More often than not, when we indulge in a television show, we accept the fact that not everything we're watching is 100% realistic.
Even outside the world of science fiction and fantasy, we acknowledge that certain conflicts resolve a bit easier than they likely would in real life ("you had me at hello"? seriously?), or that modern medicine hasn't evolved quite that much (Meredith Grey drowning and coming back to life anyone?)
However, there are certain tropes and clichés which are becoming increasingly commonplace in film and television which result in viewers finding themselves truly unable to suspend their disbelief.
Sometimes not even coming until the film's climax, leading viewers to think "surely they're not going to go there?"
Only to find themselves infuriatingly disappointed that yes, they did.
"What single trope can cause you to fully lose interest in a movie/show?"
That is quite an unusual set of skills
"I can’t stand seeing specialists being cast as masters of multiple highly specialized skill sets or areas of study."
"I understand that it’s a popular action movie trope, but you also see this in the medical and academic fields."- BeatMeElmo
Income/Housing Disparity
"The main character bakes muffins part-time 3 days a week but lives in a 2500 sq ft loft penthouse in the chic part of town."- SeaTie
Henchmen Have Families Too...
"If I kill him I'm no better than him"
"Motherf*cker you just smoked 19 of his henchmen and put 5 more in a wheelchair for life, end his a**."
"And of course the bad guy gets let go, but decides at the last second to try to kill the good guy, justifying a bullet between the eyes, usually by either the good guy's sidek ick, or the bad guy's henchmen that he just got done betraying."- Pyrochazm
matt damon punch GIF by Jason BourneGiphyGet It Over With!!!
"The main character is about to get killed."
"The antagonist is sitting there pointing a gun at them about to shoot them, but they first have to give a 30-second speech."
"This gives the love interest/forgotten sidekick/child with developing fighting skills to come kill the enemy instead."
"Follow it up with a quote from them saying 'you think I’d miss this party?'."- Jimbo19091
Mortal Wound? No Problem!
"Being mildly impacted by lethal injuries."
"Likewise, when in subfreezing temperatures, not succumbing to hypothermia when soaking wet.'
"Not always enough to shut it off, but it always stands out and strains the illusion."- spill_oreilly
No Conflict? Let's Make Some...
"Smart people making dumb decisions for drama."
"I have stopped watching several shows because of this."- TheWalkingBlondeJoke
hey arnold nicksplat GIFGiphy"We Can't Do It Without Them!"
"The cop who is about to retire, the soldier with one last mission before they're out, and the person who was about to get married WHEN THEY GOT KILLED."- virgilreality
"The ex-cop/FBI agent that comes out of retirement because the entire government can't catch a criminal."- The_Spyre
Just Kiss Already!!!
"'Will they won't they'."
"I liked watching 'New Girl', but when they completely restarted the main characters' relationship I was like, 'Oh, so it's going to be like that'."
"Dear producers, please let your characters grow."- MrMToomey
"But she has glasses! And a ponytail..."
"The 'clumsy, nerdy, awkward girl' who are normally played by the hottest actresses out there..."- Icy_Note_8154
It Only Took Two And A Half Hours To Figure Out!!
'“Wait!'
"I can explain this very obvious and easy to explain scenario'.”
“'Nope'."
"You’re dead to me."
"Now stare speechless as I’m meander my way out of your life slowly'.”-Aerhart941
"Something that can be fixed right away with just a conversation."- Beginning-Match592
"If an entire conundrum can be solved by just someone waiting 1 minute for the other person to explain but chooses not to."
"Irritates me to no end and I'd much rather stop watching the movie."- charthrowawayliet
Tyler Perry Problem Solved GIF by NickelodeonGiphyBig Words Can't Get You Everything...
"When a character is repeatedly hyped as being insanely intelligent, but then they just have a decent vocabulary and aren't particularly insightful or clever."- Gloomy-Flamingo-1733
The best part of sitting back and watching a movie or a TV show is to surrender to a world completely different from our own.
And enjoying them in the comfort of our own homes gives us the freedom to scream at our TV sets when something happens to annoy us.
People Explain Which Phrases They Wish Everyone Would Stop Using
A lot of people like to talk.
Being outgoing or an extrovert is encouraged in popular culture as an ideal, so prattling on is seen as better than remaining silent.
But is it?
Especially when all that's said are the same tired clichés that stopped being clever a long time ago.
Redditor Medium-Grapefruit-86 asked:
"What’s a saying or phrase that people should stop using?"
Not an Excuse
"If someone is being a bully, and hurting people (mentally or physically), I hate hearing the phrase 'they are probably going through a lot'."
"That is almost definitely true, but that doesn’t make it OK to do."
‐ Jeffityfeffity
Just Unoriginal
"That's it. That's the tweet."
"LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK"
"I'll wait."
- TeaRexQueen
Echo Chamber
"'Why is no one talking about this?'
"Usually it's because OP has a very closed circle of followers/people they follow, people, in fact, are talking about 'this'."
- ReceptionExpensive
With 0 Self-awareness
"*post linking to a CNN or NYT article*"
"Top comment: 'Why isn't the media talking about this?'."
- Indercarnive
Rude
"Idk if this exactly counts, but I f*king hate that stupid tv/movie cliche where someone makes a genuine mistake tying to be helpful and they’re like 'I didn’t think that…' and the other person just cuts them off like 'That’s the problem, you didn’t think!'”
- KingOf_Anarchy
“OK—“
“NO, IT’S NOT OK!”
- BigbyWolf94
"Glad I'm not the only one. The amount of time I wasted trying to explain that 'okay' in that context is used for acknowledging what the person is saying. 🤦"
- craftjensin
Not That Deep
"Let that sink in'. Specifically as a mic drop in a poorly researched Facebook meme."
- RazrbackFawn
"People often leave their kitchen basin outside in winter... Let that sink in."
- Slanderous
Don't Get Paid Enough For This Joke
"'It must be free today' when something doesn't ring up. Even worse when something just takes an extra second to scan."
"Heard that so many times as a cashier."
- 0kokuryu0
Gotten Old
"I was today years old when…"
- niebla081
Trauma Isn't Great
"'What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger'."
"Bro when ? I’m just more traumatized."
- R_May0
Not Comforting
"When my dad died, a family friend said to 12-year-old me 'God needed him more'."
"I don't get how that's meant to be comforting."
- Complete_Entry
"People say all sorts of useless things when someone experiences loss."
"I had 'God needed more angels in heaven'—which I liked, because that made sense to me. At the time, I was 5 and understood that my mom would be a perfect angel."
"However, this same thing (my mom’s death that is) made my siblings instantly stop believing in God. As no God would do this—take away our mom."
"I’m sorry you had that negative experience—it’s so hard to know what to say or what we even want to hear."
- m37an13
"When our cat died, my mother span this yarn about how God happened to be passing by our house and saw a lovely cat that would look beautiful in his garden."
"Cue a lifelong perception of God as a jealous, opportunistic predator."
- joshii87
"God just decided to steal from us but it’s ok because hE LoVeS yOu."
- ccfenix
Words have impact, but sometimes its easiest to stick to the familiar.
But if you're just talking to have something to say, but not to say anything of value, silence works equally well if not better.
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Life doesn't come with a blueprint, instructions, nor a roadmap of what to expect in the days and years ahead. It does, however, contain all kinds of people who've lived life for longer than you.
Those people can be a HUGE help.
Older, wiser, and more experienced, some people have encountered--and overcome--struggles that you currently face or haven't even met yet.
The advice and guidance provided by those people, often in small, bite size pieces, can provide a very helpful array of guiding compasses to be used whenever the appropriate situation arises.
And just in case you're running low on wise people and advice in your life, a recent Reddit thread pulled together a laundry list of wise axioms.
sayantane asked, "What is the best piece of advice you've ever gotten?"
People Break Down The Best Loophole They've Ever Exploited
Many people chose to discuss the pragmatic pieces of advice they've heard over the years. These platitudes can all go quite far in ensuring real, concrete success.
Until It's Breezy
"Study to the point where the tests seem like they're insulting your intelligence. Best calc professor Ive had" -- Fruooop
"That's a really good way of putting it. I'll have to remember that."
"Something I've read in the past, that's sort of similar: 'Don't just study until you *can* get the questions *right*. Study until you *can't* get the questions *wrong*.' " -- skullturf
Stock Up First
"Pay your savings account FIRST."
"Don't wait until the day before you get paid to move the left overs into an account."
Business, Pleasure
"Never lend money you aren't prepared to lose." -- ProfessorFunky
"The saying I read quite a few years ago was 'don't lend money to friends or family unless you can afford to lose both' this has helped me in making mostly good decisions on who I ever lend money to." -- Curious-
Keep It Fresh
"If someone offers you a breath mint, take it." -- Aspy17
"That's a really good advice. I usually hand out chewing gums, when I myself take some, to feel generous. It's good nobody offered me one while not taking one themselves yet." -- Ziriath
Actions, not Words
"Anyone can replace you in the job you do. It's not your job to boast about how irreplaceable you are, but to prove to them that they don't WANT to replace you."
"There's a difference."
-- [deleted]
Opportunity Knocks
" 'When you're in a new area, never pass up an opportunity to pee.' -My Dad" -- DingleberryHandpump6
"I'm just realizing that on all of the road trips I've taken the last few years I can't remember the whole drive, but I can definitely remember the random areas in the woods I pulled over to pee lol." -- MrEngin33r
Other people shared the advice they've used to improve the social realm of their own life.
With friendships, romantic partnerships, and romantic relationships dominating so much of our lives, it's so important to feel sure you're handling all that as best as you can.
The Cardinal Directions
" 'When it's her moment stand behind her. When she's nervous stand beside her. When she's scared stand in front of her. The rest you'll figure out.' - My Grandmother on women" -- WholeMilkStandard
"I love your grandma!!" -- Neverthelilacqueen
Keep Rage At Bay
"From my friend's late father, a wise old man from Trinidad:"
"Any man can get your goat, if you let him know where your goat is tied."
Recognize and Accept
"Don't be mad when people act exactly like you expected them too." -- libertaine
"You can be disappointed without being surprised" -- RAGECOMIC_VICAR
"As I heard someone say regarding a certain 2016 presidential candidate his party nominated to his displeasure 'when someone tells you who they are you should believe them' " -- HitEmWithDatKTrain
Check Your Sources
"Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from" -- thehotdeskpodcast
"Well that rules out like 98% of the people I interact with." -- MrEngin33r
"Thank you. No need to give our power away." -- kittanjaan
People Are Not Psychics
" 'You have to ask for what you want from people, make your position clear.' "
"Don't just assume people know what your problem is, communication is key. It is great for relationships, work, friendships, school and even playing team sports or video games."
-- SuecidalBard
Other people discussed matters of the soul. These tidbits were all about how to handle being a human being with complex emotional states.
Let It Go
" 'You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. If words can control you, that means everyone can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.' "
"It's easier said than done, but it's 100% true."
Give More Love
"Don't be afraid to show gratitude. I don't know why, but for most of my life I was embarrassed to reach out and thank people for a variety of things."
"I'd say 'thanks' to stuff like everyone does. But feeling comfortable giving specific and thoughtful expressions of gratitude has been a journey well worth taking."
Comparative Suffering Doesn't Work
" 'It doesn't matter if someone has it worse than you, you're still having a hard time and that makes your problems valid and gives you the right for help.' " -- BenaBenaBadBad
"I remember one similar to this that was like 'just because someone else is in a full body cast, it doesn't mean that your broken arm doesn't hurt' " -- UnwaveringBear
Only So Much Control
"You can do everything right and still be wrong."
"Basically, for me that's a reminder to enjoy the moments in life and enjoy the journey. It means for me to try hard for what I want, but to not think that doing everything right means that I will get what I want."
This is by no means a full list of all the best advice out there. Every moment, people are learning from mistakes, powering through struggles, and bestowing the learned knowledge onto others in their lives.
Keep your ears open enough and you'll never stop learning from those people.
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Not a day goes by that we don't come across some recycled platitude, some well-worn pearl of wisdom, or an absurd saying that ceased to be helpful long ago.
But don't hold your breath on those cliche messages going away any time soon.
It seems that interacting humans, in a constant effort to connect and be seen, opt to say things they can be sure the other person has heard and understood already. The nod of the head, however automatic, only confirms the effort.
But relatable isn't always good.
In fact, according to a recent thread of Redditors, those cliches all amount to meaningless drivel.
CaptainGisseno asked, "Reddit, what is the most cliche message you're just sick of hearing?"
Many people pointed to the repeated phrases they hear as consumers navigating the landscape of travel, shopping, and customer service.
No doubt you've heard these before, and nearly screamed involuntarily when you did.
Could Have Fooled Me
"Your call is important to us." -- HMCetc
" 'Due to higher than normal call volumes...' "
"Been calling this number for almost ten years. At what point is a 60 minute wait just the normal, average call volume? Why lie to me?" -- killerqueen5
Well, Hopefully It's Up There
" 'Your safety is our top priority.' No it isn't. Profits and shareholders are." -- frostymargaritafan
"Translates directly to 'Liability is our top fear.' " -- Aboot_
"This vein, 'The safety of our employees is our number 1 concern.' No it isn't just stop trying to lie. Nobody who works here believes you."
"So save those few seconds, add them up, and use them on something useful. Like actually helping your employees." -- PingKiccolo
Bandwagon Activism
"Buzzwords such as 'diversity' and 'sustainability' in company mission statements. Like, if every company would actually enact their mission statements, we would be the greatest world." -- chrimimi
" 'Carbon neutral by 2025'- meaning 4 more years of fu**ing the planet before any action is taken, if it even will be taken."
"The worst is when companies continue to do the same shit and simply buy credits from Tesla or whatever and then proclaim to be green." -- Megalomouse
Others brought up the cliche messages that are infuriating for two key reasons: they don't actually make any logical sense, and they serve to make people feel guilty for no reason at all.
Can't Talk About Everything
" 'Why is no one talking about '____??' "
"Because we are all bombarded by incredible amounts of information on a daily basis and busy living our individual lives. Stop guilting people for not talking about something they had no idea about previously."
"Shouldn't"
" 'You are young, you shouldn't have any problems' " -- GayBrandFlakes
"As a hiker that goes out on long distances with older friends and people in my community, this is absolutely a huge pet peeve. It's like, sure Margaret, I may be 30 years younger than you, but 20miles in a day still gives me some soreness." -- underminer223
Thanks for the Reminder
" 'There are children starving in Africa' "
"Then why do I have to force myself to eat more than I can handle? Give the rest of the food to the starving kids then."
"If anything, mentioning starving kids when I can't eat something will make me eat less because of how guilty I feel for actually having food when they don't."
Good to Know, But Irrelevant
" 'Someone else always has it worse than you, be grateful' It still doesn't change my situation one bit." -- ChristianStonks999
"exactly that just makes me feel bad for whoever has it worse and makes me feel no better" -- AwesomeRailfanning
"My favorite response to this is to point out that it goes both ways - if you're saying that can't be sad because someone has it worse then me, then i guess I can't be happy because someone has it better then me." -- BrackishBloop
And finally, there were those essential, supposed tidbits of wisdom that one is supposed to keep in mind as they navigate life.
Unfortunately, those quotes only sound nice. They're usually very off-base.
Nope
"'You're perfect the way you are' "
"No, you're not. This thinking completely removes any personal accountability and improvement, and allows hubris and zealotry to fester."
But It Would Be Nice
"Follow your dreams"
"*Side effects may include being a broke chump, not being able to provide for those who depend on you, and in severe cases a lifetime of regret when you realize your dreams aren't as neat as they seemed. Best results were seen in patients who were financially successful before following their dreams. Tell your doctor about real-life sh!t you need to take care of before following your dreams."
Sorta, But Not Really
"'Time heals all wounds.'
"No, it doesn't. Time alone may help heal many wounds, but it doesn't necessarily close them. Especially in the realm of mental health, many issues require additional help, therapy and sometimes medication. Simply trying to wait out a problem sometimes just makes the problem larger."
So next time you come across some age-old adage or piece of advice and it makes you want to scream, rest assured you're not the only out here seeing how useless it is.
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Every new Hollywood movie seems to hinge an all-important balance: be novel and innovative, but not so experimental that people could ever feel alienated or too shocked.
After all, those movies are playing to old people, little kids, and the parents in between, all at the same time.
But some of those tropes that appear in every single movie--because they're reliable for filmmakers and comfortable for audiences--can begin to stick out once we've seen them enough.
A few Redditors gathered to share the movie tropes that annoy them most of all.
RB_Liz asked, "What movie tropes need to die in a horrendous explosion?"
Fantasy Films
"High school in movies is one big trope. I swear to god no one in the film industry has ever been to high school." -- Bloodragedragon
"They went to high-school so long ago they remember it through either rose or black-tinted glasses. It's either a nightmare of cliques and systematic bullying, or an idealised youth cult." -- LalaMcTease
"Yeah, I dont recall seeing so many 30 year olds in my senior year class." -- BaconReceptacle
This Needs Love
"Forced romance."
"Not every movie needs to have a romantic subplot. Few things can absolutely ruin an otherwise great movie like having one tacked on that clearly serves no purpose to the story."
-- lewton_bus
Plenty to Choose From
"Women going to bed/getting up with a full face of makeup, ridiculous banquet-like meals that people don't eat, obviously empty coffee cups, shi**y exposition where people talk like no one ever would in daily conversation ("Hi sis!")." -- ididitforcheese
"Empty coffee cups have been this minor annoyance of mine that has built over the years. Whenever anyone holds a drink in film these days, my eyes glue to how they hold the stupid thing." -- RB_Liz
When a Text Message Could've Ended the Film Right There
"Very basic miscommunication or misunderstandings being the basis of major plot points. It's just lazy, unrealistic writing that completely ruins immersion for me." -- VVillyD
"Yea, especially when someone tries to explain and the answer is 'I don't have time for this.' And the hole stupid plot would not exist if they had listened. I get so irritated by this, it's just not healthy." -- FlippyFlippenstein
We Love Us Some Speeches
"'Before you die Hero, let me tell you about my ingenious plan'..."
"villain starts monologing, Hero finds an opportunity to escape." -- icemage27
"Or the villain has an obvious chance to kill the main character, but just laughs and walks away." -- Mondayslasagna
"I feel like this one is more often parodied than presented straight at this point." -- Mddcat04
In What World
"The 'poor character' who lives in a normally expensive a** apartment." -- SomeRightsReserved
"Hollywood poor is renting in general not owning a 5 bed 4 bath" -- Arkneryyn
"And is covered in really well done tattoos."
"Quality tattoos cost a lot. Getting them discounted from bubba down the street is an option but they are not going to be high quality, more like weird smudges." -- Stayinschool-tty
How Convenient
"Gets in random car, keys are above the sun visor." -- kukukele
"Or gets in random car, hotwires it in 3 seconds." -- Mondayslasagna
"Gets in very old car in post Apocalypse that clearly hasn't been used for years. The battery works fine and it actually revs up." -- Tactical_Operations
"Dude worse than all of these: Gets in random car, NOBODY EVER HAS TO ADJUST THE SEAT. I don't think ever." -- OlympusMonsPubis
An Unbelievable Level of Skill
"Instant and silent death by a knife thrown from 30ft away." -- oblongunreal
"The amount of force required to stick a blade 5 inches into a carcass would surprise a lot of people. Then to do it with pin point accuracy from long distance?"
"All those assassins could have been the best major league baseball pitchers ever!" -- DerangeR14
Setting Feminism Back One Movie at a Time
"I hate the lifetime movie tropes, she's a strong independent woman who don't need no man....... and the next hour and a half is about how getting a man solves all her problems." -- demonardvark
"Introduce strong female character, who is intelligent, independent minded and very competent. She meets male lead."
"By end of movie: woman is entirely unable to do simple tasks without assistance from male lead, is dumb as a brick with no independent personality." -- BobbyP27
Single File, Gents
"When the main character is surrounded, but manages to fight off the bad guys because they attack him 1 at a time rather than all at once." -- Wheatleytron
"Well, it's polite to wait your turn. You don't want to crowd the guy." -- SadButterscotch2
"Every time this happens, I watch the goons in the background that aren't fighting the hero, just because they move in such ridiculous ways to give the illusion of extra action to the scene."
"They look like every guy at a club who tries to dance and has zero idea how to do so." -- PianoManGidley
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