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People Admit What Made Them Stop Being Interested In Their Crushes

People Admit What Made Them Stop Being Interested In Their Crushes

People Admit What Made Them Stop Being Interested In Their Crushes

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**Ah love. Amore is one of life's greatest gifts. We yearn for it, chase it and dream of it. Most of the time we are dreaming of sharing our heart with one person in particular. That man or woman who churn the butterflies in our stomach. We fantasize about all the things we'll do and share until one day they show us a true color or two and then they come crashing down from than pedestal faster than Humpty Dumpty. Then you stand there and ask yourself... "What the heck was I thinking?!" **

Redditor **torkpo **_asked for stories about what it took for some people to lose interest in their stalkees/I mean crushes. _

CHECK PLEASE!!!

He got visibly annoyed when I didn't order what he suggested off of a menu.

I PUT A SPELL ON YOU....

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She told me after we'd been dating for a few weeks that she seriously believes she has psychic powers. I was already thinking of calling it off but that was the moment I knew for sure that we weren't going to be compatible. Dating a psychic is not worth the stress of knowing she could be reading my thoughts at any moment.

SHOW ME THE $$$$$

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Mine was more subtle... the first thing that came of her mouth to talk about former people she had dated was economic issues. You know:

"Oh, he was loaded"

"Oh, he took me to Paris for the weekend".

Made me realize her priorities.

SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST AWFUL.

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After a movie I grabbed my trash and she laughed and smacked it out of my hand onto the floor and said "people get paid to clean it" I just looked at her and said "why would you intentionally make someone's life harder when you have two free hands to carry trash 15 feet to the can?" She couldn't grasp that concept and I never felt attracted to her again.

SO THAT WAS FUN... OR NOT!

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Zero chemistry when alone together. Was really into someone from the extended friend group, seemed to get along great when others were around and there was some mutual flirting for a while. The first time we tried to hang out on our own there was just... nothing. I've never had so much uncomfortable silence and conversations aborted after one or two responses... crush gone then and there.

MEAN PEOPLE SUCK.

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Started to insult my life style, hobbies, the way I talked, basically everything. Not exactly the nicest person I know.

BUTTERFLIES ROAM FREE...

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He was on his phone the entire time we were having dinner. I didn't feel comfortable asking him to get off of his phone, so I mostly just sat there awkwardly and felt the butterflies leave my stomach.

I DO/I DON'T!

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Googling him and finding his Wedding Registry. For that weekend.

BUH BYE FOOL!

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He treated a friend of mine like crap ... after he slept with her. That killed it.

DON'T BE A DATELINE NBC EPISODE IN THE MAKING...

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We were out driving and he swerved the vehicle to deliberately hit a sparrow whilst laughing.

Yeah nah, bye..

LITTERING IS SO NOT COOL HONEY!!

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She threw a bunch of old McDonald's bags out of her car window then smiled at me like she did something badass.

IT'S WRITEN IN THE STARS.

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Made life decisions by checking some sort of online star sign thing which was basically a random generator of generic sayings.

I'M THE BEST! ME!!

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They always had to be right, and if they were wrong they'd manipulate it to where they were somehow right.

THAT'S A SCARY NOISE!

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A really cartoon like fake laugh that happened frequently.

DO THE RIGHT THING.

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The first time we went out together as a group, she was adamant that all the guys foot the bill as it was "the right thing to do". We aren't friends anymore.

OK GLEN CLOSE.

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Someone started a rumor I was stalking her. Just kinda made it weird to ever think about her.

CHILL OUT FIRE STARTER.

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I saw the guy who I had a crush on, off and on for all of high school attempt to shave his arm hairs with one of the ten lighters he had in his backpack by burning off the hairs.

FYI, He doesn't smoke either. He just really likes fire.

SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST IDIOTS.

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He didn't think drinking and driving was a big deal and admitted to doing it often because he's "more focused when he's drunk".

WHY DON'T YOU JUST DATE YOURSELF.

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He was extremely attractive and we had been on a few hikes together with a small group, and I was crushing pretty hard. We were at a mutual friend's place for her birthday, and he spent the majority of the night telling me about all of these dates he had been on and how he could get whatever girl he wanted. Instantly killed that crush.

YOU'RE TONGUE ISN'T A THERMOMETER.

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Terrible kissers, especially if they smoke. I'll never forget a handsome man who shoved his entire, flexed tongue down my throat outside of a pub in southeastern Ireland. Entire tongue! I may have actually gagged.

IT'S JUST MAYO PEOPLE!

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Explosive anger issues.

Sorry, super not impressed that you threw a turkey sandwich at the wait staff because they gave you regular mayo instead of light mayo.

Historical Events So Ridiculous They Sound Made Up

A Redditor asked: 'What’s an event in history that is so ridiculous it sounds fake?'

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We've probably all heard some variation of the saying "Truth is stranger than fiction."

Real life isn't just strange, it can also be downright ridiculous.

History is riddled with moments of absurdity.

So ridiculous that people have a hard time believing real life is, well, really real.

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Life is all about learning new things, including learning new things about the people in your life. Sometimes, the things you learn are shocking, disgusting, or even scary.

I was the new kid in town when I was in fifth grade and my first friend was this quiet (and cute) boy in my class. He and I remained friends through middle school, and even though we drifted apart in high school, our interactions when we ran into each other in the halls or the cafeteria were really nice.

All throughout school and even beyond, he remained quiet, polite, and reserved. Just a few years ago, I read a news article written about him. He had apparently fatally wounded his father after an argument.

I had to reread the article several times to make sure it was really about my old friend. I think about it a lot, and still can't believe it!

I'm not the only one that has a shocking story like that. A lot of Redditors learned shocking or scary things about people from their childhood, and are ready to share.

It all started when Redditor ValuableHovercraft90 asked:

"What's the scariest thing you have found out about someone from your childhood (old friends, teachers, etc)?"

So Creepy

"That the boy who lived across the street and moved when I was 6 is still obsessed with me and my sister 30+ years later and posts ramblings on Facebook with our names and that he's going to be with us. Pretty terrifying honestly."

– mrscrawfish

The Worst List

"A neighbour died when he was 30. Police searched a trailer he owned and found weapons, bombs and a list of people he wanted to kill. My uncle was on that list."

– Flashy_Somewhere_648

"I'm glad this ended the way it did."

– CreepyCandidate4449

Terrifying

"One of my best friends (and locker partner) from high school was kidnapped by terrorists in Iraq. After a nightmare of 6+ months, all went silent. We buried an empty casket in his memory 10 years later."

– francois_du_nord

"This is horrifying. How incredibly sad for family to never get any closure. Very sad to read this. :("

– fizzycherryseltzer

"About 15 years ago my dad received a very good offer for work in Iraq, as a construction specialist. He was considering going, since at the same time the financial crisis started in Europe, but then one of his friends, a civil engineer, was kidnapped. Never returned back either."

– 19lgkrn70

"Same thing for my dad old coworker told him how great the money was. Dude got sniped working on a radio tower or something. My dad luckily was like, "I got a wife and family that would kill me for doing something so dangerous.""

– tristanjones

End Of The Friendship

"One of my dad's good friends, and my "uncle", just stopped coming around one day. I was told he was always busy with work, away, etc."

"Turns out, he killed 3 people in a drug deal gone bad and got life in prison."

"What's scary, is that we were over at his house for a weekend BBQ with a bunch of people earlier in the day of the night he did it, and it happened at his house."

– pnwking509

School Friends

"Don't know if it was scary, but I grew up with a kid whose birthday was the day before mine so we almost always shared birthdays in elementary school. We were friends, even spent the night at his house growing up. Later on in our teens, he started getting into some really dark stuff. I recognize that now as his being a sociopath, but like most everybody else at the time, figured it was just him going through some kind of emo phase. Over the years, we lost touch but I would occasionally run into him around town and our meetings were cordial, if not friendly."

"Last year, he was sentenced to 35 years in prison for killing a man back in 1993, roughly 3 years after we got out of High School. Apparently he, his sister and another man lured this guy out to the boonies and killed him to steal money he had gotten in an insurance settlement."

"The only reason they were caught is the other guy got religion, felt remorse and went on the local TV station and aired a confession before turning himself in (He got 25 to life)."

– 530_Oldschoolgeek

"A girl I went to school with did the same thing. She was the nicest girl, got good grades & was kind of a dork. Mixed with the wrong people after graduation. She and two others lured an old man into an abandoned building, stabbed him and robbed him. He later died from his wounds."

– HereF0rTheSnacks

The Worst Afternoon

"I had a friend in grade school who was being raised by her single dad. She had a unique name and pretty face. She never talked about her mom, and she was super outgoing, so all us kids just made friends with her quickly. It was weird her dad never brought her to our birthday parties, even though she was always invited, but we didn’t think much of it. A couple times, she was allowed to ride the bus home with me after school, and we played and had fun until her dad came to pick her up. Later in the school year, she invited me to ride the bus to her house, and my mom agreed. I was 10. It was the scariest afternoon of my young life. I cannot articulate the extreme tension in her home. We weren’t allowed to make any noise, and we mostly stayed outside, me desperate for my mom to arrive."

"Her dad screamed at us for opening the door, and I was too nervous to go into the house to use the restroom. I knew she was embarrassed that there were no snacks or comforting interactions, like at my house. I didn’t really tell anyone how uncomfortable the experience was. After that day, I didn’t hang out with her a lot. We were in different classes, drifted apart, and decades later, when my own daughter asked to go to a friend’s house, I thought about that girl."

"As an adult, I figured out her dad probably worked a night shift and tried to sleep during the day…or he was an alcoholic who was really angry. Maybe both? I looked her up on social media, and thanks to her unique name and face, I recognized her immediately. She’s a perfectly well-adjusted woman with a beautiful family. She even had pictures of her kids with her dad and tributes to him as the greatest father and grandpa. Her whole page made me wonder what the hell I experienced that afternoon in the 4th grade?"

– OlderAndTired

School Is Supposed To Be Safe!

"In our school, we had something called "de halte." In English, it means "the halt" literally translated. Basically time out. BIf you had a meltdown in class or you were just a little sh*thead, you were sent there for 15 minutes or so to cool off.

The de hatle teacher got fired and jailed for breaking 4 different wrists of 4 different students by bending them the wrong way..."

– Ok_Win7358

*Skin Crawling*

​"There was this classmate a grade below me but all grades shared the same drama class. She was weird and kind of "off." I tried to befriend her at one point and was rebuffed. It later came out that she was actually an almost 30-year-old woman who would show up in a new area claiming to be a 15-year-old runaway. Kind of freaked me out."

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It turns out it was a good thing that the friendship didn't work out!