People Who've Battled Cancer Describe The First Sign That Made Them Go To The Doctor
Being diagnosed with cancer is news no one ever wants to hear.
For some people, the diagnosis might come as a surprise, with no signs or warnings whatsoever.
Others, however might have detected some irregularities, or suffered from symptoms which led them to believe something wasn't quite right, leading them to run to a doctor.
Only to have their worst fears realized.
"People of Reddit who have gone through or are going through cancer, what was the first sign that made you go to the doctor?"
Lucky To Be Scolded By Dad.
"I was fooling around in a mall as a kid."
"So My dad grabbed me by the neck to make me behave."
"He felt a lump on my neck and immediately began to get nervous."
"We went to the doctor the next day, caught the cancer before it spread and was able to surgically remove it about a month later."
"Got super lucky."- SockFeetLover
Misdiagnosis
"My sister noticed a small painful lump in her breast shortly after having her second child."
'Doctor diagnosed a blocked mammary gland."
"A couple weeks later it still wasn’t gone."
"Again doc said blocked gland."
"Months later it’s still not gone and she insists on getting a second opinion."
"Stage 3 breast cancer."
"Double mastectomy immediately followed by months of agonizing radiation and chemo only to find out it’s now stage four."
"She’s been stable for a few years but now it’s spreading again and we don’t know how long we have with her."
"Trying to be as positive as possible."- KidGorgeous19
Persistant Headaches
"My 33 year old husband was diagnosed with inoperable glioblastoma, most aggressive brain cancer, in January 2019, when he was 31."
"What caused him to get a check, was persistent headache that didn’t go away with paracetamols and sleep."
"We discovered the tumors after taking an MRI."
"Needless to say, our lives were changed forever."
"Now we are at the end of our journey, and it’s been a harrowing experience for me as his wife and caregiver."
"It’s a lonely journey."
"I don’t wish it upon anyone and no one has any idea what glioblastoma is like, unless they have gone through it."
"The median survival time is 14-18 months."
"Viktor has passed away yesterday, on 1st August."
"He was surrounded by his brother and me and smiled a lot to the very end."
"At his final resting position, his face looked relaxed and a little smile can be seen by us too."
"I am still in shock, processing what has happened to us. I’ll take the time I need to process this and grieve."
"I just miss my husband."
"I miss his laughs."
"I miss his smile."
"I feel loved."
"I know I’m loved."
"So that’s keeping me together."
"May Viktor find peace."
"I know he’s not in pain now."- syarkbait
Swollen Head and Neck
"My head and neck area became very swollen."
"At first I thought I was just getting fat, so I worked out a lot and ate better."
"This did not help."
"I also went to a local clinic and they thought it might be an allergic reaction and gave me steroids, which also didn’t help."
"The thing that finally made me go to the emergency room and not leave until I had an answer is that I started to develop unexplained bruises on my chest."
"Turns out I had a huge tumor in my chest which had grown around my heart and was compressing the superior vena cava so blood couldn’t flow back down from my head."
"Not great!"
"The good news is that it turned out to be very treatable and I’ve been cancer free for 11 years now."- eskimospy212
A Different Lump
"Funnily enough, it was a totally unrelated lump."
"'Nope, that lump is fine, just a lipoma'."
"'However, we found another lump in the corner of your x-ray and we need to biopsy it'."- something_crass
Excessive Bleeding
"Super heavy periods that would last for 10 or more days."
"Got an iud to help control bleeding."
"Actually hemorrhaged so bad the iud came out."
"Endometrial Cancer, huge tumor in my uterus."
"Ladies, it's not normal to need a tampon and pad at the same time."
"It's not normal to need to change them every 10 minutes or even every hour."
"An average period is 2-3 Tablespoons, just for reference."
"Sorry if TMI."
"I am one year NED (no evidence of disease)."
"I was diagnosed at 40."
"The main take away is if something is not right, keep looking for answers and the right physician."
"Heavy periods do not usually mean cancer in pre menopausal women, but there is no reason to suffer through them."
"Post menopausal women should not experience any bleeding, one drop and you should go to the doctor right away."- Icewaterforall
If something seems off, or doesn't go away in a reasonable amount of time, it's always best to see a doctor.
Even if you have the slightest doubt.
Guy Gets Shamed By Fellow Employees For Refusing To Shave His Head To Support Co-Worker With Cancer
No matter the workplace, it seems, drama abounds.
One man—committed to his years old locks—finds himself in a bind as an assistant manager endures chemo.
This guy is a 27-year-old gas station employee and he's at the end of his rope.
He reached out to Reddit for some advice in navigating the sensitive workplace moment.
As he says in his post, he works in one of those gas station/Subway sandwich shop combinations. Between the gas station and the Subway, we're talking a staff of 18 people.
One staff member—the guy's assistant manager—has cancer and shaved her head when chemo began. Not uncommonly, employees decided to shave their own heads to express support and solidarity.
What is less common is that EVERYONE did it.
Everyone at work shaved their head except this one guy.
Now Randomname9991 is public enemy #1 at work. He's getting eye rolls, snide comments, passive-aggression, all of it.
Some Redditors weighed in on whether he's in the wrong and offered some real advice alongside the moral judgment.
"Instead maybe make a donation, or give blood, or volunteer. And if they bug you again, say 'I'm not shaving my head but instead I donated in honor of [name].' Donations go farther in cancer research than cutting one's hair, anyway." u/discombobubolated
"I'd even argue that shaving your head in solidarity is the laziest way to support someone with cancer. Give them a ride home from chemo or offer to cook/clean/etc for them some time." u/TwoSoxxx
"Cancer survivor here and my kid also has cancer. You don't need to shave your head to show support. I see so many videos of people shaving their hair off to raise 'awareness.' I'm pretty sure everyone is aware that cancer exists now."
"Someone mention blood donation which is way more needed for cancer patients or just needed in general." u/HappySam89
"This 'fully committed' crap is laughable - if they were so fully committed to supporting the co-worker, they'd pay all her bills so she didn't have to work while dealing with cancer." u/dischdunk
The comments pretty clearly hit on a debated issue: how can people be truly supportive in the fight against cancer?
6 ways to support loved ones and friends with cancer | Ilonka Meier | TEDxJIS youtu.be
Most of these Redditors, and plenty of other sources, agree that simply looking like the person enduring cancer only serves to pat oneself on the back.
Some have even called the gesture offensive, as it constantly reminds the person of their struggle.
When Life Throws You Cancer: The Patient is Still a Person youtu.be
Many advocate for small, direct favors that offer one's time or finances.
Things like doing the grocery shopping or accompanying the person to the park. Truly, shaving one's head only begins to be a pragmatic benefit if it's long enough to be donated for wig-making.
This usually means 8-14 inches, according to Cancer.net.
Surprisingly, plenty of the hair that doesn't make the cut for wigs ends up cleaning oil spills.
There's no telling if Randomname9991 ended up caving to pressure and shaving those flowing locks—which he regrettably didn't include a picture of—but it's clear he has plenty of options.
Medicine isn't an exact science, the human body is much too complicated for that.
Doctors train for years to learn how to take a list of symptoms and try to figure out what ails someone, but they are limited by their own experiences.
Unfortunately, this means mistakes are sometimes made, and those mistakes can greatly impact a patient's life.
Reddit user u/big-juicy724 asked:
"Doctors of reddit, whats your ’Thank god they came in for a second opinion’ moment?"
Beauty Queen Diagnosed With Rare Skin Cancer After Discovering Strange Bruise Under Fingernail
21-year-old Karolina Jasko had quite a shock when she discovered a bruise under the nail on her thumb when she was 18.
She didn't think much of it until she developed an infection in the same nail after several days.
Jasko shared her story in a Facebook post.
"You guys!! I finally get to share something I was really looking forward to for a few months now!"
Many think of cancers, especially melanomas, as something elderly folks deal with.
Unfortunately, that isn't always the case.
"I was diagnosed with melanoma when I was 18, and my early detection saved me from my melanoma spreading and me possibly losing my thumb."
"When I was asked to appear on The Doctors , I was honored. Not only honored to appear on television, but to be able to share my message of early detection and taking care of yourself, physically and psychologically."
"I wish you guys would have the full interview, but the summary provided in these clips is very important."
You can view those two clips below.
Beauty Queen's Trip to Nail Salon Uncovers Cancer youtu.be
Subungual Melanoma: What You Need to Know youtu.be
For many who keep their nails manicured and painted, it is important to do a thorough check of the nail bed between manicures.
While much rarer, melanomas on the arms and hands, or feet and legs, are much more severe.
According to The New York Post, doctors are blaming the increase in these particular melanomas on a popular nail treatment.
They cited:
"the popularity of gel manicures that require setting with harmful ultraviolet light."
Doctor Vishal Patel spoke with TODAY about these types of melanomas. Patel is assistant professor of dermatology at the George Washington University School of Medicine & Health Sciences.
He was not one of the doctors who treated Jasko, but is very familiar with these cancers.
"It's like tanning beds for your hands. We're seeing a lot of patients having not only melanomas, but all types of skin cancers around the finger tips and the cuticles."
Some on social media seemed to disagree, but others encouraged erring on the side of caution.
@billandbobsbud @globalnews @CKNW Nails grow back, life doesn't. Choose wisely.— BlackBird (@BlackBird) 1556907861.0
One Twitter user had an interesting suggestion.
Slap #sunscreen on your hands before getting your #nails done. Beauty queen Karolina Jasko discovers getting her NA… https://t.co/iwTDiFqBdj— jill adelus (@jill adelus) 1529050902.0
Jasko is not the only famous person who has had nail cancer.
@globalnews @globalhalifax Bob Marley had the same cancer which eventually killed him, acral cancer— j paul (@j paul) 1556905286.0
Jasko touched on this in her Facebook post, as well.
"Skin cancer is one of the most deadliest forms of cancer and protecting your skin should be a priority. If you enjoy no chip manicures, tanning beds, etc., please be safe about it."
"Schedule a yearly appointment with a dermatologist, do self skin checks, wear sunscreen, avoid tanning beds, and try to take precaution and switch to different methods of nail care."
Surgeons Share Their Biggest 'Oh S**t' Moment During Surgery
The human body is strange and complicated. Surgeons have the unenviable job of trying to fix us when something goes horribly wrong in the complex system of flesh and nerves and bone that makes up a human.
Reddit user u/A_Weeb_Named_Lightly asked:
"Surgeons of Reddit, what was your biggest "Oh Sh*t!" moment during surgery?"
*Content Warning: graphic descriptions of injury and surgery*