They are someone who never forget, for good or for bad or for mediocre. The person we share that special moment on life with. For some reason (hopefully a good one) we gave this person one of our most sacred moments. Sex is a huge step in the life and the person we first lay with is the blueprint for all that follow....
Redditor wayback82 was wondering if anyone was willing to discuss one of life's most intimate moments by asking:
What happened to that person that took your virginity? Where are they in life?
She's now my step-sister....
"She's now my step-sister..."
"Edit: she's not a anime banjo playing teacher, wtf you all talking about?"
"However for some context: we were together for about 2years. First proper relationship for both of us. Broke up 6months after I went to uni. Within the year our parents were dating and are now married. Thankfully I've never had to live under the same roof as her, although our parents bought a house where we both have a bedroom so stay if we want.. I've stayed there once in about 4 years. It's all very civil as it seems a while ago now, we pretty much only see each other at Christmas dinner." ThisIsBuzzard
Oh Girl...
"She married the next guy she dated. Had 2 kids and moved to Boston. He cheated on her with another dude and left her recently."Boston_balloon_boy
HATE CANCER!
"Dead. HATE cancer. We did have an almost 25 year run though. EDIT: thank you for the warm wishes. I lost her 2.5 years ago (come Tuesday) and our children and I are doing much better. Interestingly I just noticed the date and realized that first time was 25 years ago last week."damageddude
I Think About Her....
"We are still decent friends for the last 19 years, she recently got married to a very nice guy and they have good careers in tech. I am very happy for them."BaronSolace
"It's always wholesome when you can still hold someone in a kind regard after a breakup."
"My answer: not long after we started dating, she took on two jobs while also caring for her grandma. She didn't have time for me anymore so we broke up even though we didn't want to. Last I spoke to her, she rented a house to live with her grandma in and was having ovary problems so she was going to get surgery to get them removed, ruining her goal of having kids. I asked her to let me know when the surgery was so I could check up on her, but I never heard from her again. It's been a year and I still think about her every day."redgroupclan
I'm #1!!!
Giphy"He is now an OB/GYN.... sometimes it makes me laugh that he sees dozens of vaginas a day, but mine was the first." jul1992
Hey South Carolina....
"We took each other's virginity about 20 years ago. She's a psychologist now, has her own practice, lives in SC. Still looks amazing, still does gymnastics. Married, Has two kids. We still talk once a year or so and are still friends after all these years." B_Addie
Settled....
"He's married but he's only been faithful to her for two years of their six year marriage. So. She's only ever been with him and he resents the heck out of her for "having" to settle."lynrenle
Ever After...
Giphy"He's downstairs playing video games and watching over our newborn twins while I take a bath."Mama2Moon
"Congrats on the new babies. Twins are a wild ride :)."kittycoppermine
There is Hope.
"I have no clue, but I hope he was able to move on as I have. We both spent years mourning the loss of the relationship. I'm good now and I hope he is too. It was a nice relationship, and it ended amicably."tanya6k
Rough Tines....
Giphy"I saw her at a parade a while back. She had a couple of kids and looked rougher than I remembered. Meth'll do that." TheDudeMaintains
Hey Counselor.....
"She's an attorney. She gave me some advice when I wanted to adopt a few years ago. Sweet girl, and still gorgeous 20-something years later."dookie1481
"This is unexpectedly pure I like this answer a lot."Reddit
Farewell.
"He died in a car accident about 15 years ago. I found out when I was cyber stalking people from my past and found his obituary. It was quite sad finding that out. Just wasn't the expected outcome of that particular internet search."FloridaParalegal
Big Top Life...
"She joined the circus."
"In an administrative capacity, but it's less fun to say that way."rokr1292
"Mine actually literally became a trapeze artist, so..."lolbrbnvm
Best Wishes Lover....
Giphy"Man, haven't seen her since she moved out and divorced me 5 years ago. I honestly have no idea what she's up to, but I actually hope she's found help for her mental illnesses and is generally happy."
"But she can stay wherever she is, I don't need to see her again."xv9d
Ashes....
"She married some military dude, and had a hard life. Last I found her on Facebook she was promoting a GoFundMe so she could get new teeth. Had recently lost everything in a house fire. Has a couple of kids."
"ETA: I'm not entirely sure of her husband's military involvement, the pictures I saw could have been taken at a Halloween party for all I know. It makes sense though that a military spouse should not have to crowdfund a set of chompers."
"Also, she didn't lose her teeth in a fire. I'm pretty sure the tooth loss was a much more gradual process."sardineclub
Unfriended....
"I ran into her on the street not too long ago. She's engaged and seems to be doing well otherwise too. Still drop dead gorgeous as well."
"Edit: I just looked her up on Facebook because of this thread. It seems she's unfriended me. Now I'm kinda sad."
"Edit 2: For people trying to console me, we broke up like 14 years ago. This isn't a recent breakup and she's not still in love with me or anything. But I know we were friends until pretty recently, because sometimes I saw her posts." Pandaburn
Manga...
"Sitting next to me eating spaghetti O's out of a pyrex bowl. Not because of a lack of better food or bowls, but because he likes it and the pyrex is the biggest glass bowl."joyously-lost
"I can respect that."xomacattack
Cursed?
"She became an herbalist out West and died a few years ago. My third GF died also and my first wife. I have a kind-of large pile of corpses of people I've loved for somebody who's 63 years old and doesn't murder people."
"(figuratively, I don't actually have a pile of corpses)."Oknight
Unfair Life.
Giphy"He passed away at 19 after suffering a seizure in his sleep. We'd broken up about 6 months before."
"Its been 10 years, but every once in a while I still wonder who he'd be today."k_isom
"I'm so sorry. My partner's death was determined to be SUDEP as well. Hate seizures."
"Edit: because I understand how upsetting this can be for folks with epilepsy, most people who have seizures don't have what B had. B had IIH which just presented as seizures."Reddit
How about you, dear reader? Do you have any stories to share? Let us know in the comments below.
Redditor PadWanKenobi was curious to hear what people felt were the tell tale signs they were in the company of a possible genius, leading them to ask:
"What’s a sign of extremely high intelligence?"
Instant adapability
"Ability to intuitively and quickly understand complex systems and how lots of parts relate in a coherent whole."
"Like I work with some people who just keep tons of concepts in their head and easily integrate new information into their understanding of those concepts."
"They immediately know what questions they should be asking to better understand."
"And these are things they're currently working on, not like things they spent time studying in school over years."
"They just have a very strong ability to synthesize new information into their understanding."
"I sit in meetings distracted and confused having forgotten what we talked about in the previous meetings, and these folks just consistently have a solid handle on everything."- Ok-Control-787
Innate Problem Solvers
"They know when not to solve a problem."
"This took me a while to understand but the smartest people I know do this."
"It could be a really simple thing like ignoring emails from people asking for help."
"The supervisor or boss might have a quick and easy solution for the situation but instead of just handing it to the person that asked they let them figure it out on their own."
"They know who they can do this with and when to do it."
"If they did that with all of their underlings it would just create a mess."
"Another example that I can think of is planned chaos."
"Some people can predict exactly where things will go wrong and they could fix it before it creates a problem."
"They don't because nobody ever notices what's going on in the background when things are working perfectly."
"Once things fails then everybody notices and if you are the one person that fixed it you become the hero."
"They can also use then chaos to reach a goal they couldn't get before if things were working correctly."
"There's many examples of this in every day life that I didn't see before until I realized what was happening."- atapes
GiphyYou know what they say about people with small hands
"If your hand is smaller than your face."- FallofTheKnight
The all knowing glow.
"When someone asks you a question and you push your glasses up while light comes out of it and covers your eyes for some reason."- JonEregor
Those giveaway behavioral quirks
"Wearing glasses and saying things like 'ah yes', and 'I see' while you pensively rub your chin."- iuytrefdgh436yujhe2
Thinking Reaction GIF by ABC TV + IVIEWGiphyEncouraging others
"When they explain something they make the people around them feel smarter, not dumber."- redkat85
Being one step ahead.
"The capacity to understand complex things, see patterns where regular people don't."- Ostepop234
"They have this tendency to make you go 'Ohhh, why didn't I think of that?' when listening to them talk."- did_it_forthelulz
Why Didnt I Think Of That Cillian Murphy GIFGiphyAn endless love of learning
"A passion for knowledge and expanding understanding of complex concepts."
"The plumber can be just as insightful as the scholar."- KatatoniK94
Of course, one shouldn't always be fooled by what they see.
As many people are masters at appearing much smarter than they are.
In fact, one important sign of super intelligence is being able to separate those who appear smart, from those who actually are.
