There are some songs that when people hear them on the radio, or even just hummed by another person in passing, they can't help but hum or sing along as well.
Other people are so moved by certain songs, no matter when or how many times they've heard T before, that they can't help but get misty eyed every time.
Others have songs which have the power to instantly put them at ease at the end of a stressful day.
One could say that people are "obsessed" with certain songs, and will likely never tire of them.
Redditor jimmy_sharpe3 was curious to hear the songs that people simply can't get enough of, leading them to ask:
"What song are you currently obsessed with?"
Worth listening to no matter what the season.
"'Season of The Witch by Donovan'."
"I don’t know much of the artist’s stuff at all but something about the song relaxes me in a way."- EllieC130
Makes me want to keep on living!
"'The day I tried to live'. - soundgarden."- Jahstin
The release everyone needs every now and then...
"'War pigs' - Black Sabbath."
"I've just discovered heavy metal in my 50s."
"So good."- itwonthurtabit
led zeppelin GIFGiphyGets me off my "melancholy hill"...
"On Melancholy Hill'. - Gorillaz."- Alternative-City5799
When the "silence" becomes too much...
"'Enjoy the Silence', by Depeche Mode."- JungleFlare
An always reliable friendship.
"'Me and Michael' - MGMT."- _chorb_
music video kids GIF by Columbia Records UKGiphyA very good year.
"'1979' by the Smashing Pumpkins."- No-Move09
A classic, and a backup.
"'The Chain' -Fleetwood Mac."
"Before that: 'Shum- Go_A'."- Sassifrassically
Why not both?
'"Daydreaming' - Radiohead, 'A forest' - The Cure."- Card-Soft
radiohead GIF by Glastonbury Festival 2017GiphyLiterally infectious...
"'Tinnitus', by my brain."- ThatOneAlice
Music is amazing in having the power of moving us in many different ways.
By stimulating our brains, tugging at our heartstrings, or demanding our feet to dance.
And it's always nice to have a reliable song which we know can do all of the above when we need it the most.
I think, fundamentally, there are two types of people.
Some folks are perfectly satisfied to have their romantic partner as their only social outlet. They don't need other friends, they don't need hobbies, they don't need alone time, they're perfectly content to live with the "us against the world" mindset.
Other people need to maintain a social life outside of their partner. They need to continue those friendships, outlets, and time to themselves to recharge. To those people, the idea of being someone's whole world isn't a heart-warming one; it's a high-pressure suffocating situation.
I'm not here to say one type is right or wrong, but relationships can get pretty complicated when one partner is one way, the other is the opposite. Communication is key, but this can be a really hurtful topic of conversation that's difficult to navigate when one partner just doesn't get the others needs or why they would even have them.
One Reddit user is sitting squarely in the middle of this problem. She adores her partner, but he never gives her any breathing room and tries to make her feel guilty when she takes some time to herself. He even texts her constantly while she's at work and gets hurt when she can't respond right away. In an effort to get some time to herself, she called in sick to work so she could just be home alone. She realized she's hit her breaking point and reached out for some advice.
I called in sick to work today so I could have some time alone from my partner. My partner is always around. Some people will say I'm lucky that he wants to be around me all of the time, but it's feeling so smothering.
We've been together for 10 years. He has no friends he hangs out with, and the only time he'll do his hobby (fishing) is when I'm busy doing something else. If I suggest he should go fishing, he asks why I'm trying to get rid of him. If I want to hang out with my friend (which we only do once a week), instead of saying "that sounds fun, I hope you have a good time!" he'll say "well what am I going to do? You've been at work all day, I haven't seen you, I'm going to miss you". He makes me feel guilty for leaving him alone.
I'm just feeling overwhelmed. How do you tell your partner of 10 years that he's smothering me and I need guilt-free alone time? I have told him before, but he gets a little mopey and wonders why I need "me time". It's just not really a concept he understands, and it's hard to explain.
It hasn't always been like this, but we've moved cities a few times and his friend pool has dwindled down to nothing, and he doesn't know how to make new friends. His co-dependence has just been getting worse and worse and I'm just starting to hit the end of my mental strings.
Here are some of the responses she got. Some have been edited for clarity. What advice would you have given?
H/T: Reddit