It's all too easy to think very little of ourselves, be it based on the opinions of others or just our own innate self-esteem.
As a result, we might look for things or words that might empower us, and feel better in the moment.
But, do these things or sayings actually empower us?
While they might make us feel better or stronger for a moment, does doing these things actually help us in the long run?
"What is seen as empowering, but really shouldn't be?"
The Haters Gonna Hate...
"Insisting that you are perfect just the way you are and anyone who says different is just a 'hater' and shouldn't be listened to."
"Yes, haters exist."
"But if you're consistently hearing that you have problems from people around you, you need to do some introspection instead of cutting those people off for being 'negative' or 'toxic'."- Vero518
It's Just Plain Rude... And Agressive!
"Being rude and aggressive."- SuvenPan
You Are Worth So Much More Than That!
“'The grind' for money."
"I work in a warehouse and everyone just brags about all the overtime they’re working."
"One of the guys who has been there for 15 years told me 'we don’t get paid well because the job is hard, we get paid well because it takes up most of our time'."- AverageCartPusher
Empowered Doesn't Mean Awful!
"Often 'being empowered' is put forward to veil selfish behaviors."- Ruggiard
"Being a bully just to show your friends your 'cool' and can boss around others."
"Humiliating others to show you are above them is just pathetic."- idkybutt
Be Mindful Of Where You Invest Your Money...
"Buying courses from online business gurus."- YLRESS
"MLMs."
"You are not a 'small business owner' if you have no say in branding, pricing, packaging, etc."
"These are predatory companies that sell the idea of empowerment through sub par products and practices."- OneBigOne
Season 3 Money GIF by The SimpsonsGiphyBeing In Charge Doesn't Mean Being A Dictator!
"'I'm a Boss B*tch' and the male version, whatever that is."- dirtycimments
"Being a b*tch/a-hole to everyone else."
"Example, I had a Sister-in-law that would always say, 'I'm sorry, I'm just one of those people that if it comes up, it comes out'."
"and I would always say 'OH so you have no filter for your mouth?'"
"'isn't that just an excuse for being a b*tch?'"- Feels2old
Name One Time This Turned Out Well...
"Mob mentality."
"Usually, the mob is emotionally stunted and without all of the facts."- ilaissezfaire
crowd riot GIFGiphyIt is important to find one's inner strength to get through the day.
Just always be mindful that being strong doesn't mean not treating others with kindness.
And "power" can be dangerous when used improperly.
After seven weeks at the top of the Billboard Hot 100 singles chart, Ariana Grande's "Thank U, Next," a follow-up to her hit album Sweetener, has finally fallen to number two while Halsey's "Without Me" has risen to the #1 spot.
Grande's reaction to Halsey usurping her throne was anything but competitive, however.
Though Halsey had a #1 billboard hit alongside The Chainsmokers for her performance in "Closer," this is the first time she's topped the charts as a solo act.
Halsey posted about the experience on Instagram, saying:
"#1 on billboard. wow. very overwhelmed and confused and so very very very VERY happy. This song came from a very lonely place, and brought me to one of the most loved and supported moments of my lifetime."
Halsey continued:
"This achievement is completely beyond my means of comprehending right now so I'll get back to you guys when I find more eloquent and compelling things to say. Right now my brain is a washing machine of emotion. On a very high cycle. I love you very much."
Instead of throwing shade, Grande took to social media to show her support for Halsey.
On her Instagram, she wrote:
"F*ck it up @iamhalsey. To girls on top all 2019."
Halsey responded to Arianna's message:
"Luv u bb. Dynamic women who are headstrong + compassionate all 2019."
Twitter loved the supportive relationship between the two pop stars!
halsey and ariana’s friendship <3 https://t.co/jMdbmT43kh— chrissy ☾ (@chrissy ☾) 1546891560.0
halsey’s answer to ari’s instagram story 🦋💙 2019 will be their year https://t.co/Ka1rbfH8k8— chrissy ☾ (@chrissy ☾) 1546895726.0
Every time Halsey or Ariana Grande show up in my feed, I instantly get healthy motivation— Sarah Young (@Sarah Young) 1547380802.0
@MTV I’m here for both of them!!!— clt.princee (@clt.princee) 1546963347.0
@PopAlarms @PopFactsNews BOTH ARE QUEENS THEY BOTH DESERVE— grandelicious 想像 (@grandelicious 想像) 1546816132.0
You're not just imagining the girl power dominating the Billboard music charts.
When Mariah Carey's "All I Want for Christmas Is You" rose to number three during Christmas (as it does annually), it marked the first time since 2014 that the three most popular songs were performed by female artists.
@PopAlarms females are taking over this chart and i love it 😍— ☾ (@☾) 1546814881.0
@PopAlarms @PopFactsNews It's about time tbh— Nada Yasmine (@Nada Yasmine) 1546814873.0
Both Ariana and Halsey's songs happen to be about famous break-ups as well.
Grande's song, available here, names names as she speaks about how grateful she is for the good men she's dated...
Ariana Grande - thank u, nextyoutu.be
...but Halsey takes a different tack. "Without Me" is available here.
Halsey - Without Meyoutu.be
In October 2018, during an interview with Zach Sang, Halsey spoke of how the song was meant to address her toxic breakup with rapper G-Eazy:
"I'll tell you what. It happened when I looked at my relationships all around me."
"All of them – cause this song is not just about one — and it made me sit down and go 'I feel like I've given so much to relationships with people in my life and I'm getting nothing back'… and so I cut a lot of people out of my life."
"Some temporarily, obviously, because G and I are back together. And some permanently."
Halsey Talks Without Me, Justin Timberlake & G-Eazyyoutu.be
Since recording that interview, Halsey and G-Eazy have broken up once again.
Why does Halsey's Without Me make me feel like I broke up with G-Eazy too— China Capala (@China Capala) 1547343728.0
In our modern day and age, Ariana and Halsey know there's no need to be competitive with each other when both ultra-talented women created great songs that the whole world's into.
There's plenty of love to go around!
the fact that Ariana and Halsey both have the first two number one singles of 2019. Women are taking over this year… https://t.co/GpiqSsFwYh— ً (@ً) 1546892251.0
Women empowering women is what we like to see! https://t.co/FVDn5STLBv— Z100 Portland (@Z100 Portland) 1547269631.0
Hello, everyone! Don't be mad just because Ariana has lost her #1 song on Hot 100 this week, what really mean is wo… https://t.co/SRpWXLcwwi— Ariana Grande Charts (@Ariana Grande Charts) 1546883901.0