The Most Horrifying Possibilities To Consider About The Existence Of Aliens
Is there life beyond planet earth?
In all likelihood, yes, somewhere in some distant galaxy.
This of course leads many to assume the worst, that our future will be something out of Independence Day.
Unlikely as we all likely hope that scenario is, it's hard not to wonder if it may happen in the distant future.
Or, scarier still, aliens have made life on planet earth, and we've been living among them this whole time without even realizing it.
The possibilities are truly endless.
"What are some horrifying things to consider when thinking about aliens?"
We'll Be Their Pets...
"Aliens could do to us what we did to wolves, selectively breeding a once noble species in grotesque ways, transforming us into the equivalent of bulldogs, poodles, dacshunds, etc."- flipester
No Matter How, It'll End Badly...
There is absolutely nothing on planet Earth that the aliens can't find in more abundance elsewhere."
"Precious metals, gasses for fuel, assuming they don't have zero point energy or some sh*t that lets them get power from vacuum, and even water are all available in space and you can get this resources with zero resistance."
"So I don't think they would come here for any resources, unless they want our biosphere."
"Which, for all we know, could be abundant in the galaxy."
"If aliens do show up one day but turn out to be hostile, there is absolutely nothing we can do to stop them."
"If they have been coming here, if you believe in that sort of thing, they have been doing so for a VERY long time."
"They know everything about us, including our weaknesses and how to exploit them."
"Meanwhile, they are a species capable of FTL travel."
"Wiping us out would be as simple for them as flipping on a light switch."
"No jet-to-ship dog fights, no magical weak point to hit, no third-act secret weapon to save us."
"Just one press of that button and everything turns white--and then black."
'So if they do come to Earth, they would need a damn good reason to."
"If our luck is truly awful and they actually want something from us, we'd better pray that it's something that we don't have to fight over because we wouldn't stand a chance."- Armascribe
Commuting Area 51 GIF by Joseph HarmonGiphyNothing To worry About... I Hope...
"It’s possible that they are fat single-cell organisms just loafing around."- Literally_The_Best
It Might Not Be As Bad As We Think... It Will Probably Be Much MUCH Worse...
"For all we know, aliens might not be the 'little green men' that fly around in flying saucers and destroy us with laser beams."
"They could be an interstellar pathogen that shows up one day and silently and effortlessly kills us all without warning."
"Our immune systems would have no idea what hit them."- CaptainWisconsin
Emotional Disconnect
"Our human concepts of morality and empathy are heavily influenced by our mammalian biology."
"Imagine that aliens land, and instead of having nice little family units their species lays clutches of thousands of eggs at a time."
"They don't form strong bonds."
"Life is essentially expendable for them."
"They see us weeping over a dead child and they have literally no frame of reference for understanding why this would be upsetting."
"I'm not saying all aliens will be like this; but some definitely could be."- ToBePacific
alien GIFGiphyDon't Knock It Till You've Tried It?
"What if there really is valuable information to be gained from butt probes?"- HarlanCedeno·
Best To Have An Open Mind...
"The assumption that they come in groups in some flying saucer."
"For all we know they might just 'appear' in hordes of thousands of not millions all across the planet."
"Also, we like to think that aliens will share the same way of thinking as humans, i.e. reasoning, emotions, etc."
"But the only reason we think that is because that's the only thing we are familiar with."
"Aliens might have completely different emotions or thought processes than us but we won't know because we never encountered them before."
"It's like the 4th dimension."
"At this point it's pretty well established what it is but most of us, if not all, have no clue how to visualize or properly explain it."- JingleberryJohnson
Didn't Occur To You Either, Did It?
"Extremely unlikely, I know, but if aliens ever come to Earth it likely means they are a space-faring and interstellar capable species with tech at least centuries, if not millennia, ahead of ours."
"In other words: if aliens are even remotely capable of traveling to our planet, we're pretty much outgunned hilariously."- WhereIsOldZealand
The Journey Wouldn't Be Worth It...
"The speed of light is 186,000 miles per second."
"I think that any aliens that are capable of traveling light years to reach us have no interest in our resources."- avatarlevel
They Could Be Trying To Help US?
"The scariest thing to me is thinking that aliens want nothing to do with us."
"I don't get why everyone thinks that aliens would attack us immediately."
"It's one thing if we come into their territory, but if they stumble upon us we're most likely safe."
"Them finding us would mean they are incredibly advanced."
Angry Alien Face GIF by wenjrGiphy"Anything they could get by attacking earth they could get far easier by harvesting it from a different planet in our solar system."
"Unless they feed specifically on brainwaves, it isn't worth the hassle to attack a planet teeming with life they may have some weapons, however primitive, that might be used against you."
"It's far more frightening to believe that aliens have/will one day discover us and won't be interested, They won't want us on their intergalactic counsels, they won't want to give us medicine, they won't want to form any bond."
"If they decide to just leave humanity alone, that means either they have decided we are not worth saving, or that we are too close to destruction to be worth the resources."- BombsNBeer
I'll Believe It When I See It...
"My main thing is that they'll bring a virus or something that'll just wipe us out coz we've never seen anything like it."
"Or we'll be immune coz it's too alien, who knows."
"But until there is actual proof that there are advanced aliens out there, I'll stick to the idea that they are bacterial cells on titan or something."- Libbymiss
We won't even know they came...
"That one day they will just wipe out our planet without us ever knowing why and that it will be so fast we don’t even realize it."
Marine Life Goodbye GIF by pikaoleGiphyThanks to the likes of H.G. Wells, Ridley Scott and others, it's easy to assume the worst about the possible existence of aliens.
Something to consider, which might help us sleep a bit easier at night, is that on some far-off galaxy, there is an extraterrestrial species, just as terrified of us, as we are of them.
Humanity is coming to a close.
Okay, that is a tad dramatic.
But we are in peril. We're fighting and engaging in violence.
But we can change course. We just have to acknowledge the threats.
RedditorinvertedparadXwanted to warn people about all the things toxic to the human existence.
They asked:
"What do you believe is the greatest threat to humanity?"
I just have little faith in any of us.
So I can't help in the saving.
So help me understand...
So Dumb
"Lack of critical thinking. The rise of social media and political theatre is making society dumber and dumber." ~ bchamper
Giphyresistance...
"Bacterial resistance to antibiotics." ~ zygomelonm
"There are a couple of very important things the public can do. Take your entire course of antibiotics and don't quit when you feel better. Don't take a couple of random old antibiotics you have around the house when you get sick."
"Don't drag your kid to the doctor and insist they are given unneeded antibiotics. Doctors: don't overprescribe them." ~ StrLord_Who
Ad Abuse
"Greed/selfishness. It seems to motivate 99% of the problems we see in society." ~ Background-Company30
"Yeah and ads in general on YouTube. Google put ads in damn near every corner of YouTube; in videos, banner ads (both large ones on the website and in videos) videos that are ads themselves etc. They are abusing ads at this point." ~ Sea_Perspective6891
"I got 4, FOUR ads in a row yesterday. I couldn't skip the first two and was too busy to check if the other 2 could he skipped but it's just excessive. I spent more time on the ads than I did on the video itself." ~ CT-96
Hand to Mouth
"Pringles. One pop and you can not stop." ~ IT_Account
"ManagerI can't fit my hand inside a Pringle can. I have a huge amount of trouble fitting my hand inside of a Pringle can."
"I can get my hand like four inches into the can but then I have to tilt the can into my mouth but by that point a bunch of crumbs have accumulated at the bottom of the can so they all go spilling on my face." ~ Dodecahedonism_
Sounds about right so far.
Why are we so dumb?
Future of the Damned
"Ignorance, and more recently, the enshrining of ignorance as a valid and even popular state of being. We are damning our futures by allowing the lowest intellects and least self-aware to dictate what books are too crass, or what subjects too taboo." ~ ItsTtreasonThen
GiphyStupid...
"Our own stupidity and arrogance." ~ fotofiend
"Beat me to it! These were also BOTH my first thoughts! I believe, when these two are combined, this is known as Cognitive Dissonance?"
"Is that correct? When people are too prideful and arrogant to recognize/accept how ignorant they actually are." ~ Lutefiskaficionado
"You might be thinking of the Dunning Kruger effect. It has more to do with being too dumb to realize how ignorant you are, but there's usually at least a dash of arrogance in the mix as well." ~ CashOrReddit
"The Corporation"
"Greed/selfishness. It seems to motivate 99% of the problems we see in society." ~ jdoe10202021
"Actually, greed is mandatory and legally enforced, a CEO can get fired, and sued, for making any decision clearly counter to maximizing profit for company shareholders."
"There is a great documentary called 'The Corporation' that has some incredibly eye opening stories about this." ~ RookXPY
Drink Up
"Drinkable water shortage." ~ JollySpaceCowboy
"We are literally letting fresh water melt into the Ocean. If Money wasn't a problem we would be harvesting the melting ice caps already since it's all just fresh water." ~ Upper_Decision_5959
"Simply not true, we will never run out of drinkable water." ~ thrwhwhwh
Needs and Wants
"Consumer culture. Needless consumption destroys the environment. Collectively we need to take a more measured approach to this based on needs, not wants." ~ Scallywagstv2
GiphyWe can do better.
We have to.
But do we want to?
We'll find out.
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Democracy shouldn't be something that's so easily squashed.
Yet here we are, the year 2021, where the election of 2020 is still being hotly contested. And while most reasonably-minded folks would accept the results and move on with their lives, the fact that it can even be contested at all is a stark reminder of the fragility of our system.
Reddit user, StevieD323, wanted to know what would bring it all crashing down when they asked:
What is the biggest threat to democracy?
It could be something simple, something we're already allowing to happen every day without any kind of preventable methods to stop it.
Watching Fox News Is Like Reading Those Grocery Store Tabloids
"(The lack of) media literacy, critical thinking skills, and the ability to detect fake news."
"It's like a huge chunk of the population started reading and believing the tabloids sold in grocery stores by the register. The digital environment has given new life to these old businesses."
"Yeah, a lot of people are incorrectly identifying "social media" as the problem - but that's just the delivery mechanism. The problem is believe have no critical thinking skills."
There Can't Be Two Truths
"Fake news and gullible readers"
"It's not even "gullible." It's more like "biased."
"Now there's two realities, two truths, and everybody is supposedly completely justified in subscribing to whatever reality they want to."
"They don't fall for it because they're easily swindled, they fall for it because they want it to be true."
"And their resentment for the other side confirms every bias they have."
Hate To Be The One To Tell You This...
"The death of independent and well funded journalism. A misinformed and indoctrinated populace is going to make misinformed and indoctrinated choices at the polling booth."
Leadership is at the forefront of what makes democracy unique. We're supposed to choose the people we believe would best serve their voter base, but sometimes that notion becomes skewed, creating less than ideal candidates.
"But My Candidate Is A Macho Sounding Jerk. That Must Equate."
"The idea of what a strong leader is"
"The general voter has absolutely no idea how a country works so even the best informed voter has a skewed perspective."
"I've always stated there should be a test that demonstrates you have a basic understanding of potential candidates before being allowed to vote. It's absurd to think that a person who recieves their info from twitter has an equal vote of power compared to a citizen who did the proper research on which candidate best represents them."
Lies, All Day, 'Er Day
"Lack of consequences for those who openly tell lies to the public."
"This one feels both accurate, and closely linked to the death of shame / post truth society. Once upon a time a politician (of any allegiance) caught in a provable lie would be "shamed" (often accompanied by resignation, or at least an apology). Now that whole moral structure is gone. Never apologise. There are no lies, because there is no truth. Deny, deflect, never back down. No proof is proof enough, no source reliable enough."
To Heal, You Understand
"A complete unwillingness to try to understand someone else's point of view. Regardless of what it is, or what side of the fence you sit on….. understanding why someone feels the they do is in my opinion the first step in trying to heal the worlds problems. Who shouts the loudest with the "I'm right and you're wrong" mentality isn't helping anyone."
Perhaps it has already happened, which is a scary thought to consider. However, when you look around at the current political landscape and see the shady things happening, it's not hard to feel like the battle might already be lost.
Changing Things With A Dollar
"The influence of monied interests. All it takes is a few hundred thousand in campaign contributions to a single senator to stonewall a prescription drug price reform bill."
"It's a huge problem. People with money have incredible power over anyone else. Look at climate change, a topic which everyone should be concerned about and we should all be working together to solve."
"But people from the oil industry and others have been able to buy politicians, flood the media with fake counter-science, and suppress voting enough that preserving the environment is a controversial topic nowadays."
Being Unable To Think For Yourself
"Lobbying and lack of education. Always has been"
"Yeah this is basically the answer. Legalized bribery makes voting irrelevant."
"So true. People are so uninformed that they will literally fight you when you tell them that lobbying is not compatible with democracy."
You Could Probably Just Say Ted Cruz
"Bribery, sorry lobbying. Complete bullsh-t"
"Reminds me of that episode of Rome where Herod "gifts" Antony money after he says Romans don't take bribes but gifts instead. Times haven't changed."
"Reminds me of the tweet Ted Cruz posted about "snowflakes" upset ahout net neutrality. Then AOC letting him know snowflakes isn't a thing an elected official should say and that he was just paid thousands from Comcast (or one of those) right before the tweet and that it's all public record."
The Winner
"People who think that if they lose it's not democracy."
"Absolutely this. If you only believe in democracy when you win, you don't believe in democracy."
"No one is really saying it, but if we keep allowing all the BS conspiracy stuff to drown out the truth then we are done for. And it's happening right now. Tucker and all the other BS artists if you're listening , you are literally destroying America."
Be ever vigilant, analyze information with a critical mind, and vote when possible. Keeping democracy alive requires action on all fronts.
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They say imitation is the best form of flattery.
Actor and comedian Kenan Thompson is best known for his tenure at Saturday Night Live.
He has a number of solid characters and impressions under his belt, from Charles Barkley to David Ortiz.
One of his most popular, and perhaps most dead-on in his portrayal, is Steve Harvey.
Family Feud: Extended Family - SNLwww.youtube.com
The SNL cast member was recently approached by Harvey himself, on the set of Thompson's new reality competition show Bring the Funny. Turns out, Harvey is very familiar with Thompson's impression of him, and issued him a joking threat.
Thompson spoke of this encounter to Fox News.
"I just saw [Steve Harvey] when we were shooting 'Bring The Funny' and he was on the next stage doing 'Family Feud,' so I sat down with him and he was like, 'You better watch yourself'. I love Steve. I've known him for a super long time."
Despite Fox, it was a pretty funny encounter.
Many SNL fans thought so too.
Steve Harvey telling Kenan Thompson to watch himself over his SNL impression is by far the funniest thing he has ever done— Dazzling, Deft & Devoid of Feeling (@Dazzling, Deft & Devoid of Feeling) 1558026290.0
#SteveHarvey #kenanthompson Celebrity boxing match is needed to settle this!! https://t.co/GDVbikjtgq— christian (@christian) 1558023586.0
While initially some fans took the threat a little seriously, it was obvious to Thompson that the comment was in jest.
After all, he is a comedian.
"Comedy is a craft. It's something that you sharpen over time so the more you educate yourself about topics and references the better [your comedy] will be and the more appealing it'll be to a wider audience. Your comedy skills get better over time but you have to work at it."
Thompson has gained a large following over the years, beginning with his involvement with Nickelodeon in the 90's. After starring in shows such as Kenan and Kel and All That!, he wound up scoring a spot on the biggest sketch comedy show of all time.
In fact, Thompson broke the record for the longest running SNL cast member.
He is now has sixteen seasons under his belt, and he won't be stopping anytime soon.
The year 2093. Earth is a barren hellscape. Humanity has been extinguished. Kenan Thompson celebrates his 100th sea… https://t.co/cFkI4g8e7D— JC (@JC) 1557536065.0
Thompson is now getting his own sitcom on NBC, titled The Kenan Show, along with a new unscripted reality game show called Bring the Funny.
He has no plans to leave SNL.
What a legend.
Story Time!
So, on my first day of college orientation, we met in the common square area to begin the tour. Out of 50 of us, no one had brought a parent along.
Shortly through the tour, one of the other students audibly sighed and grumbled "seriously?" We all kind of turned to look at him, but he continued along as if he were fine.
At our next stop, I noticed him glaring at an older man. As we walked across the campus I noticed the man was following us.
You guys... it was comically bad.
I need you to picture this. We're walking through a crowd full of teenagers, they were buzzing with activity.
A group was literally playing volleyball while some others sunbathed, making the whole thing into a terrible cliche. Like, the volleyball scene from the montage in the movie Top Gun kind of bad.
There, in the middle of the youthful hustle and bustle, was one middle-aged man wearing beige cargo shorts and a button-down shirt. His sunglasses covered an enormous percent of his face and he literally looked away and whistled as we passed.
This kid's dad had totally followed him to orientation, then snuck around behind the tour looking like the incognito mode icon!
The poor kid never said anything, or broke with the group but we didn't get too much further before everyone was staring and snickering. All credit to him, he didn't even flinch, so neither did our tour guide.
There were some looks exhanged, but nothing was said. We all just finished the tour simmering in the awkward.
So when one Reddit user asked:
"College admissions employees of Reddit, what is your most ridiculous story of parents getting involved in their child's application?"
I was so in it to win it. Now that I'm done laughing and reliving this one teenagers cringe-worthy college intro, I'm going to share some more beautiful moments of awful.
Have fun!
"Suck My Fat Degree"
From the other end, my mother tried to call the university I was accepted to to slander me with false tales of drug charges ect to get my offer rescinded. She was pissed because I "didn't ask her permission to go" - despite the fact she'd thrown me out of the house 5 years prior and we hadn't spoken since. The best bit? She called the wrong university.
Student Doesn't Care
Just completing everything for them, the student doesn't care one lick about going to school, but the parents can't wait to get rid of them - which is the opposite of what college is all about. Those parents get one or two semesters of freedom, before the student flunks out and is back with them most likely forever.
Not Talking To You Mom
I've had parents call to ask why their child didn't get accepted into our graduate program. Thankfully in the US there are privacy laws (FERPA) that we can cite to explain why we can't discuss it with parents.
Beurocracy
I'm in the registrar's office. The student does all business and enrollment through a portal. Some parents demand the password, get it, and do all the work: pick classes and enroll the student, make advisor appointments, all that.
Among other things, uni teaches you how to handle yourself in a bureaucracy. These students don't even learn that. They're still their parents' child.
Tuition
I've worked for a major public University for the past 11 years. The range of things you get from parents trying to order transcripts for their students, to parents calling to ask about their (grown adult) grad student child.
The worst is when a parent calls asking about tuition, and the kid isn't actually enrolled. They've just been cashing mom/dad's check.
Sorority Life
Used to be part of admissions. Once had a parent call to complain that his daughter was accepted. He was distraught and said he didn't want her there. As the conversation went on, it turned out he DID want her there, but was upset that she was touring campus (that day) with his wife, and they were looking at sororities.
Just A Tech Guy
Had a parent literally work their way down the phonebook trying to get what she wanted. She eventually got to me, the system admin for the admissions system at the time. I just deflected the barrage of insanity with, "I don't have the ability to make any admission decisions, I am just the tech guy." To which she asked if I could just change a thing or two to let her son in. That was pretty bad.
The Professor's Mom
Not admissions, but my husband works for a college. A PROFESSOR's mom called and complained about her little baby not getting tenure.
He wasn't doing his job, was stealing money from the school, and was boinking an undergrad.
LGBT Students
Not employee but I can go for my mom!
I applied binding early decision to the best graduate program in the state, an hour from home. Was 22, some classmates much older. Got in on my own with my own materials and etc.
But, when time for the campus tour came, I was between college and grad school, living at home. Working but couldn't afford to live by myself and my parents were actually mostly okay to me. Even lent me one of their cars to drive to work and the gym.
But, apparently I was not to be trusted driving for an hour alone, and my mom was very nosy about my school prospects. So, she just told me she was coming. Huge argument, I said it wouldn't look mature of me. Then she finally said, either I go as well or you don't get to go!
So it was the admissions counselor, five students, and my mom and I. I tried to ask about offerings for LGBT students and she stood on my foot to stop me! She's always told me she's scared for me and wants me to hide my orientation. Thank God she only stuck with me for the physical tour, and I apologized to the guy later about her.
Staying In The Men's Dorm
We have a summer program for incoming freshmen where they can stay the weekend in the dorms and do activities on campus and whatnot to get to know the school before they come up for the fall. One time a mom just assumed she would be staying with her student. In the dorms. In the male dorm. The kicker was they had driven something like 10 hours to get to campus, and she refused to not stay with her son in the dorm despite him already having a roommate assigned and everything. She screamed and cried, even denied us when we said we would help her get a hotel. Eventually she swore at one of the school's VPs and left with her son. I felt awful for the kid. He seemed pretty normal, and I don't think he ended up coming in the fall.
There's always a ton of crazy parents but that one stood out. We had a casual hand signal for crazy helicopter parents when we were talking with coworkers and other staff.
A Comb
As a writer of magazine articles, I got an assignment to write about "helicopter parents" just as the term was becoming mainstream. I interviewed college admissions people to ask their views and their stories.
My favorite was an admission director who said that while freshmen photos were being taken for incoming students' IDs, one mother pushed others aside to run a comb through her son's hair as he posed for the photo.
Living Their Dream
I had a friend whose parents pulled her out of her dream school so she could live THEIR dream about going to school abroad.
She had a full ride scholarship to a great university where she was swimming competitively. She comes home after her Freshman year only to discover her parents have pulled her out of school and enrolled her in a French university. Just like that.
She was doing Bio, intending on becoming a doctor and later getting into med school. I met her in my physics class.
Her parents had signed her up for the wrong degree. And she wasn't fluent in French, either. And to make matters worse? After a few months there, her parents started complaining about the uni, asking why she wasn't going to a better one!
Her parents so desperately wanted her to have the dream European university experience that they didn't listen to her at all.
She lost her competitive edge for swimming. Her grades dropped because she couldn't understand the assignments. And when she finally returned to the US a year later, she had lost her scholarship (that's what happens when you drop out of a university, mom and dad!) and was forced to pay to go to a completely different university ... starting over as a freshman.
My heart broke for her.
Some Stories
Worked in admissions for a Russell Group university in the UK. Some Stories:
- a mother threatens to find where I live and cut off my legs because I wouldn’t offer her son a place on our medicine course (medicine applications in the UK have a very strict procedure and no you can’t just call in). I nearly cried with how vile she was to me. Anyway, I found their address and sent them an envelope that Just said ‘f*ck you’ on the back. Morally dubious, I know
- after stating I couldn’t offer a guy a place on Economics because we needed AAA and he had BBC, he passed he phone to his mother who said ‘but he was part of the hockey team, and I think you clearly need the applicants so you would be at a loss if you didn’t have him’. No love, we don’t need your kid all that bad
- I tried to delicately explain to a dad that the BTEC qualification (an equivalent to the A-level that isn’t typically accepted for more competitive courses like medicine, law and veterinary) wasn’t accepted for veterinary. The issue is, it’s a more practical, vocational qualification and not very academic so it doesn’t really suit for these courses. I essentially had to say his son wasn’t clever enough (or hadn’t picked the right qualification to do to prove that). He then said I was a stupid woman and put the phone down on me.
- a guy rang me from Ghana and I rejected him for Law. He then said I was cursed for eternity and hoped I would die in childbirth.
- a woman was rejected from a masters course and wanted to know why - because she had applied to so MSc Chemistry and her bachelors was in history and she hadn’t even attached a personal statement. She then said ‘I bet you don’t even understand what it’s like to be at university, working in the sh*tty admin job you do’, to which I explained I had a bachelors from a Russell group myself, and was due to start my masters in September. Go choke to death on a d*ck. ma'am.
I could go on forever. I hated that job.
But Your Child Is The Student?
In the two years I’ve been in contact with a family about their student’s interest/application I have never once spoken to or received an email from their child.
When I said I would love to hear from the student directly, The parent said something along the lines of: “I’m surprised you would want to contact my child because they’re a minor.”
How Admission Works
One year, I spent a summer working in the admissions office of a very selective university in New England. During the middle of the summer, I want to say it was in July, I answered a seemingly normal call from a mother who wanted to know what she needed to do to get her son in to the incoming freshmen class.
Me: "Thank you for calling Selective School Admissions Office, this is Wolfgang, how may I help you?"
Her: (pleasantly enough) "Hi, I'm calling to find out what my son needs to do to be part of this freshmen class"
Me: "I'm sorry ma'am, let me make sure I understand. Your son was admitted, and you want to know what he needs to do next to accept his offer? That deadline was in May."
Her: "No, no, no, he hasn't applied yet, but I want him to go here this fall"
Me: "Well, applications were due January 1, and admissions decisions were sent out in the spring. He can apply this fall to be a part of next year's incoming class"
Her: (furious) "WHAT DO YOU MEAN NEXT YEAR? HE JUST GRADUATED AND HE NEEDS TO GO TO YOUR SCHOOL NEXT YEAR. WHAT IS HE GOING TO DO NEXT YEAR IF HE DOESN'T GO TO YOUR SCHOOL?"
Me: "Perhaps he can consider taking a gap year or taking classes at his local college. That may strengthen his application for when he eventually does apply."
Her: "This is ridiculous, I cant believe this. How much is this going to cost me? Are there extra fees I can pay for a late application? Who do I need to speak to?"
Me: "I'm sorry ma'am, but that is how the admissions process works. It takes time to read through all of the applications we receive, so we have deadlines to make the admissions process fair for everyone. Our incoming class has already been finalized, and any spots that do open will be going to students on our waitlist. As of now, we do not anticipate any spots opening up as we are slightly over enrolled."
She hung up after that. Needless to say that kid didn't get in...at least not from that phone call.
It may be possible to bribe your way in to a good school, but there's a proper way to do it, and that isn't by asking a college student to let your kid in over the phone.
Tired
One year I was working the orientation speech from the president of the university to the parents of incoming freshmen and he told this story.
He mentioned that one time, a mother of a kid called him, the president of the university to complain that her son's classes were too hard and he needed more sleep.
So he asked the mom "so, what do you want your son to do some day?"
And she answered "finance and business" (not surprising, the school I attended had a well known business school).
The president then said "Ma'am, imagine one day your son works for [big famous investment firm] and he's tired and working very hard at his job. If you called the president of [big firm] and told them your son was working too hard and needed more sleep, do you know what would happen? Your son would likely be fired the next day"
This was clearly his message to parents of "Jesus Christ, do NOT call the president of the university to complain about your kid's classes".
Thanks, But No Thanks, Dad
When I got accepted to a university out of the city and got denied to the one in city my dad tried to call the university in city and sue them unless they gave me an admission offer.
Helping your kids is a natural reaction for parents and fully expected.
But knowing how far is too far is important.
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