It's never attractive to gloat.
Nor does superiority ever come off as a particularly attractive attribute.
But, consciously or not, some people speak or behave in a way that immediately suggests that they think they deserve to be treated differently, i.e better than others.
Or that they believe they simply are better than other people.
A recent Redditor was curious what sort of behavior struck other people as elitist or arrogant behavior by asking:
"What screams "I am entitled"?"
Where's the fire?
"Impatience in situations where it should be just universally understood that you need patience".- c7hu1hu.
Positions of power.
"I will have you fired!"- Vergo27.
"Generally just leaving something for someone else to deal with."- Splatty_boi_420.
Season 3 Reaction GIF by The SimpsonsGiphySorry, but I was here first.
"People who cut in line."- Chad_Farthousse.
"People who ignore lines and cut in the front, like their time is more important than every other person patiently queueing."- ofsquire.
No one loves a tattletale.
“I’ll call my dad and tell him what you did!”- ROAM300.
Ever heard of quid pro quo?
"When they do something to you and think it’s fine but when you do it in return and they freak out."- Silvero129.
Name your price.
"I work as a ticket seller for a ski resort."
"My favorite entitled person is the guy who, upon finding out that the kid's ski lesson was sold out, offered to pay extra if I would kick someone else's kid out so his kid could have a spot."- Floranagirl.
"People who brag about their parents’ money."- SpecialExamination41.
Hustling Music Video GIFGiphyCan't you see how sad I am?!?!
"People who think their personal feelings should be other people's top priority."- walebrush
I can do whatever I want, because of my car
"For me its people who have 'Rich' or 'Fast cars' and when there is traffic and they feel like they can go into turn lanes but go straight in front of everyone, or drive on the shoulder as THEY have to get where they are going and THEY are important, at that time."
"I feel like we should be able to record it to show they are doing things illegal and then we should be allowed to shoot their car with paintball guns."
"This way if you see a car shot up with paintballs you can go, okay there is a asshole so we need to watch out for him."- VivaLasVegasGuy
Rulebook slow down.
"Driving too close behind me and beeping when I’m going the limit."- MountainsRoar
lowrider lowridermeatup GIF by Off The JacksGiphyMaking life a competition
“Do you know who you’re talking to?”
“My ____ is sm better than yours”- Green-Train6846
Pushy parents
"My baby Deserves it."- Warsquid08
Flaunting wealth
"Saw a couple on TikTok honeymooning to all these different countries on a train."
"Bragging about how long their trip was and the cost."
"Wearing designer outfits to dinner and they weren’t wearing a mask."
"Got a bougie breakfast delivered to their cabin."
"Idk, just looked so obnoxious and privileged."- auntfloss
Money Raining GIF by G2 EsportsGiphyEveryone deserves to be treated with respect
"Treating retail or fast food employees like sh*t and sh*tting on them for working in such a place."- PapaTwoToes
"Customer enters store 'ding'."
"Retail worker 'Hi, how are you today?'"
"Customer 'Um. Do I know you?'"
"Retail worker 'No, My name is Blah are you looking for something specific?'"
"Customer 'No' walks away."- AcanthaceaeVirtual
The hosts are there for a reason.
"People who seat themselves at restaurants."- peachmonroe
Suspicious Ferris Buellers Day Off GIF by MOODMANGiphyThere had to be a better way of handling it
"I am first one in the movie theater."
"Turns out to be a sell out and the last seat open is next to me."
"A married couple come in and they want my seat."
"I say no."
"I got there first to have that choice."
"Usher leaves and comes back with police."
"I never went back to that movie theater."
"Location, Union Station D.C."- Environmental_Pin95
Perhaps one of the most obvious ways to unwittingly show off your entitlement?
By being oblivious to how entitled you are.
Being high and mighty is not a particularly attractive quality on anyone.
But every now and then, it's hard not to find ourselves looking down, or raising our eyebrows at something, or even someone.
Be it the way your food is prepared, or having to stay in a hotel which is definitely not five stars, it's hard not to fall upon something which doesn't meet our standards every once in a while.
Redditor mandela_effect_12 was curious as to what the Reddit community looked down upon, or what they thought wasn't good enough for them, leading them to ask:
"What is your most 'elitist' viewpoint?"
They'll get my vote
"Candidates for President should be required to take the Civil and Foreign Service exams, and publish their scores."
I'm not looking for a passing grade, just an objective measure of competence."- cryptoengineer.
I think you meant "you're", not "your"...
"Even if it is just fan fiction, put effort into the grammar."- ImaGamerNoob.
"Spelling, grammar, and punctuation exist to make writing comprehensible."
"F*cking use them."
"It’s not that hard."- ActuallyCausal.
GiphyWhen you get to be a certain age.
"Senior citizens should absolutely have to retake their drivers exam every couple years as they get older."- mox44ah.
Up in the air.
"I hate flying budget airlines because the majority of my fellow passengers are so uncouth and don't possess common flying etiquette."- BudovicLagman.
"There should be a separate security line at the airport for people who are flying for the first time or aren't familiar with the rules."- PhiloPhocion.
flying den haag GIF by Rotterdam The Hague AirportGiphyAnd what makes you an expert?
"Expertise matters."
"People who have studied an issue all of their lives have better opinions on that issue that people who don't."
"Have individual experts been wrong in the past?"
"Can 'the wisdom of crowds' be surprisingly accurate?"
"Sure."
"'I know better because I know less', is a crock of sh*t.- copperdomebodhi.
That seems like an easy fix.
"As a professional tradesman, I can clearly see when a 'handyman' has been doing so-called upgrades."- skuterpikk.
I can't believe they let them in here!
"A lot of different places should have required etiquette courses before you can use/be a member."
"Some examples: public transportation, especially flights, gyms, concert venues, movie theaters." - Drunk_Lahey.
How dare you serve me something from a box!
"I'm pretty bougie about food."
"My in-laws invited us over for shrimp risotto one night and it was literally Uncle Ben's cheesy rice, those little canned shrimp, and thawed broccoli."
"Nothing inherently wrong with the dish but I was (silently) snobby about it being presented as 'shrimp risotto'."- loudlittle.
Dinner Cooking GIF by B’gan FoodsGiphyBeing a polyglot is so in right now
'To speak at least one or more foreign languages."- Exynika
"Everybody should be proficient in at least one other language than their native one."- Material_Ambition_95
You may call me "Doctor".
'People who have PhDs in non-stem subjects tend to have greater emotional intelligence."- aerosmithangel
Writing is a God-given gift
"Not everyone can learn to be a good writer.'
"I very firmly believe, as with any talent, you can learn of course but only to a limit."
"And we all have limits."
'Just because you want to be a great writer doesn’t mean you’re capable of it."
"A lot more goes into it than merely having the talent."
"It’s like what they say about acting, prepare for rejection."
"Lots of it and don’t take any of it personally."
"And you are permitted one night with a bottle of wine reading the reviews - good, bad - to dwell and then you move the f*ck on."
"But yeah, I think great writers are born."
"Good writers are taught but only ever to a certain point."
"I would’ve loved to have been a singer but I can’t sing."
"I could learn control and technique but I do not have a musical ear and I will never, no matter how much I want it, actually attain a level of talent I do not actually possess."
"I might improve but I will never really succeed."- C*mInMeBro88
This is what a therapist is for.
"Istg, the level of insecurities I see on the internet these days is walking a fine line of narcissism."
"Like no one cares, we all have bodies, no one’s wrong in them, everyone needs to chill out and stop making their delusion everyone else’s problem."- soma_nova
the office therapy GIFGiphyExpatriating? Then assimilate!
"If you're gonna live in a foreign country, even for a short while, you've gotta learn at least the basics of the language there."
"It's not only for your own benefits, it's a good way to show that you respect the culture and the country."
"It's true that almost everyone speaks English, but expecting native people to adapt to you instead of you adapting is just disrespectful."- mr_brown_rodent
Parenting should require a license
"People should have to attend childrearing classes with an exam and passing grade before having children."- thecrystalcrow
No matter how much you have... learn how to manage your money!
"My elitist opinion is, there is no other reason to be financially illiterate other than illiteracy."
"If you don’t understand how money works and/or how to budget, read a book about it."- crezyte
GiphyExpress line for questionable habits!
"There should be a separate line at convenience stores for cigarettes and lottery tickets."- annh53182
Some might say having standards is an admirable quality.
Though it's probably wise to hide your disgust when your in-laws serve you cheez whiz and not your favorite camembert.