no context, "Baw wit da baw daw bang daw bang diggy diggy." The guy smiled, left, and never came back."

– Frostygrunt


"I pace around my house for hours listening to music imagining that I have done all the things I simply lack the brain capacity to do, or in some really bizarre scenarios, I can really get immersed in these imaginations sometimes I don't know if this is some form of schizophrenia or what."

– RandomSharinganUser

"I do the same exact thing, sometimes for hours. When I was young it would be a ridiculous amount of time and many years later it’s sort of trickled off into almost nothing (almost). It’s weird but I just thought it’s how my brain processes sh*t."

– Kolkeia

If Only

"Even as an adult I still think that if you are in a car that goes over a cliff; and right as you are about to hit the ground if you jump up you can avoid the damage and will land safely. I know I'm wrong. You shut up. I'm not crying."

– ShotCompetition2593

Pet Food

"As a kid I would snack on my dog's Milkbones."

– drummerskillit

"Haha, I have a clear memory of myself doing this as well. I was around 3 y/o. Needless to say no one was supervising me."

– Isitjustmedownhere

"When I was younger, one of my responsibilities was to feed the pet fish every day. Instead, I would hide under the futon in the spare bedroom and eat the fish food."

– -GateKeep-

My Favorite Subject

"I'm autistic and have always had a thing for insects. My neurotypical best friend and I used to hang out at this local bar to talk to girls, back in the late 90s. One time he claimed that my tendency to circle conversations back to insects was hurting my game. The next time we went to that bar (with a few other friends), he turned and said sternly "No talking about bugs. Or space, or statistics or other bullsh*t but mainly no bugs." I felt like he was losing his mind over nothing."

"It was summer, the bar had its windows open. Our group hit it off with a group of young ladies, We were all chatting and having a good time. I was talking to one of these girls, my buddy was behind her facing away from me talking to a few other people."

"A cloudless sulphur flies in and lands on little thing that holds coasters."

"Cue Jordan Peele sweating gif."

"The girl notices my tension, and asks if I am looking at the leaf. "Actually, that's a lepidoptera called..." I looked at the back of my friend's head, he wasn't looking, "I mean a butterfly..." I poked it and it spread its wings the girl says "oh that's a BUG?!" and I still remember my friend turning around slowly to look at me with chastisement. The ONE thing he told me not to do."

"I was 21, and was completely not aware that I already had a rep for being an oddball. It got worse from there."

– Phormicidae

*Teeth Chatter*

"I bite ice cream sometimes."


"That's how I am with popsicles. My wife shudders every single time."


Never Speak Of This

"I put ice in my milk."


"You should keep that kind of thing to yourself. Even when asked."

– We-R-Doomed

"There's some disturbing sh*t in this thread, but this one takes the cake."

– RatonaMuffin

More Than Super Hearing

"I can hear the television while it's on mute."

– Tira13e

"What does it say to you, child?"

– Mama_Skip


"I put mustard on my omelettes."

– Deleted User


– NotCrustOr-filling

Evened Up

"Whenever I say a word and feel like I used a half of my mouth more than the other half, I have to even it out by saying the word again using the other half of my mouth more. If I don't do it correctly, that can go on forever until I feel it's ok."

"I do it silently so I don't creep people out."

– LesPaltaX

"That sounds like a symptom of OCD (I have it myself). Some people with OCD feel like certain actions have to be balanced (like counting or making sure physical movements are even). You should find a therapist who specializes in OCD, because they can help you."

– MoonlightKayla

I totally have the same need for things to be balanced! Guess I'm weird and a little OCD!

Close up face of a woman in bed, staring into the camera
Photo by Jen Theodore

Experiencing death is a fascinating and frightening idea.

Who doesn't want to know what is waiting for us on the other side?

But so many of us want to know and then come back and live a little longer.

It would be so great to be sure there is something else.

But the whole dying part is not that great, so we'll have to rely on other people's accounts.

Redditor AlaskaStiletto wanted to hear from everyone who has returned to life, so they asked:

"Redditors who have 'died' and come back to life, what did you see?"


Happy Good Vibes GIF by Major League SoccerGiphy

"My dad's heart stopped when he had a heart attack and he had to be brought back to life. He kept the paper copy of the heart monitor which shows he flatlined. He said he felt an overwhelming sensation of peace, like nothing he had felt before."



"I had surgical complications in 2010 that caused a great deal of blood loss. As a result, I had extremely low blood pressure and could barely stay awake. I remember feeling like I was surrounded by loved ones who had passed. They were in a circle around me and I knew they were there to guide me onwards. I told them I was not ready to go because my kids needed me and I came back."

"My nurse later said she was afraid she’d find me dead every time she came into the room."

"It took months, and blood transfusions, but I recovered."


Take Me Back

"Overwhelming peace and happiness. A bright airy and floating feeling. I live a very stressful life. Imagine finding out the person you have had a crush on reveals they have the same feelings for you and then you win the lotto later that day - that was the feeling I had."

"I never feared death afterward and am relieved when I hear of people dying after suffering from an illness."



The Light Minnie GIF by (G)I-DLEGiphy

"I had a heart surgery with near-death experience, for me at least (well the possibility that those effects are caused by morphine is also there) I just saw black and nothing else but it was warm and I had such inner peace, its weird as I sometimes still think about it and wish this feeling of being so light and free again."


This is why I hate surgery.

You just never know.



"More of a near-death experience. I was electrocuted. I felt like I was in a deep hole looking straight up in the sky. My life flashed before me. Felt sad for my family, but I had a deep sense of peace."



"Nursing in the ICU, we’ve had people try to die on us many times during the years, some successfully. One guy stood out to me. His heart stopped. We called a code, are working on him, and suddenly he comes to. We hadn’t vented him yet, so he was able to talk, and he started screaming, 'Don’t let them take me, don’t let them take me, they are coming,' he was scared and yelling."

"Then he yelled a little more, as we tried to calm him down, he screamed, 'No, No,' and gestured towards the end of the bed, and died again. We didn’t get him back. It was seriously creepy. We called his son to tell him the news, and the son said basically, 'Good, he was an SOB.'”



"My sister died and said it was extremely peaceful. She said it was very loud like a train station and lots of talking and she was stuck in this area that was like a curtain with lots of beautiful colors (colors that you don’t see in real life according to her) a man told her 'He was sorry, but she had to go back as it wasn’t her time.'"


"I had a really similar experience except I was in an endless garden with flowers that were colors I had never seen before. It was quiet and peaceful and a woman in a dress looked at me, shook her head, and just said 'Not yet.' As I was coming back, it was extremely loud, like everyone in the world was trying to talk all at once. It was all very disorienting but it changed my perspective on life!"


The Fog

"I was in a gray fog with a girl who looked a lot like a young version of my grandmother (who was still alive) but dressed like a pioneer in the 1800s she didn't say anything but kept pulling me towards an opening in the wall. I kept refusing to go because I was so tired."

"I finally got tired of her nagging and went and that's when I came to. I had bled out during a c-section and my heart could not beat without blood. They had to deliver the baby and sew up the bleeders. refill me with blood before they could restart my heart so, like, at least 12 minutes gone."


Through the Walls

"My spouse was dead for a couple of minutes one miserable night. She maintains that she saw nothing, but only heard people talking about her like through a wall. The only thing she remembers for absolute certain was begging an ER nurse that she didn't want to die."

"She's quite alive and well today."


Well let's all be happy to be alive.

It seems to be all we have.

Man's waist line
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Trying to lose weight is a struggle understood by many people regardless of size.

The goal of reaching a healthy weight may seem unattainable, but with diet and exercise, it can pay off through persistence and discipline.

Seeing the pounds gradually drop off can also be a great motivator and incentivize people to stay the course.

Those who've achieved their respective weight goals shared their experiences when Redditor apprenti8455 asked:

"People who lost a lot of weight, what surprises you the most now?"

Redditors didn't see these coming.

Shiver Me Timbers

"I’m always cold now!"

– Telrom_1

"I had a coworker lose over 130 pounds five or six years ago. I’ve never seen him without a jacket on since."

– r7ndom

"140 lbs lost here starting just before COVID, I feel like that little old lady that's always cold, damn this top comment was on point lmao."

– mr_remy

Drawing Concern

"I lost 100 pounds over a year and a half but since I’m old(70’s) it seems few people comment on it because (I think) they think I’m wasting away from some terminal illness."

– dee-fondy

"Congrats on the weight loss! It’s honestly a real accomplishment 🙂"

"Working in oncology, I can never comment on someone’s weight loss unless I specifically know it was on purpose, regardless of their age. I think it kind of ruffles feathers at times, but like I don’t want to congratulate someone for having cancer or something. It’s a weird place to be in."

– LizardofDeath

Unleashing Insults

"I remember when I lost the first big chunk of weight (around 50 lbs) it was like it gave some people license to talk sh*t about the 'old' me. Old coworkers, friends, made a lot of not just negative, but harsh comments about what I used to look like. One person I met after the big loss saw a picture of me prior and said, 'Wow, we wouldn’t even be friends!'”

"It wasn’t extremely common, but I was a little alarmed by some of the attention. My weight has been up and down since then, but every time I gain a little it gets me a little down thinking about those things people said."

– alanamablamaspama

Not Everything Goes After Losing Weight

"The loose skin is a bit unexpected."

– KeltarCentauri

"I haven’t experienced it myself, but surgery to remove skin takes a long time to recover. Longer than bariatric surgery and usually isn’t covered by insurance unless you have both."

– KatMagic1977

"It definitely does take a long time to recover. My Dad dropped a little over 200 pounds a few years back and decided to go through with skin removal surgery to deal with the excess. His procedure was extensive, as in he had skin taken from just about every part of his body excluding his head, and he went through hell for weeks in recovery, and he was bedridden for a lot of it."

– Jaew96

These Redditors shared their pleasantly surprising experiences.


"I can buy clothes in any store I want."

– WaySavvyD

"When I lost weight I was dying to go find cute, smaller clothes and I really struggled. As someone who had always been restricted to one or two stores that catered to plus-sized clothing, a full mall of shops with items in my size was daunting. Too many options and not enough knowledge of brands that were good vs cheap. I usually went home pretty frustrated."

– ganache98012

No More Symptoms

"Lost about 80 pounds in the past year and a half, biggest thing that I’ve noticed that I haven’t seen mentioned on here yet is my acid reflux and heartburn are basically gone. I used to be popping tums every couple hours and now they just sit in the medicine cabinet collecting dust."

– colleennicole93

Expanding Capabilities

"I'm all for not judging people by their appearance and I recognise that there are unhealthy, unachievable beauty standards, but one thing that is undeniable is that I can just do stuff now. Just stamina and flexibility alone are worth it, appearance is tertiary at best."

– Ramblonius

People Change Their Tune

"How much nicer people are to you."

"My feet weren't 'wide' they were 'fat.'"

– LiZZygsu

"Have to agree. Lost 220 lbs, people make eye contact and hold open doors and stuff"

"And on the foot thing, I also lost a full shoe size numerically and also wear regular width now 😅"

– awholedamngarden

It's gonna take some getting used to.

Bones Everywhere

"Having bones. Collarbones, wrist bones, knee bones, hip bones, ribs. I have so many bones sticking out everywhere and it’s weird as hell."

– Princess-Pancake-97

"I noticed the shadow of my ribs the other day and it threw me, there’s a whole skeleton in here."

– bekastrange

Knee Pillow

"Right?! And they’re so … pointy! Now I get why people sleep with pillows between their legs - the knee bones laying on top of each other (side sleeper here) is weird and jarring."

– snic2030

"I lost only 40 pounds within the last year or so. I’m struggling to relate to most of these comments as I feel like I just 'slimmed down' rather than dropped a ton. But wow, the pillow between the knees at night. YES! I can relate to this. I think a lot of my weight was in my thighs. I never needed to do this up until recently."

– Strongbad23

More Mobility

"I’ve lost 100 lbs since 2020. It’s a collection of little things that surprise me. For at least 10 years I couldn’t put on socks, or tie my shoes. I couldn’t bend over and pick something up. I couldn’t climb a ladder to fix something. Simple things like that I can do now that fascinate me."

"Edit: Some additional little things are sitting in a chair with arms, sitting in a booth in a restaurant, being able to shop in a normal store AND not needing to buy the biggest size there, being able to easily wipe my butt, and looking down and being able to see my penis."

– dma1965

People making significant changes, whether for mental or physical health, can surely find a newfound perspective on life.

But they can also discover different issues they never saw coming.

That being said, overcoming any challenge in life is laudable, especially if it leads to gaining confidence and ditching insecurities.