Redditor internallyskating wanted to hear the quotes that can help us all.
"What’s a quote that permanently changed the way you look at things?"
My pen and paper are ready...
Free
let it go GIFGiphy“'Let go or be dragged' and old zen proverb I heard at a meditation class. Really changed the way I let myself worry about things."
Reagan99
"Wisdom tells me I am nothing, love tells me I am everything, and between the two my life flows."
Whippersnapper1967
"This really hit me. Thank you for sharing! Will be one of my favorites from now on."
Sassypantz72
Hearing
"'Do you listen or just wait to speak.'"
Shermthedank
"Reading all the other comments and thinking yeah that makes sense and yeah I'll use that. Then there's this that's really hit home, I get so far through listening then hear something I want to reply to and then don't hear any more of the conversation."
10/90 rule...
"I had a professor in college he called it the 10/90 rule. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. Changed my life."
normalman714
"Many years ago, I realized much of my unhappiness was because my expectations of people were so high that no one could ever live up to them, and this left me eternally disappointed. So I lowered them nearly to the ground. Since then, I'm far more happy and more content with the world around me. It completely transformed my outlook on life."
LaLa_LaSportiva
“liked by all”
"If you wouldn't take advice from them, why would you take criticism? - some dude on youtube. I just never thought of it that way before, and I stopped spending so much energy trying to get people to like me."
Howdydobe
"I realized my efforts to be 'liked by all' contradicted my desire to like myself when I came across this quote somewhere: If you don’t have any enemies, then you don’t have any character. Or, as I have since internalized it: I don’t want everyone to like me."
snugglepackTM
Hmm?
canadian what GIF by CBCGiphy"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today."
We all need to dig deep. It all starts in the mirror.
Yes I do...
"Honesty without kindness is brutality. Kindness without honesty is manipulation. Yes I do. I think manipulation is a controlling act practiced by those who refuse to admit what it is they are seeking from others. Probably because they don’t want to hear an answer any different from the one they’ve given themselves. So they strategically coerce you into doing something you actually don’t want to do."
uhreeee
"recycle"
"No one raindrop thinks it causes the flood."
Santos61198
"I wonder if matter cannot be destroyed nor created, won't we eventually run out of resources since everything we didn't 'recycle' (that's a whole other topic) is in the landfills?"
"Landfill mining seems dangerous, toxic and unsanitary. Lots of sharp stuff, chemicals, spoiled food, oils, human byproduct, anything and everything that will easily cause injury. So much plastic mixed with every element in the periodic table it seems beyond modern technology to convert the mixed elements back to basic, raw, useable materials for production."
executordestroyer
The Educated
"'It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.'"
"Aristotle."
"And yes it isn't the real quote but elementary school aged me internalized that thought and I have applied it to everything ever since then."
Redmoon383
Sweet
Bong Joon Ho Korea GIF by NEONGiphy“'You might be the sweetest peach on the tree, but some people just don’t like peaches.'”
"This helped me get over my lifelong desire to be liked by everyone, and allowed me to focus on becoming someone I actually liked."
sansaspark
I'm putting all of this in my journal.
Whenever you worry that something isn't perfect.
"When perfectionism is in the driver’s seat, shame is usually riding shotgun."- capnmalreynolds
Wisdom from Captain Picard.
"'It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose'."
"'That is not weakness, that is life'. Jean-Luc Picard, 2365."
Patrick Stewart Lol GIFGiphyTo put your mind at ease.
"Worrying about something that could happen makes you suffer twice."- MazoMort
When in doubt
"Trust but verify."- AnnoyingPeeC*ck
Whenever you hurt someone's feelings
"The tree remembers what the axe forgets."- FreshFondant
For Real Animation GIF by Cake FXGiphyBefore you start blaming yourself
"'Not my monkey, not my circus'."
"Has helped me not worry about things that I have no control over."
Progress
"Slow is smooth, smooth is fast."- JhymnMusic
Advice from our elders.
"As a teen, I worked in a nursing home."
"I walked an old blind lady to lunch every day and she would always say, 'I don't know where I'm going but I'm on my way'."
"And:"
"After an argument with my Dad, my Mom said, in his defense and so I'd be more understanding, 'He's doing the best he knows how'."
"'Not the best he can but the best he knows how'."- AugieGreenfield.
Treat others the way you want to be treated
"The only reason to look down on someone is If you are helping them up."- cheesusismygod.
Lets Go Help GIF by CAFGiphyRemember where you came from
“'The forest was shrinking but the trees kept voting for the axe, for the axe was clever and convinced the trees that because his handle was made of wood, he was one of them'.”- Gastro_Jedi
So much wisdom in one place.
"'The graveyard is the richest place on earth, because it is here that you will find all the hopes and dreams that were never fulfilled, the books that were never written, the songs that were never sung, the inventions that were never shared, the cures that were never discovered, all because someone was too afraid to take that first step, keep with the problem, or determined to carry out their dream'."
"Les Brown"- UncleSats
Doesn't make the process any easier though...
"'The life of a repo man is always intense'."- xqqq_me
Real Estate Money GIF by INTO ACTIONGiphyDon't mind if I do!
“'Take the Twinkie'.”
"Needs context, obviously."
"My old boss, back in his younger days, was hanging out and drinking with some buddies."
"He was seated on the sideboard of his pickup truck, when his buddy threw a Twinkie at him."
"He dodged the Twinkie."
"He fell off the truck."
"He broke his leg."
"'Take the Twinkie'."- LXIX-CDXX
Always good to keep an open mind.
Everything’s going to be ok, and if it’s not ok, that’s ok too."- Mtvkilldmusic
It's kept me on my toes, that's for sure!
"I'm gonna slap the crack out of your a**."- Rude-Particular-7131
Three steps to an improved way of life.
"At all times cultivate compassion, wisdom and discipline."- Adeptmalfesant
You will get caught
"Never dip into the company well."- The_Sanch1128
season 1 zombies and cobb salad GIF by momGiphyWords can hurt more than actions
"The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart."- Flimsy_Macaroon6436
An excellent question
"'Who's preventing you?'"
"My late grandfather around the 80s probably."- Doge_Boi75
Be it from Mother Teresa or Liz Lemon, having a familiar quote stuck in your mind is often the comfort we all need every now and then.
And if it inspires you to be a better person, even better.
I tell myself I believe I can do it. Whatever it is. When in actuality if I listen to myself too long, I'll never do anything.
Do Right!
Kamala Harris Waiting GIF by Election 2020Giphy"I'm doing the right thing. Everyone else is doing the wrong thing." ~ echo6golf
Just Drive
"While in traffic, nobody except you know what the hell they are doing." ~ sjookvest
"With that being said, I think some (a lot?) of traffic could be reduced if people simply drove better. Not over breaking or taking so long to accelerate after breaking (causes accordion effect). Never blocking the box. Learning how to merge properly and then understanding that the safest speed to travel is close to the speed everyone else is going. Just generally paying attention. All of which I do, and nobody else does!" ~ AmigoDelDiabla
Karma
"They'll get theirs in the end." ~ jxj24
"I think this is it. This is the biggest one. Injustice is inevitable. I don’t logically believe people who have wronged me will be punished, but I have told myself many times “their time will come” which, nah, in a random, chaotic universe, some times it does, some times it never happens. Meanwhile horrible, HORRIBLE things happen to people who simply do not deserve it." ~ AXELROM
One Day
"It’ll all work out one day." ~ BlockThot
"I always say 'you'll get through this as well' and well time does manage to work out a lot of things. These kinds of lies are pretty essential to keep you going. I'd prolly be dead by now if my mind just went 'nope, nothing will work out now.'" ~ PM_ME_YOUR___ISSUES
Another Day
tomorrow GIFGiphy"I’ll do it/start tomorrow." ~ nap9283
"Hard work often pays off over time, but laziness 100% pays off right freaking now!" ~ twopacktuesday
Ah the promise of tomorrow. A whole new beginning, or just a tragic repeat. We'll have to see.
Anything
You Got This Woman GIF by Disney PrincessGiphy"‘You can do anything you set your mind to.’ Literally false, but determination can get you an awfully long way." ~ DrRob
COVID
"This is the last covid wave." ~ PassengerWest8873
"It’s frustrating. My wife and I are both fully vaxxed and caught it back right before Thanksgiving. Neither of us had boosters yet but our state hadn’t opened up boosters to everyone yet (they did while we had Covid). My sense of smell is still completely gone. Her Covid wasn’t near as bad as mine. I wore my mask, I got my shots, and it still got through to us. It’s mutated so much that I fear vaccines are never going to be more than an annual shot for this." ~ MyAltUsernameIsCool
Safety
"A gun is ALWAYS loaded. I just watched Wind River where the Hawkeye actor drills this point home to his son who is carrying the rifle down the stairs with the barrel pointed in all directions." ~ hidude100
"A lot of people think Americans are pretty irresponsible with guns - sure, some are, but when you live around guns a lot (e.g. in the country), this is a phrase that pretty much everyone knows." ~ bdbr
These Low Effort Jobs Have Surprisingly High Salaries | George Takei’s Oh Myyy
Have you ever worked one of those jobs that paid you to kinda sit there? If you have, you know the joy that comes with watching the entirety of Breaking Bad ...We Understand
"It’s interesting how a lot of the answers are similar, we are all very much the same." ~ Key-Knee-7153
"Right. Apparently the main one is that we tell ourselves everything will be okay which I'm guessing helps us keep going. Makes sense even though I don't know if I would have guessed that would be the winner." ~ hidude100
Death Becomes ME
"Ignoring our own mortality (we'll die sooner then we think 🤔 or at least feel)." ~ Pseudonym669669
"Idk, I’ve been thinking a lot about that, and confronting my own mortality this past year. I feel like it’s been helpful, as I’m reallizing what matters and what doesn’t, what I care about and what I don’t, and how little time I have to experience the things I want." ~ user deleted
Pre-ordained...
"That we have free will. I can’t explain it as well as YouTube videos on the subject can. Basically from what I remember let’s say you want to pick up your toothbrush and brush your teeth, before you realize you are reaching for and picking up your toothbrush the motion has already been started by your brain." ~ secretcomet
I AM!
"USEFUL? Gotta be the belief that we are intelligent, well reasoned individuals who are either aware of (or have no) bias. Lets you instantly discredit anything you disagree with, because if it WAS correct, you would already be believing it." ~ DonQuixoteDesciple
the path...
"We tend to tell ourselves that we figure what is life all about but in reality we don't. Knowingness of the life path we take doesn't mean we are set to bound for the course we have but little did we know that there many pitstops through out the destination and it's up to you how will you face that dilemma." ~ HyperscionUltra
Stick around. Watch...
"Death is bad. From what I've heard, it's pretty peaceful. And once it's over it's over. Nothing to worry about once you're dead. Of course by telling ourselves death is bad, we stay alive. By convincing ourselves death is bad, then when life seems pretty bad we still (usually) don't die. Life is a good thing, and that's honest. But death isn't bad either. And life can be hard."
"Since that lie tips the scales in favor of living when life sucks, you stay alive. Therefore it is the most useful lie. IMPORTANT ADDITION: I am not advocating for death, self inflicted or otherwise. I mean it when I say life is good. Even when life sucks, it will usually eventually get better. Stick around. Watch. Find at least one reason to keep living. Believe the lie if you need to." ~ Mentally_Ill_Goblin
breakthrough...
"Everything will be okay.'"
"No it wont. It will spiral down, breakthrough the fence of self-confidence and fall into the pit of despair before crashing into the barrier or existential dread. The only reason we say this is to calm ourselves even when the odds are not in our favor." ~ Umbraldisappointment
Take the pictures.
"'There will still be time.' Don't put it off. Say the important things. Take the pictures. Listen to the people you love and cherish even the dull moments." ~ NoDisplay1842
it's just us...
"What we do frequently matters to no one but us. But sometimes it does, and you just never know. So it's likely better to live as everything you did was impactful, even if you somehow know it isn't." ~ tristero200
Poisons...
"That spice is poison. Your tongue thinks it’s a harmful like pain and causes this burning sensation. It’s useful in that it triggers those methods to try and calm them down, like more saliva, watering eyes, snot. All that. Granted, it never really works that well but it’s still useful." ~ Disastrous-Trainer-5
It's always better next year. Let's focus on this year. And let's try to be bit more honest.
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