Being Trans in the Work Place: Breaking Down the Closet Door and Breaking Barriers
The suffocation imposed by the closet on individuals stagnates businesses.
How would you like to work in a closet? Stuffy air, not enough light… We've all learned what it means to have to "make do" in less than desirable spaces during the coronavirus shutdowns, but for many transgender people, this discomfort is nothing new.
Andrea Breanna is working to change that.
She founded the highly successful strategic agency and content management system, RebelMouse, before coming out as a transgender lesbian. She believes her coming out story is imperative to the company's success.
"[RebelMouse] did a survey," Andrea tells us, "One of the questions is, 'How safe do you feel being you?' And it was 100%. And I think that's [a] beautiful thing... I should never have hidden it. I never should've stayed in the closet."
Andrea often stresses the suffocation imposed by the closet on individuals and the stagnation it sets on businesses.
"I think the most important impact RebelMouse can have is to inspire young people to help fight back the dark cloak of fear that makes them keep their lives in the closet. I hope our leaders inspire other leaders in other companies to create the types of safe environments that someone could come out and thrive in."
When it comes to representation of her trans peers in tech, she makes a distinction:
"I am less moved, motivated, and inspired by those who have achieved 'visible success' than by those who are struggling against the odds and making it."
Dr. Kortney Ziegler
Dr. Ziegler is of the people Andrea describes. After earning his Ph.D., he founded Trans*H4CK in 2013. The organization was devoted to creating a space for trans people in the California Bay Area's tech sphere.
"I finished my Ph.D. in 2011," he told us, "And it was really difficult for me to find a job. I know this is for LGBT folks, so I'm trans, and I'm really out about my identity. I had an interesting struggle trying to find employment. I ran up against... a lot of anti-trans discrimination. I needed to figure out what to do to not lose my home and my car and all those things that I had at the moment."
Inspired by the tech scene but stalled by the lack of representation, that's when he thought of Trans*H4CK.
"If I can't find a job, I know people who don't have my credentials are probably in way worse situations. So what can I do to kind of leverage being in the tech space and also figuring out how I can use that to help other people to find jobs? So Trans*H4CK was launched as a response to really build technology to make it easier for trans people to sustain our lives."
Trans*H4CK, though no longer in full operation, launched discussions that have since gone on to make the tech sphere a far more inclusive place than it was in 2013 when Ziegler first formed the organization.
"We've been able to really shift the ways that not only smaller folks in tech, but how larger tech organizations operate, as well as helping folks to make their companies more trans-inclusive and respect[ful to] trans people."
Creating Space
The smallest displays of support can build a network that's ultimately life-saving.
"Even if there are no trans employees," Andrea says, "finding a reason to share a story, to put a trans flag up, because it's Pride Month, and if you're a straight CEO and say nothing, you're causing a great deal of pain. And it's one of these moments where it doesn't take a lot, just takes this quick moment of finding some news story to share, something to put in the office or putting it in your signature."
Dr. Ziegler echoes the importance of creating a safe, supportive work environment:
"[M]aking companies inclusive, making people feel safe, adding policies for trans people in the employment policy, making bathrooms safe. I think that there are a number of things that the presence of an organization like Trans*H4CK has contributed to this space."
Moving Forward
Andrea Breanna and RebelMouse's success continues to expand with over 55 employees in 26 countries, all of whom work from home. A key to this success in RebelMouse's endeavors and environment has been emphasizing its employees' happiness and personal stability.
"The way we think about it is that there is no such thing as a business decision. It's always a personal decision. And when you put your own personal happiness first in the decision tree, a lot of magical things happen. We, for some reason, tend to put happiness last. Happiness is the most important measure of our lives," Andrea says.
Jazz Jennings Shows Off Her Gender Confirmation Surgery Scars In Powerful Act Of Self-Love
Jazz Jennings rang in the new year, and the new decade, with self-love and affirmation.
She posted a photo of herself in a bathing suit on Instagram on January 1st, 2020.
The photo showed scars on her thighs that the 19-year-old activist disclosed were from her gender confirmation surgery.
Rather than hiding the scars, Jazz has chosen to embrace them as a part of her journey to living as her authentic self, saying:
"These are my scars on full display in #2019. I'm proud of my scars and love my body just the way it is. I call them my battle wounds because they signify the strength and perseverance it took to finally complete my transition❤️#decade challenge"
Jazz also posted a series of videos of her journey over the past decade.
In the caption on her 2018 video, she talked about her experience with gender confirmation surgery, and the surgical complications that put her back in the hospital shortly after.
"#2018 was a rough year in my life. I experienced a major complication with my gender confirmation surgery and wound up back in the OR one week after the initial procedure. It was a tough journey, but experiences like that one only make us stronger in the end."
View this post on Instagram#2018 was a rough year in my life. I experienced a major complication with my gender confirmation surgery and wound up back in the OR one week after the initial procedure. It was a tough journey, but experiences like that one only make us stronger in the end. Though it can be hard at times, a positive mindset and the support of those around you can help you conquer any challenge. Thank you to all my fans who have supported me throughout the years! Love you all, this video is for you!💕#decadechallenge
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...fans...
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...and trans activists and models Carmen Carrera and Isis King offered their support and love.
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Jazz also shared the story of her surgery, and the complications from it, on TLC's reality series I Am Jazz, which follows her life.
Jazz has been sharing her truth since she was a child.
She is known as one of the youngest people to transition whose journey has been publicly documented.
That story was first shared with the public in the form of I Am Jazz: A Family in Transition which aired on the Oprah Winfrey Network. This led to her TLC series, and Jazz published a memoir about her experiences in 2016.
Jazz has become a vocal advocate for LGBTQ+ rights as she has grown up, largely focusing on trans rights.
Jazz talked with ABC News about her experience with gender confirmation surgery.
"It was like a dream. It was. This is a moment that I had always envisioned and just experiencing it was so surreal. I was like I can't believe this is happening."
She also talked about realizing how she could use her fame to better the world.
"From the time I was six years old, I've been sharing my story. And you know at first I thought, 'Okay, this is all going to come to an end one day and then I'll be able to live my life.' But more and more I realized that I was given this platform for a reason and that I have a strong and powerful voice."
Jazz wasn't the only one who was excited about her gender confirmation surgery. Her mother, Jeanette, got all choked up just before Jazz's surgery thinking about how happy Jazz would be.
"This is a huge thing, she waited for this for so long and it's here and I'm just happy for her."
Jazz's children's book I Am Jazz is available here.
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Jazz's follow-up book Being Jazz: My Life as a (Transgender) Teen is available here.
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You know how when you hear the same thing over and over again, it kind of makes you want to kick someone in the shin? Yeah ... this article is totally about that.
Reddit user _ligaya asked:
LGBTQ+ people, what are you tired of hearing?
And if you, like me, foolishly thought that some of the more awful or annoying stereotypes had gone away, then brace yourself. They're still here in full effect. Here are some of the things that members of LGBTQ+ community are tired of hearing, both from outside and inside of the community.
In the words of Motormouth Maybelle: "Brace yourselves for a whole lotta ugly comin' at you from a neverending parade of stupid."
A Dad Teaches His Transgender Son How To Shave In New Gillette Ad That's Giving People All The Feels
A new GilletteGillette ad depicts a father teaching his transgender son to shave, and it's gone viral.
The heartwarming clip shows Samson, a transgender man, learning how to shave with the help of his father.
The video has blown up on Facebook, with over 6,000 shares. The caption reads:
"Whenever, wherever, however it happens — your first shave is special."
The clip opens with Samson discussing the start of his transition.
"Growing up, I was always trying to figure out what kind of man I wanted to become."
"And I'm still trying to figure out what kind of man I want to become."
"I always knew I was different. I didn't know that there was a term for the type of person that I was."
As the video continues, Samson is shown shaving for the first time, saying that he is happy he is at the point in his transition where he can shave.
His father shows him which direction to use the razor, offering encouragement as Samson goes.
"Don't be scared," his father says.
"Shaving is about being confident. You are doing fine- you are doing fine."
The clip has garnered over 787,000 views since it was posted on Thursday, and has received over a thousand comments, including one from Samson himself.
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More have showed their support for the ad, and praised its depiction of a transgender man's relationship with his father.
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The amount of positivity that the video has received is astounding. Several spoke of how they felt the ad was relatable, and a story that needed to be told. Gillette also had some kind words in return.
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Many more have posted kind words on Twitter.
As a black trans man who works in advertising, this is... Everything. This is the kind of work I dream of creating… https://t.co/xbWsy1itU6— 🥺 era (@🥺 era) 1558804451
This week, the Trump Admin. legalized discrimination against transgender patients and homeless people Meanwhile, G… https://t.co/Cl9jvwO7rf— Chris Lu (@Chris Lu) 1558838973
This is the kind of representation transgender people need and deserve. Also, a great example of positive masculi… https://t.co/R7yAGHVhXu— BenDeLaCreme (@BenDeLaCreme) 1558823167
okay but can we for REAL get some love for @Gillette for these two frames alone #TransIsBeautiful https://t.co/1VFQy4E90Y— Lesley! 🇺🇦 (@Lesley! 🇺🇦) 1558912890
Inclusivity in the media is something we need to see more of.
Gillette has once again provided this, and many are grateful for the representation.
Their tag line is the best a man can get. This is the best an ad can get.
Google is releasing 53 new gender-fluid emoji as part of a beta release for their Pixel smartphones this week.
Speaking in an exclusive interview with Fast Company, Android emoji director Jennifer Daniel said the move is part of an effort to make the symbols more inclusive:
"We're not calling this the non-binary character, the third gender, or an asexual emoji — and not gender neutral. Gender neutral is what you call pants. But you can create something that feels more inclusive."
Google releases 53 gender fluid emoji Sujet super intéressant (et je les trouve assez réussis)… https://t.co/g1fDgIQ1ws— Marc Pédeau (@Marc Pédeau) 1557334860
Daniel sits on the Unicode consortium, the organization that sets core emoji standards like gender that designers at tech companies use to create their own emoji.
Last year, she noted that there were 64 emoji that were never meant to signify gender per Unicode's standards.
And that's where things got complicated, as Fast Company points out:
"Yet Apple, Microsoft, Samsung, and, yes, Google, have often assigned genders with their designs for these emoji. It's why every construction worker across major operating systems is, by default, is a man. Unicode's standards dictated a construction 'person,' but tech companies decided to design them as construction men (and add women as a secondary option)."
That practice reinforces stereotypes, so Google decided to address the problem. Some emojis, like the merperson emoji, now have genderless mid-length hair.
The vampire emoji now sports an androgynous chain instead of a bowtie, while its female iteration dons a choker necklace.
Google is adding 53 gender-fluid emoji to Android Q https://t.co/V5fb7u7ZH4— Shahid Ansari (@Shahid Ansari) 1557396643
Daniel admits that there is "no singular way of getting it right" but says the challenge was not one that could be avoided:
"Gender is complicated. It is an impossible task to communicate gender in a single image. It's a construct. It lives dynamically on a spectrum. I personally don't believe there is one visual design solution at all, but I do believe to avoid it is the wrong approach here."
"We can't avoid race, gender, any other number of things in culture and class. You have to stare it in the face in order to understand it. That's what we're trying to do–to [find] the signifiers that make something feel either male or female, or both male and female."
The project has already received praise.
In which @jenniferdaniel demonstrates why she is the very best kind of human! Gender neutral emoji on principle.. i… https://t.co/Tw5sJMuZ4i— Tea Uglow 🏳️⚧️ (@Tea Uglow 🏳️⚧️) 1557369958
Kudos to @jenniferdaniel of Google for driving release of gender neutral emoji to reflect genderless words like… https://t.co/HHeq5NJisc— Emojination (@Emojination) 1557278233
I support this 100% but these emoji are literally all just me. https://t.co/Ch7nRtwdkP— Alex (@Alex) 1557421880
Ths is incredibly cool https://t.co/BSArRSiX5x— Lightning (@Lightning) 1557350552
The new emoji will roll out to all Android Q phones planned for later in 2019.
Because Google collaborates with Apple and other tech companies when developing emojis, other companies will likely release their own versions of these emojis in the future.