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People Who've Changed Their Opinion On Something After Doing Research Share Their Experiences

Have you ever rolled your eyes as a friend tried to convince you to try the latest fad, eat at a restaurant that had not appealed to you, or watch a movie or TV show that didn't spark your fancy?

Then, after reading about it more, discover it was all that was missing from your life?

Or, on the flip side, have you ever stopped watching what was once your favorite TV show, eating at your favorite restaurant, or partaking in the fad of the moment, upon learning a little more about it?

They say ignorance is bliss, and perhaps the saying is accurate.

Reading up on various fads, foods and movies has the potential to permanently change our opinions of them, for better or worse.

Redditor Pineapple_WarpDrive was curious to know the many things fellow Reddit users changed their opinions on after a bit of research, leading them to ask:

"What is something you changed your stance on after learning more about it?"


Getting away from screens

"Social media."

"I worked for an agency selling social media services to clients and I had to learn about it."

"The more I learned, the less I wanted to work with social media."

- GetDownAndBoogieNow.

Round and round we go...

"Roundabouts."

"Based on all the complaints, I assumed they were confusing and unnecessary."

"When my city put in a bunch, I realized that I no longer had to wait 3 minutes at all of the punishment lights."

"Love roundabouts now."

"Of course that didn't stop the older population of the city from trying to have them removed."

"One guy even ran for city council on the platform that he would immediately put the stoplights back in."

"Change is hard, I guess."- AlternatePersonMan.

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My feet have never been happier.

"I didn't think orthopedic shoes were for me, but I stand corrected." - user deleted

I'm worth more than this.

"Working Hard."

"More specifically, working hard in a corporate environment."

"I like to work hard for things that I own and maintain, my home, my family, my body, my hobbies."

"But I've worked for almost 20 years for big tech companies."

"I've started at entry level jobs and worked up to middle management."

"Support jobs."

"Sales jobs."

"I've made 6 figures."

"What I've noticed is that they want to pay you less and keep training and experience as a reward."

"That is to say, you are not working for a paycheck."

"You are working towards the next thing."

"But they convince everyone to work hard in an entry level position, working unpaid overtime and you might be rewarded with a higher job."

"Statistically, you will not be promoted."

"There are 30 people on your team who all have that same goal and you can't all be supervisor or manager."

"Now, I just work for my paycheck."

"If you would like me to work harder, you can pay me more."

"I'm not going to go above and beyond for 2 years just to get passed over again."- KevinAnniPadda.

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Pumping up.

"Lifting weights doesn’t make you 'bulky' as a woman and is one of the best things you could do for yourself not only in terms of body composition but in terms of posture, activities of daily living, mobility, joint/bone health, etc."

"It changed my entire life."- clauseandpaws.

It's your decision and no one else's.

"Empathy for the choices people make when they are not able to fully control themselves ."

"I.E. addiction, mental health crisis/episodes."

"Having personal experience on both the receiving and giving ends really deepened my empathy and understanding that allows me to have a more nuanced and individualized approach to these kinds of things now."- theoriginalsmore.

If you take a closer look...

"That case where McDonald's had to pay a bunch of money to a woman who spilled hot coffee on herself." - user deleted

Don't knock it till you've tried it.

"Disc Golf."

"All the guys I grew up with that played were huge d-bags."

"Years later a neighbor dragged me out on a nice day and I’ve been playing ever since."

"10+ years."- moarturnips.

Getting the help you need.

"Getting therapy."

"My upbringing is within an asian household so when it comes to dealing with emotions, we tend to shove that into jar and move on."

"I used to think that receiving therapy is for the mentally ill, weak etc."

"I don't have 'problems' therefore I don't need therapy."

"But after recent events in 2021 with certain people I tried therapy and after a few sessions it just revealed some baggage I wasn't even aware of."

"Honestly I wish I started earlier when I was in my 20s."

"I would be more emotionally prepared, and would probably have had healthier relationships with women if I had dealt with the trauma growing up and from my first relationship that devastated me."- Jono-san.

Everything!

"Not sure I can think of anything I DIDN'T change my stance on after learning about it."- RandoKaruza.

It is amazing how your opinion might change on something after a little research.

Or, just by actually doing it.

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Things People Secretly Love But Would Never Admit To In Public

Reddit user sweet_chick283 asked: 'What do you secretly love that you would never admit to in public?;

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What makes us all unique is our passions and the things we love, whether it's singing in the shower, reading books, or listening to specific music artists.

Unfortunately, we live in a world where we are judged for our various tastes and interests thanks to social media, and it makes us consciously selective about sharing the things we love on the internet.

Curious to hear about people's personal desires under anonymity, Redditor sweet_chick283 asked:

"What do you secretly love that you would never admit to in public?"

These aren't really chores for the following Redditors.

Good Clean Fun

"Mopping, im a janitor and generally hate my work... but damn mopping is so good."

– MrDDog06

"When you have a great rhythm going it is something special. I get the same feeling while I vacuum, but won’t let my wife know I enjoy it."

– Bogus_34

Act Of Unwrinkling

"Ironing clothes. A dozen of them. Can’t explain how it relaxes me. I told one person and they looked at me like I’m crazy."

– eerie_white_glow

"My mum misses the days when dad would be out on a Friday night, my brother out with friends and me upstairs quietly playing PS1. She would pour herself a Bacardi & Coke and do the ironing while watching her TV shows."

"I'm sure she doesn't really miss it now that we've moved out and they've retired but it was her wind-down after a busy working week so I can see how people can find it relaxing."

– xdq

Our solo actions can spark joy.

Big Brother Is Watching

"pretending to be on the Truman show and whenever im in my house i act all inconspicuous so they dont know that i know that they’re watching me."

– Bec_121

"C’mon man, you’re not supposed to let him know. You signed a contract when signing up for live views. I’m reporting you."

– doeswaspsmakehoney

The Multi-Tasker

"Playing video games naked at home while eating cheese."

– thickening_agent

Releasing The Kraken

"I love the feeling when you've eaten good fibre and let out a solid long train log in the toilet. That feeling is heavenly."

– therapoootic

"Even better when it’s a clean wipe and not a poo crayon."

– TheWarmestHugz

Ultimate Comfort

"My (male 41) weekend routine is coming home from work, make hot chocolate, start a fire, dress in a ugly pink nightgown made for old ladies and watch forensic files."

– crazyloomis

Some people are obsessed with collecting things.

So Kawai

"Sanrio stationery stores. All those different multicolor pens, a thousand kinds of erasers, spiral bound notebooks galore... my kids sadly have absolutely no appreciation for this wonderland..."

– HavingNotAttained

It's A Staple

"Office supplies have a weird, special place in my heart ever since I was a kid. They don't even have to be 'cute' necessarily."

"Japan's legendary stationery stores is unironically a reason I want to go."

– _CozyLavender_

Not Caring Anymore

"The older I get the shorter that list gets. Not because I love less things, but because I don't care about hiding it."

– Bi-Beast

"YES!! I'm 53 now. I'm working my first job in public since 2006. Today is Halloween and we're allowed to dress up so I am sitting here waiting to go to work dressed as a VERY bad Wednesday Addams. My bf said I'd 'look stupid' because no one else will probably dress up and I'm like, 'WHO CARES!' My makeup looks horrible and not like I practiced, but I DO NOT CARE! I'm having fun with it anyhow and I don't care if my coworkers dress up or not. I'm bein' ME! :)"

– deanie1970

Honorable mentions start here.

The Savior

"Picking up worms from the street and sidewalks when it rains and moving them into the dirt so they don’t burn in the sun, every time it rains I do this."

– sky_kitten89

Hero Of The Moment

"Yoooo I scoot SO many snails and worms. I work as a tech/mechanic at an automotive shop, I had a peoject car towed to my house the other day and it was covered in snails. I saw them when the tow guy/coworker was unloading and I was like, 'oh! It comes with free snails!' and began moving them. He laughed then realized and said, '... Oh, you're serious. Uh... Okay.'"

"I don't care who knows it. These little things barely can look out for themselves, why shouldn't we if we can take a moment to help? I don't care what happens next, it probably doesn't matter overall but I can help this moment."

– chris14020

Why should some of the hidden desires mentioned above have to be secret?

Redditors opening up about some of these would make them a hit at parties–no shaming.

As a matter of fact, I'll totally be down for a Forensic Files viewing party where we all make hot chocolate, light the fireplace, and cozy up together in our respective pink ugly nightgowns for old ladies.

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We've probably all heard some variation of the saying "Truth is stranger than fiction."

Real life isn't just strange, it can also be downright ridiculous.

History is riddled with moments of absurdity.

So ridiculous that people have a hard time believing real life is, well, really real.

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