People Who Fulfilled Their Lifelong Dream But Hated The Experience Share What Happened
As kids, we all had big dreams and aspirations.
But sometimes as adults, when we start achieving those big dreams, we start to wonder why we dreamed about them in the first place.
Redditor buzzkill007 asked:
"Have you ever dreamed of doing something your whole life only to find out, once you did it, that you hated it?"
"What was it?"
A Former Performer
"I spent six years of my life in the choir, thinking I wanted to be an opera singer or perform in musicals."
"I got to my first year of college as a vocal performance major and realized I wasn't actually willing to learn most of what was required. I had never played an instrument or taken lessons on it before, so I was s**t at music theory. Then I had to take a piano class, which I was also s**t at, with three more years of those to expect in the future."
"I didn't have the same kind of flamboyant music kid personality as all my classmates, so I had a difficult time getting along with everyone, too."
"The only thing I had was a good voice but without any interest in anything other than actively singing. I finally realized that it wasn't the career path for me and that I didn't want to become famous or deal with the bulls**t that comes along with trying to get consistent work in that industry."
"I found that I enjoy singing most when my husband is having a difficult time, and I can help him fall asleep at night by just singing his favorite song. He's knocked out by the time I finish the first stanza usually. It makes me feel like I didn't waste all that time for nothing."
- KarlieNatasha
The Game Builder
"Video game development. There was way more math than I anticipated."
- catalystjoe
"I can here to say the same, video game development. It was my dream since I was very young. I spent all of college working towards it and worked an entry-level dev job and then a mid-level dev job to get prepared."
"Finally, the time came and I was hired by a game development company. My dream job! I lasted 18 months and I will never, ever consider doing it again."
"Game developers are not only worked to the bone and paid poorly (by software engineering standards), but they are also treated like college students working on a team project. No autonomy, no flexibility. Management was h**l-bent on butts being in seats exactly at start time, exactly 60-minute lunches or you are written up, work until 6:00 PM if you’re lucky and until 10:00 PM if you aren’t, but hey, they would spring for s**tty delivery food!"
"Everything about the job, I hated. And, the kicker, the main difference between the business apps I was building before and the games I was building during was the variable and function names."
"Unless you are very young or very VERY passionate about making games, DO NOT go into game development. If you want to build games, do it in your free time."
- hightrix
The Glamorous Pilot
"Being a pilot. I dreamed about it constantly as a kid. I finished all my ratings by the age of 20 and lasted four years on the job before I realized how shady the industry was (the charter industry back in the early 2000s)."
"I drive ships now."
- prominently_hidden
The Long-Awaited Name Change
"I changed my name. When the name change was accepted and I received the letter with my new name on it, I freaked out and changed it back the same day."
- sour-d
The Idllyic Psychiatrist
"I thought I'd be a practicing psychologist, but I had a very idealistic view of it. Like the patient lying on the couch, telling you about their life problems, then you telling them something and giving them a breakthrough. Mental illness cured!"
"I did complete my psych undergrad, and I loved the subject matter, but after doing my internship at Child and Family Services it was very clear to me that I wasn't cut out for clinical work. I certainly would have burned out, and barely made enough money to live as a case worker."
"I got my masters in HCI/UX and made my career in tech, which was a great decision. I have nothing but respect for the boots-on-the-ground social workers, but I'm gonna continue to read books about psychology instead of working in it."
- plasma_dan
Romantic Dream Come True
"I grew up watching romance movies and reading romance novels and always dreamed of a guy coming and sweeping me off my feet and then having hot sex with me."
"When I actually got into my first relationship with a guy, I realized I was gay."
- ukrainianironbelly92
Not Just Curing Cancer
"I dreamed of working in a lab. I wanted to help cure viruses and diseases. But it turned into monotonous days of pipetting, plating germs, and tediousness that was soul-sucking."
- deoxy75
The Aspiring Architect
"I wanted to be an architect so I became one. I quickly learned that the only people who actually get to be creative are the people who own the firm."
"The pay sucks and they grind through young architects but you require a very expensive degree and testing to get your license is expensive and difficult."
"It's very dependent on the economy and at the first sight of a downturn everyone gets laid off Slow to recover as well as construction sometimes lags."
"There are long terrible hours doing sh*t work to make some stupid design some partner thought up actually work in a technical sense for months on end only to have a client say it’s too expensive anyway and you end up with a square glass box."
"It's also very deadline driven like, 'we’re digging a hole on Monday so be done or we’re all fired,' so high stress for s**t pay."
- Lejanius
The Successful Tech
"I wanted to make it big in tech, like my mother did, who spurred my interest in tech as a child."
"Then I got into tech and understood my mother survived in tech because she was one of the megad**ks that make tech so toxic."
"I was the 'I'm here to get along and make money' kind of tech. She was the 'You can't take my promotion from me if I get you fired' kind of tech."
- Surprise_Corgi
The Joys of Pet Care
"I thought I would love being a dog groomer. I love dogs and working with my hands."
"What a load of s**t. Owners are a**holes, some dogs were a**holes, horrible bosses, unrealistic targets, and you get scratched, bitten, s**t on, and hair gets everywhere, even in your eyes. Unless you work for yourself, it’s a crap job, and maybe even then."
- posh_old_bird
Visiting Las Vegas
"Vegas was such a huge letdown for me. I grew up in Atlantic City and now live in the south and have been to Biloxi's casinos a lot... and I always heard about the majesty of Vegas... and the OUTSIDE of casinos were cool, but I guess the insides of casinos are all done by the same designers... The only difference with Vegas was everything cost more."
"And those guys flicking the cards to hand you porn cards like real-life pop-up ads when you're walking downtown..."
- UncleGrako
Veterinary Care
"Being a veterinarian. I never became a vet, but one of my first jobs in high school, having wanted to be a vet my whole life, was in a vet clinic. I was ecstatic."
"But vet clinics are depressing as f**k. Dogs and cats hit by cars coming into the clinic in horrendous pain. It always smells like s**t from fecal floats (checking for worms), pets that got put down but could have been saved if only their owners could have afforded it."
"There are always two freezers in the basement, one for dead dogs, and one for dead cats. They get hauled to the basement freezer in trash bags in case they release waste after they die. I couldn't take it after only a few months and left."
- Competitive-Ad-9662
The Chopping Block
"Being a Chef. I left high school in year 10 to get a certification in commercial cookery as I loved cooking and making dishes at home."
"I loved it for the first few months and then realized how draining it is. I do split shifts 9:00 AM to 2:30 PM, and then again from 5:00 PM to 9:00 PM, sometimes 9:30 PM. It's exhausting after doing it for four years. You lose your appetite completely."
"I recently had a knee injury and have been off for a few weeks, and it's really made my anxiety and depression calm down after not being torn to bits by chefs who have had 20 or more years of experience and 'know' everything."
"It's making me realize that I've made the wrong career choice."
- Acats3
Confessions of a Not-Shopaholic
"I know it sounds stupid, but mine was a shopping spree."
"My family never really had much money, so I could go out on a shopping spree with friends, and if I did go out with them, I was always the one left holding the bags or feeling left out."
"When I did manage to get a few things for myself on occasion, like if I had a birthday or Christmas money, it was always what others wanted me to wear and never anything for myself that I truly loved."
"I felt weird because I was always told girls are meant to love shopping, like my friends did, but I just hated it and chalked it up to not having much cash and being dragged about from store to store."
"I came into some money years ago and was able to have a shopping spree. I decided to go alone so I could buy what I wanted without others' influence, but I hated it still. I couldn't justify the prices I knew my friends usually would spend, and I felt so overwhelmed by everything."
"I also found that while being alone, I could be honest with myself, especially with nobody pushing me to buy their style, and I very quickly realized I was quite alternative and gothic, and none of the shops fit my style."
"I left overwhelmed, sad, and disappointed and realized I never felt off because I didn't have money or felt left out. I felt off because I really didn't like shopping or crowds, and I was not accepting my true style."
- HotTemperedGoose
'Never Work a Day in Your Life' ...Maybe.
"This whole thread is a good reason why you should never turn your hobby into a job."
- somethingweirder
"Don't ruin something you love. Do something you're good at, instead. And do what you love as a hobby."
- jprause
From the time we were kids, there were things that we always wanted to do.
But like anything else in life, some things are not going to be as great as we thought they would be.
Some movies have endings that are just blatantly terrible.
Pretty in Pink, Hair, The Human Centipede—it's amazing sometimes how an ending so bleak or unsatisfying could be approved by any movie studio.
Redditor christianreeve93 asked:
"What's the worst way to end a movie?"
That's just bad marketing.
"The Devil Inside. At the end of the movie it tells you to go to a web page to find out the ending of the movie. Doesn't get much worse than that."
tustjzfjxfjxgjzjf
"What. The... I have not seen this movie but this right here has to be the winner."
aluxeterna
Low-hanging fruit.
"Shark's Tale didn't end with a screen simply saying 'Fin.' So that."
kitjen
"That's how The Meg ended. So there's that."
diablonmerlin
GiphyThere's one exception.
"It was all a dream/movie/fake/never happened . . . . f*ck you 'Ice cream Truck Killer', why did you have to have that ending!?"
ScrambledToast
"I agree with you with one exception - The Wizard of Oz mainly because at the time it was filmed, that wasn't a done-to-death plot but also because it was pretty clear it must have been a dream from the beginning since most of the main Oz characters looked exactly like Kansas characters."
BarrenA**Bomburst
Good example.
"With a plot twist that comes completely out of nowhere and makes no sense, purely for shock value."
DonnyMox
"This is what happened in Now You See Me and I was amazed at how much people liked it despite this. There were scenes of Mark Ruffalo personally being distraught that he couldn't catch these guys and then apparently he was supposed to be the spectator/judge of this vague magician cult the entire time."
"So it's like--what was he doing? Was he trying to convince himself that he wasn't involved? I guess you could say some bullsh*t about how "he was just that clever" but it really just made it look like they decided to change his values at the very end of the movie for the purpose of a twist."
zorbid14
Ruined a perfectly fine ending.
"Completely changing the outcome to awkwardly turn it into a happy end. Looking at you, I Am Legend."
Neutrum
"This is my personal pet peeve with movies. Tom Cruise's Far and Away pissed me off so badly with this. The end of the movie he dies and the camera starts to pan out while the soundtrack music turns to a minor key. We see Nicole Kidman's character holding his dead body. A beautiful poignant ending scene. But then the music swells and the camera reverses to start panning in on Tom Cruise and suddenly he gasps and wakes up and is just fine so they can live happily ever after. What utter crap."
varthalon
GiphyDefinitely.
"Leaving it open for another movie, that sucks a**."
Woke-Tarantula
"Especially when its a really GOOD opening, but the sequel never comes. I'm still waiting to see what the (expletive deleted) is crashing through the jungle at the ending of Deep Rising."
varthalon
Good point.
"THE END... and then, after a few seconds... THE END?"
skunkwaffle
"When the studio basically says, 'did we make enough money to justify a sequel?'"
_Tormex_
Glad they didn't use this one.
"Having a dude walk in and shoot Dante after Randall leaves for the night. EDIT"
wzl46
"That scene is more revealing than one might think. Kevin made 'Clerks' because he was afraid of getting robbed, shot, and dying without having done anything with his life but jockey a register."
Coug-Ra
GiphyTHIS.
"Killing off all if not most of the characters for no f*cking reason. Not for plot development, just cuz "hurrdurr, our movie is dark, something something not everyone gets a happy ending hehe". Especially when the audience has connected with the characters throughout the movie. Don't kill em off with no intention of making the movie better. They did this so much especially back in 1998 when the undertaker- I'm kidding, I won't do that to you."
skies-forever-bright
Loses all of its meaning.
"A voiceover narration over the last scene explaining what we were looking at and what it all meant. Man, I forgot how powerful that scene was. Anyway, the whole point of the movie was to NOT explain what was going on so you would try to figure it out yourself because, in the end, that's how exploration and discovery work."
bhalwalbhalwal
Reveals
"Whatever 'Next' did. That action was amazing, until finding out that it was all just a premonition. God dang it."
bessonovafan6454
"I actually liked that ending. 'And then the plot was resolved completely' is the default ending. Having the ending of the film be a vision that is unique to the character's abilities, but also unique to the character himself due to events that have occurred during said narrative, is at least an interesting twist on the 'and we all lived happily ever after' ending that is implied."
Tibetzz
Ridiculous
"When Scarlett Johannson turns into a USB drive. 'Lucy.'
tustjzfjxfjxgjzjf
"I instinctively wanted to downvote you, but then I noticed that I completely forgot about that garbage movie and thought you meant 'Her' - which was an awesome movie where she turns into a network, not a USB drive."
tr_22
Half a Movie
"Pirates of the Caribbean 2 ending. After the first one was a hit they had the option of making stand alone movies or trying to create a trilogy that they weren't set up for. I really wish they would have done the stand alone stuff before that franchise went off the deep end."
Ultravioletgray
johnny depp GIFGiphyHobbit Issues
"While a lot of people will cite there was never any reason to make three Hobbit films, the ending of the second is really weirdly paced, and exists just to be a sequel hook. Movie one ends with them arriving at the mountain, which is the natural end of act one for the story. Movie two then ends with the dragon about to attack the town next to the mountain."
"Which seems like a reasonable cliffhanger, but it's resolved within the first ten minutes of movie three, and the real end of act two comes in shortly thereafter when it becomes clear that there will be a battle for the mountain now the dragon is gone. This is where movie two should've actually ended, as the dragon is the main villain of movie two."
Nambot
Bad Empire
"So The Empire Strikes Back."
roboninja
"I mean, empire was a good movie on IG's own imo. They didn't pad the runtime or split a story that could perfectly be told in one movie. Look at it this way: it's fine if the pay off of a story comes in a sequel but it's not fine if the first one doesn't have anything to tell because of it or ends at a very boring point. In that case you just feel that you actually got to the middle of what should be one movie."
Fake-DAIH
Alarms...
"With the fire alarm going off, the automatic voice quieter than the movie. Movie doesn't stop, and there's not a single employee in sight as you wander out. This happens right at the climax, and there's just a huge group outside having no clue what happened."
ArcannOfZakuul
The Give Up
"Rushing the ending always kills a movie for me. It’s like the writers didn’t really know how to end it so they threw everything together haphazardly."
Racing_in_the_street
"This is how I felt about Get Out. It was a well done psychological thriller with some political commentary and then bam, just turns into a revenge fantasy with a happy ending out of nowhere."
Apellosine
Sesame Street Reaction GIF by Muppet WikiGiphyBoring Death
"DRACULA SPOILER** Was watching Dracula on Netflix. Thought the bada** lead character was going to kill Dracula in some elaborate, secret scheme, or some thing cool, but no. Essentially she goes on a tangent about how Dracula is afraid to die and blah blah. In the end he decides to kill himself out of shame. Yes they killed Dracula with shame. IMO that was the worst, most anti-climatic ending to a pretty good story."
PhannnyPack
I hear you...
"A voiceover narration over the last scene explaining what we were looking at and what it all meant. Man, I forgot how powerful that scene was. Anyway, the whole point of the movie was to NOT explain what was going on so you would try to figure it out yourself because, in the end, that’s how exploration and discovery work."
bhalwalbhalwal
Afterwards
"I think this is just my opinion, but endings like Legally Blonde where they have freeze frames and then explain what happens to the characters in the future. I don't know why, but it just feels so tacky to me. With a tacky movie like Legally Blonde (which I love, there can be good tacky), I get it, but other movies that have a more serious demeanour, it feels disingenuous and incomplete."
carlpoppa96
legally blonde smile GIFGiphyThese are examples of some terrible movie endings from the kind people over at Reddit.
What are yours?
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