Friendships aren't always meant to last forever. To quote someone incredibly smart, sometimes people come into our lives, stay a little while, and then they have to go. While it's sad, the happy parts make it all worthwhile. I think a cartoon blue heeler said it.
And then there's these, friendship splits a long time coming, or out of the blue, which make you think,
"Wow, why were we friends again?"
Reddit user, Dense-Thing3339, wanted to know when things all went wrong when they asked:
"Former best friends, what happened?"
You don't know what life is going to be like. Who does? But maybe a move is all it takes for a friendship to fall apart.
Too Much Drama
"I realized that I couldn't deal with their... Everything anymore. The constant drama, the misplaced outrage, the moodiness... Life was simpler when I realized that my being around all of that was optional."
plasticdisplaysushi
Too Far To Connect
"Moved away and lost touch slowly over time. Both of us are doing good though which I’m grateful for."
User Deleted
"Similar here. Except mine went for culinary school and started working a minimum of 13 hours per shift. He loves the sh*t out of it but his social life is non-existent now."
Edythir
As Long As You're Keeping Up The 'Likes'
"They moved to London, I moved to LA."
"Now it's just the occasional "I need to visit soon!" followed by another year of no interaction other than Instagram likes."
soonerguy11
"Same here (minus me moving to LA). Whenever she does visit it’s exhausting. She did not grow up to be a very likable adult. If she happens to travel here for work or something I’ll go have dinner with her, but I limit it to that."
CaimansGalore
Sometimes it's not an external factor that causes the friendship to fall apart, but something on the inside. A change in personality or religious guidance that forces them to reveal their true selves.
Ain't No Friend Of Mine
"She was constantly making jabs about my appearance, where I lived, my interests, etc. and I called her out on it, so she blocked me."
shelbeelzebub
"That sounds like it was hard but for the better. She’s not a good friend."
Nannarbuns
"Yeah, my self-esteem has gone up quite a bit since we stopped talking. Definitely for the better."
shelbeelzebub
Acting Better Than You
"He started working out and lost a lot of weight. He looked great and was so fun to be around. He had gotten his confidence back but was still the same loving guy he was when he wasn't as attractive. Then he lost all of it and got really arrogant and angry. Was really rude and egotistical :("
BezosAltAcct
Choose A Time To Practice Your Religion. Not Now.
"She became super religious and told me I couldn't truly be a moral person without accepting Jesus."
"That was while I was at her house for 9 days to clean and care for her four children while her husband went through cancer surgery."
PanickedPoodle
Whatever the reason, you know what you have to do next: Leave the friendship.
Looking For Revenge
"We were both 15 at the time."
"I had agreed to meet him in the city centre one Saturday afternoon. Genuinely forgot. He rang me to ask where I was and I apologised, got on the next bus and was with him 30 minutes later."
"A week later we went to the city again (together this time). We went to visit a record store and after a few minutes I realised he wasn't there anymore. Sent him a message asking where he was and got a reply "On the bus home. Now you know how it feels to be left alone in the city"."
"Didn't speak again. Couldn't believe he was so petty."
Kezly
Ruining Your Entire Career
"We were in a band together. He ended up stealing a decent amount of money from a promoter in our city. The promoter called my drummer & I and said “I’m blacklisting anything that your band member is part of from shows in this city- just letting you two know” and I never talked to the guy again."
gnarleypunk
A Bleakness In Their Heart
"He commit a seriously heinous crime that nobody thought he was capable of. People loved him, he was the "golden boy" of the town. Now he's in prison for the rest of his life. He reached out to me but I wanted nothing to do with him afterwards."
"No, it is not a case of false accusations, he texted me admitting to it, and there was a MOUNTAIN of evidence against him."
heybrother45
...Sounds Like A Good Reason, Yeah
"Dude abandoned his wife and kids, screwed my wife, then my gf, then un-invited me to his wedding. F-ck you, Paul."
sandfleazzz
"Yeah, f-ck you, Paul!"
urbexcemetery
Sometimes you just have to know when to cut the cord.
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"Redditors who have a security job watching monitors, what's the creepiest thing you've seen?"
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Irish Woman Who Married 300-Year-Old Pirate Ghost Announces That They're Splitting Up—And Yes, You Read That Right
Even death could not stop their love, but now it looks like the honeymoon is over for an Irish woman and her 300-year-old pirate ghost husband.
It might not have been love at first sight but, when 46-year-old Amanda Sparrow Teague met the ghost of an 18th century Haitian pirate named Jack, she knew it was love.
So the pair were legally married in a ceremony held in international waters off the coast or Ireland.
But their love couldn't last forever, and now Amanda says she wants a divorce.
The woman who claims to have married a 300-year old pirate ghost wants a divorce https://t.co/mAsVAFSVuO— The Independent (@The Independent) 1544461872.0
It seemed like the perfect love story. Amanda had a soft spot for swarthy buccaneers. She was Northern Ireland's only female Jack Sparrow impersonator and spent £5,433 to legally change her last name from Large to Sparrow.
Amanda Sparrow Teague/Facebook
Then one night lying in bed Amanda felt a presence. It was the spirit of Jack Teague, a Haitian sailor who was executed for piracy in the 1700s.
After the encounter, Amanda soon developed "strong loving feelings" for Jack, who she says looks a lot like Johnny Depp's Jack Sparrow. "He is dark-skinned and has jet-black hair, so he tells me."
But Amanda wasn't just looking for a fling. "I told him I wasn't really cool with having casual sex with a spirit and I wanted us to make a proper commitment to each other."
In January they married in a private ceremony with the help of a shaman and a medium who spoke Jack's vows for him.
Woman Marries 300-Year-Old 'Jack Sparrow'-Type Ghost Pirate www.youtube.com
Amanda made headlines for her unusual marriage, but told people they should consider marrying a ghost themselves.
"There are a lot of people out there who don't know about spiritual relationships, but it could be right for them. I want to get the message out there."
Later, she even had a pregnancy scare, but in the end it just turned out to be menopause.
Sadly, it seems the whirlwind romance has come to an end.
According to the Irish Mirror, Teague posted about the end of her marriage on social media.
"So I feel it's time to let everyone know that my marriage is over. I will explain all in due course but for now all I want to say is be VERY careful when dabbling in spirituality, it's not something to mess with."
After such a gripping love story, people wondered would could have broken the couple apart.
Was it infidelity that tore them apart? Or perhaps the challenges of existing in separate dimensions? https://t.co/vmm9LlnPlD— New York Magazine (@New York Magazine) 1544513385.0
@theirishpost @AstonshngLegnds Well... I guess he's dead to her now.— GM Word of the Week Podcast (@GM Word of the Week Podcast) 1544422778.0
@Independent She wants to get off the hook— An observer (@An observer) 1544466502.0
@Independent She found out he had a girl in every portal.— Weldon Thomas (@Weldon Thomas) 1544462614.0
@Independent I guess he married her for her booty.— James Day (@James Day) 1544466778.0
@Independent She must have seen right through him— Cerberinus 🏴🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🖤🤍💜 (@Cerberinus 🏴🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🖤🤍💜) 1544465188.0
Breaking up is hard to do, but it might be even harder when you're married to a ghost. Amanda says she's worried Jack might not want a divorce and she might need to call an exorcist.
That might not be the only complication with divorcing a pirate ghost, though.
@Independent good luck getting alimony— Randall Swanson (@Randall Swanson) 1544467436.0
@Independent But what about the kids?— Neil Quinn (@Neil Quinn) 1544462781.0
It was beautiful while it lasted, but it seems all good things must come to an end.