We're just going to have to face up to the fact that ghosting is here to stay. Maybe it's been around for generations and we've only just gotten around to naming it but, either way, it's not going anywhere. It's such a part of our day-to-day existence, there is even a Halloween costume for those who have felt the pains. Of course, it could always be worse. On top of being ghosted, one could also be subjected to "orbiting."
People are no longer sitting back and waiting. They are taking dating into their own hands and collecting the data behind the Tinder. Like the woman who gave each of her dates an exit survey. Hey, you can't learn if you don't know the problem, right?
Now another sleuth-y woman is taking it to the next level and getting down to the nitty-gritty. Poet and slam master Jaz Sufi sent a survey to every person who has ghosted her in the last six months.
Creepy? No. Genius.
So I sent a Google survey to everyone who's ghosted me in the last six months https://t.co/7hf66t7ssX— ｊａｚ ⵙ ｓｕｆｉ (@ｊａｚ ⵙ ｓｕｆｉ) 1543793957.0
Twitter users couldn't love this more — including her own brother.
My brother's response to my newfound fame https://t.co/wrx0CtAjZW— ｊａｚ ⵙ ｓｕｆｉ (@ｊａｚ ⵙ ｓｕｆｉ) 1543870423.0
@calamityjaz I expect a full report by the end of the week. https://t.co/KXIzUqECLK— Isabel Withmory (@Isabel Withmory) 1543823773.0
@calamityjaz As someone who does data visualisation for a living, I am very keen to see the results.— Shanan Kan (@Shanan Kan) 1543821367.0
@calamityjaz If I were teaching research methods next semester we would spend a class period discussing this survey design.— Dawn Gilpin 🐳🦄🦉 (@Dawn Gilpin 🐳🦄🦉) 1543844184.0
@calamityjaz PLEASE GIVE US THE DATA COLLECTED— Snobby - police abolition + wizrock fan (@Snobby - police abolition + wizrock fan) 1543807904.0
@calamityjaz @nahjaaa__ Wow! Did you get any insights? Closure?— Ann Shoket (@Ann Shoket) 1543839999.0
@calamityjaz @crocsandfawkes YOU ARE MY HERO. THE OBAMA QUESTION IS SOLID GOLD.— meatwood flac (@meatwood flac) 1543816641.0
@calamityjaz did... did you get any responses?— rachelreine 💙🦁 belmont (@rachelreine 💙🦁 belmont) 1543802952.0
@calamityjaz @MarsconMpls I would love a copy of this Google survey to send to people— SPOOKY kayleigh♊️skar (@SPOOKY kayleigh♊️skar) 1543959536.0
@calamityjaz WHERES THE DATA— bilatinthem (@bilatinthem) 1543847176.0
@calamityjaz please make a powerpoint presentation with collected data including venn diagrams. yes, i said powerpoint— kate (@kate) 1543823522.0
@calamityjaz @SashaRachelll This is good shit— Zack (@Zack) 1543832523.0
Don't mind us. We'll just be waiting for updates, like: