People Divulge Unconventional Things That Turn Them On

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We all have different opinions about dating, marriage, and even our sex lives, but one thing we can all agree on is that we should have a good time.

And some people are not shy about sharing what makes them happy.


Redditor mini-mum-wage asked:

"What is an unconventional thing you find sexy?"

Just Hands

"Hands, it’s so f**king stupid, I know, but I swear to god, when I see large and veiny (not like grandpa veiny but still) hands, I’m giggling and swinging my feet, twirling my hair, and everyone around is absolutely hornswoggled."

- PANSEXUALKALIMBA

Like the Song

"I like a girl in a short skirt and a looooooong jacket."

- Horsetoots

A Preview

"When hubby reaches for something above his head and his shirt rises just enough that his belly shows...no idea why but damn, gets the lady bits all worked up."

- No_touchie_ma_boobs

Peek-A-Boo

​"The little curly wispy hair at the base of a girl's hairline."

"No idea why."

- stumpdawg

It Hits Different

"I think it is hot if a middle-aged woman wears a business suit and puts her hands on her hips and tells me she is disappointed with me."

- inkseep1

A Proper Sailor

"Ability to cuss effectively and within context."

- Adventurous-Flow4228

Symmetry Who?

"I find an asymmetrical smile very cute. There’s a YouTube channel Charismatic Voice and she is a good example of what I mean as she often smiles higher on one side. It doesn’t seem super common but I’ve noticed it as a trait of a few people."

- Eternal-Bagel

Passionate Chats

"I love when they get lost in their thoughts and talk about what interests them. Eventually, they come back to reality and apologize for rambling but I tell them to continue."

"You know they've been hurt before but they're with me now, and I love the passion."

- YaFairy

Occasional Exposure

"When the nape of the neck is exposed on someone who typically has their hair down… Good God."

- ceaseless-watcher

Knowledge is Sexy

"I like a girl I can learn from, even if she's not like directly teaching me but I can still learn something from watching her."

- SleepySleeprsn

Nervousness is Interesting

"When a guy is nervous when he's talking to me and his voice quivers."

- agentscully222

Eye-to-Eye

"I seem to be in a small minority of people in preferring partners my own height. I think there's something really sexy about seeing literally eye to eye."

- Emu_on_the_Loose

Vulnerability

"When men blush. Goodbye, panties."

- Think_Doughnut628

Lines Tell a Story

"Laugh lines on a guy’s face. My boyfriend has the most beautiful perfect little creases on an otherwise smooth face. it’s so enchanting because he’s otherwise a very stoic person."

- ReasonablePudding96

What's on the Face Counts

"Big or unique noses. It's something I've always loved about other people, and in recent years, it's something I've come to love about myself."

- strawberryyogurt_

This was a fun reminder that everyone has their own preferences, and something that may not work for someone will make someone else very, very happy.

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