People in the United States know that our culture differs from that of other countries, but it is not always obvious how.
Many European countries house historical castles, cars are unnecessary in several cities, Europeans are practically expected to speak more than one language fluently, and of course, the chocolate is a million times better!
There are plenty of other things Europe has that the United States doesn’t. Redditors know what these things are, and are ready to share.
It all started when Redditor QuintessentialPies asked:
“What does europe have that the US doesn’t?”
Cultural Diversity
"Cultural perspective. Each country is closely adjacent to another with a different culture so there is much more understanding of diversity. There are often multiple languages spoken in each country. The US has some cultural variety from one state to another but nothing quite like having multiple other countries so close. Mexico and Canada aren’t quite the equivalent version of this."
– TheWreckaj
"Well for starters, USA is a country while Europe is a continent. So Europe has many countries but USA has only one"
– GauAp
It's Like A Rainbow!
"Colorful money of varying sizes"
– LongtimeLurkerIsHere
"Did you know, the reason the bills are different sizes is in part because it helps the blind distinguish between denominations. Because all US bills are the same size, you cannot tell from feel if a bill is a $1 or a $10, so it's easier to get ripped off. (Some blind people fold their bills in special configurations depending on value so they can identify their money by touch)"
– cinemachick
"They have braille on them too! I was genuinely surprised of the accessibility when I visited the UK!"
– BillCatsby
The History Is Here
"Medieval castles and ancient structures. As a history nerd, I don't know how I'd survive in a modern country like the US."
– JS569123
"I was an exchange student with Italy. The Sala Borsa Library in Bologna is built on *top* of ancient roman ruins, and the floor of the library is actually glass so that you can look at the roman ruins beneath your feet and watch archaeologists excavate the ruins while you're checking out books. You'll never see anything like that in the US."
– DoctorWatchamacallit
"'I'm from Europe, where the history comes from'"
"Eddie Izzard performing in San Francisco."
– Wyvernkeeper
Let's Take A Walk
"Cities that expanded before the popularisation of the motor car."
– housemuncher
"TBH, living in Ireland has been wonderful for my health. With no car, cities unsafe for biking, and sub-optimal public transportation, I have to walk everywhere whether I like it or not."
– WednesdayAddams3001
"Bicycle paths. I mean separate dedicated 2 lanes."
– bemest
It's All Greek...And Italian...And French...To Me
"A significant percentage of the population that is bi or tri lingual"
– Rdr1051
"An expectation that you speak more than one language."
– nattylite100
Tea Time
"220v electric kettles. They boil water insanely fast"
– Mental_Ascent
"Tea kettles being commonplace in most home"
– Maximum_Vanilla_Cone
"How can anyone live without kettle? Do you guys over the pond don't start you're day with cup of coffee or tea?"
– Australian_Wombat
Healthy Living
"Free healthcare, 4 week PTO, paid maternity leave, cheap/free college education"
– dimap443
"a working health care System"
– GayNon-BinaryLeo
"Oh it works and it works really well, it just costs a f**k ton of money."
– elchignacio
The Cost Of Learning
"Affordable higher education"
– Dooshbaguette
The Metric System
"Apart from the walkable cities, affordable education, modern infrastructure like high speed railroads, a humane healthcare system, wine, public order, strict gun control, limited lobbying, less obesity, guaranteed vacations, and lower prison population, what did the European ever had better than us?"
"A good system of measurement?"
"Oh. A good system of measurement? Shut up!"
– FeaturePotential4562
Who To Vote For?
"More than two political parties"
– HyenaElectrical4530
Ah, the choices!
Is there anything we missed on this list? Let us know in the comments.
When I first went to Paris, I was overwhelmed by the beauty of the city's architecture, its rich history, and the plethora of local pâtisserie options.
I was also extremely disoriented and not ready for the cutlure shock.
Maybe it was just the particular establishments, but I was berated for changing the position of my chair at a sidewalk café to face my lunch date. I didn't realize all chairs had to face outward towards the traffic view on the street.
Again, maybe I was unlucky with the restaurant choice.
At another restaurant, my coke was brought to the table in a can with an empty glass. No ice.
When I asked for it to be cold with ice, the server came back with a single ice cube perched on a spoon and proceeded to pour the can's contents directly over the ice cube on the spoon, which hovered over the glass. He then took said spoon away – with the ice.
I guess that's how they roll.
And yet, I wondered if the French visiting the states were appalled at finding "cold" beverages being diluted with the melting ice cubes in their glasses.
Curious to hear of examples of culture shock from strangers on the internet, Redditor FloridaLife96 asked:
"Non-Americans of Reddit, what surprised you the most on your trip to America?"
Eating Out
You can expect cuisine to be a huge difference from what you're used to back home. But there's more to what your palate experiences when it comes to food experiences in America.
Frosty Delight
"Chocolate soft serve ice cream. I could not understand why we didn't have that in Norway as it had to be the best invention i the history of mankind. I was 8 BTW."
Portion Control, Or Lack Thereof
"The size of your popcorn portions when I went to watch a film. My whole arm could fit in the box." – Stapes89
Cup Overfloweth
"I bought a popcorn+soda combo and the soda was like 1L. Hurt my arm holding it. I don't know how anyone can finish 1L in one sitting. My family can't even finish a liter during dinner."
– OpalEpal
More Options
"I was on a trip to LA a few years back. We went to see a movie, and holy sh*t there are so many types of soda. Where I'm from there's 2 versions of a soda: sugar or no sugar."
"These crazy motherf'kers got cherry, vanilla, cinnamon, orange, pineapple, birch beer???, Cherry limonade, grape, Banana, fruit punch, peach, Mango, cranberry, lemon lime with cucumber and the list just goes on."
– Op-e
Different Surroundings
Contrasting environments were either pleasantly jarring or completely disappointing for these Redditors.
One The Road
"How on one side of a highway there can be a full-on ghetto, and on the other side of that highway there can be a relatively nice middle-class or even upscale neighborhood."
"Also, just how many police cars you see all the time."
– -domi-
Unobstructed Views
"I was awestruck when on my coast to coast roadtrip we first entered the plains of Texas. You could see for miles and miles in any direction. It felt like you could see tomorrow's weather in the distance. Later I was even more awestruck at the sights of your country's deserts and the canyons, including a grand one."
Blah-Blah-Land
"How unglamorous LA actually is, compared to how it is depicted in TV shows/movies."
"Hollywood is the absolute worst."
Mini-Countries
"When I first moved here I couldn't believe how different things were state to state. Some states are more different from one another than neighboring European nations are."
Poop Show
"The spaces between door and door frames in public toilets...I mean do you want to make eye contact with someone while sitting there ?"
– Emmaus4
Perceptions Of People
People say New Yorkers are rude. We're just direct and tell it like it is.
Some say Los Angeles is too slow. Maybe you're too fast.
How people engage in different parts of the country can be fascinating for sure.
Outgoing
"How open people were to start a conversation with a stranger(me). Where I'm from people are much more closed off. The restaurant food portions. One meal is equivalent to two or three meals for me The lack of proper public transport ( except in NY) The fact that a lot of people consider a 2 or 3 hour drive, a short drive."
People Are Direct
"How direct people are. Been to the US only once (NY, Queens, 2011) as part of a student exchange. People are straight to the point. Most of the times they are nice about it, while still being very concise. Love that. Also, how big everything is. From roads, to the campus, to the dorm room we were staying in etc"
Reactions To Accents
"The number of people who find a British accent difficult to understand (asking for water was a consistently humiliating experience)."
– prolixia
Vets
"You guys really are obsessed with your military."
"People in the military and vets get treated like celebrities. Unless they're homeless of course, then nobody gives a sh*t about them."
As a Japanese-American, I was blown away by how different things were even in my native country.
What stayed with me after visiting Tokyo was how clean the metropolitan areas were and how the locals respected cleanliness. Even more shocking was the absence of litter on the streets and sidewalks despite the lack of garbage cans in public.
People literally carried their snack wrappings or empty beverage cans with them until they were able to dispense them in receptacles found in convenience stores.
I look forward to being able to travel again and explore other worlds and learn from their cultures.
They say travel changes a person - that a little bit of culture shock is good for perspective.
But let's talk about people who got more than just "a little" culture shock. Let's talk about those moments that kind of short out your brain for a second.
One Reddit user asked.
What was your biggest culture shock?
And yeah ... we can see how elephants in traffic might blow your mind.
Drive Through
America has drive through everything! Drive through coffee, drive through ATM, drive through liquor store!
The drive through pharmacy and atm blew my mind
Drive thru pharmacy is great. You drive up and there is a speaker and this long pressurized tube with a canister in it. The pharmacist asks what you're there for and then you send your ID and any relevant documentation's through the canister and then they do their thing, send you everything back through the tube and you're on your way.
I just did a COVID test through the drive through - they give you the bag and all relevant test materials, tell you what to do through the speaker and then you deposit the test in a biohazard box. I think it's pretty neat honestly.
Birds Indoors
Canadian working in New Zealand.
Birds indoors. This may seem minor but it was so weird to see.
When I got off the plane in Auckland there were birds flying around inside the airport.
In Canada if a bird gets inside everyone takes notice. Some people even freak out. If it doesn't fly away on it's own, animal control is called.
In NZ nobody gave a sh*t about all these little birds zooming around inside the airport. I sat there watching these guys in complete amazement.
This was just my first observation. NZ got progressively weirder as time went on.
The Least American American
My dad was a US diplomat so we moved to a new country every three years or so. I had never lived in the states (born in Portugal) and 4 countries later when my dad decided to retire, we moved to the US (Maryland).
Being in America was the biggest shock.
From the "safeness" I felt, to the way people were. Yellow school busses. Everyone sort of being the same. It was a shock, among many other things.
I felt American my whole life living abroad, being associated with the American embassy, hanging out at the marine club houses. And when I moved to the US, I did not feel very American at all
Oh Canada
Dutch guy here. When we went to Canada for the first time everything was HUGE.
Big cars on big roads, big streets and restaurants and malls. I remember we were driving for what seemed like hours through suburbs and I just kept thinking "surely after the next turn we're out of the city" but the city just seemed to be endless - kind of scary almost.
Also; distance was huge. In the Netherlands driving from the Eastern to the Western end of the country takes 2-3 hrs. In Canada, what seemed like an infinitely small distance on the map took 2.5 hrs to drive.
- yehboyjj
Contrast And Clash
India was my biggest culture shock. Extreme poverty and extreme riches right next to each other.
It clashes hilariously when the rich try to use their wealthy materialistic possessions on poverty level infrastructure. Your Lamborghini is useless in these pothole filled roads.
Yeah. The way some hotel windows are frosted near the bottom to hide these massive trash dumps with children digging through them or something. It's so sad.
Nigerian Dogs
My cousin visited me from Nigeria and couldn't wrap her mind around the fact that we have entire stores here just for pets and pet products. In Nigeria most of the dogs are allowed to just run wild.
My former coworker was also from Nigeria, and she had a hard time wrapping her mind around the fact that we allow pets to sleep in our beds with us.
I have no idea what area/city she's from originally within Nigeria and this was also a long time ago, but she said doing so back there would have been considered disgusting and weird. Then she got a roommate who had a dog and fell IN LOVE with it.
Last conversation I remember having with her, she was talking about how she was curled up in bed on a Saturday with all of her dogs.
"I Would Rob You"
Went to the states for college at Indiana. I lived in Tokyo, Japan my whole life before this. 1st day, I went to the gas station to buy something. I had a lot of $100 bills with me cause I didn't have a card yet.
The cashier literally told me "You shouldn't carry that much cash around. If I saw you with that on the street I would rob you."
I was like "okay.... thanks for letting me know?"
This was like 6yrs ago and in Japan, people normally carry / use cash for a lot of things back then. I knew and saw people having $500 (50,000 yen+) in their wallet on a normal given day .
It's getting better now and it's becoming more cash-less but holy sh*t, didn't think carrying large bills would be that risky lol
- 305_ps
The Elephant In Traffic
I spent a month living in Thailand when I was 15. The first hour broke me.
The trip there had taken an absurdly long time and long story short I had been awake for about 38 hours by that point. I did not have an ounce of mental fortitude, which I also did not know I would need.
We (group of us) met up with the families we were staying with, introductions, all that jazz. Nice folks. We decided to go home, get a nap (it was 7am local) and meet up for dinner. I say decided but that was the plan all along.
I got into the car in the backseat- no seatbelts. Okay, cool, that's different but whatever.
We pulled out onto the very busy road- on the left side. A bit of a surprise but hey, that's neat.
The city (Bangkok) was wildly different from any place I had ever been. But that was expected, it's the other side of the world, right?
Nearly there, we stopped at a stop light. There was an elephant standing beside me, 10 feet from my window.
That was it. That elephant broke me. It was too much. There were no elephants outside car windows anywhere I had been before. I closed my eyes and curled up into a ball until we arrived.
Lovely country. Wonderful people.
- trabarro
East Coast / West Coast
I've traveled internationally a lot, but my biggest culture shock was within the US. I'd lived in the Pacific Northwest/Rockies my entire life, and when I decided to move to Philadelphia, everybody was warning me about how rude and snobby everyone would be on the East Coast and how I'd be miserable.
To be honest, the shock to me was how wrong most of those people were.
Like, sure, I've met some people out here who do the stereotypes no favors, but I've overall found folks to be WAY more genuine than people where I'm from. The PNW in particular had this weird, condescending fake-nice feel where I could know someone for MONTHS and still be unsure whether we were actually friends or they secretly hated me. Here, I know within about 0.2 seconds whether someone likes me, and it's so refreshing.
It definitely took some getting used to, but I can't imagine going back now. I also really don't miss people constantly judging me for not being outdoorsy enough. Here, it feels a lot less like there's one "correct" set of hobbies I need to have if I don't want to get sh*t on.
- _MaddAddam
Second-hand Culture Shock
My distant relatives came to Canada and were blown away. We did across country road trip over a week and a half. East coast to west.
They loved it.
But what surprised me, in fact blew me away...the most, was how emotional they got driving through the prairies. They had never seen so much open land and sky. They were crying.
It gave me a new appreciation for beauty of the vastness of the prairies and those "both never ending and yet always vanishing horizons. "-as they put it.
Their culture shock, was culturally shocking for me as well.
Dogs Like Squirrels
Dogs roaming around like squirrels.
I lived in Chile for a summer in college and never really got used to the fact that stray dogs are just EVERYWHERE in the streets! And not just like nasty mangy-looking ones, like golden retrievers and poodle mixes and stuff.
My host brother told me that they view pets as totally separate from family members there, so if they get tired of a pet dog they just sort of let it go. Still kind of blows my mind.
- Blaise11
Feeling Insecure
I live in Israel and there's security check basically everywhere.
You can't just go into a mall, you'll have to go through metal detector and have your bag checked by a security guard. So when traveling to other countries it always blows my mind that you can walk just right in without anyone checking you.
Makes me feel a little unsafe.
My Backpack
American living in Japan, my backpack (which I left on the train) full of pretty valuable things and plenty of cash was personally returned to my apartment by a stranger. Come to find out they went over an hour out of their way and would not accept any compensation.
In the US that's gone. Friends living there pretty much all have similar experiences.
"Woman's Job"
Just got married to a guy from Connecticut— he does more than half of the chores in the house. It blows my mind.
He voluntarily does the laundry every week. He tells me to relax if I work a long day and he will make dinner.
I'm from the south and never realized how much I internalized the "woman's job" stuff. Omg, I love him so much.
My First Doubts About My Country
When I was 17 my father took us on a month long driving vacation across the country from California.
When we reached the South there were bathrooms that said Colored Only!! I had to be told what that meant, and couldn't believe it!! Gave me my first doubts about my country.
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Culture shock. Noun. Definition: the feeling of disorientation experienced by someone who is suddenly subjected to an unfamiliar culture, way of life, or set of attitudes.
Culture shock is pretty common once you step foot outside your native land. You've internalized living a certain way so deeply that upending that will take some time.