We're just going to have to face up to the fact that ghosting is here to stay. Maybe it's been around for generations and we've only just gotten around to naming it but, either way, it's not going anywhere. It's such a part of our day-to-day existence, there is even a Halloween costume for those who have felt the pains. Of course, it could always be worse. On top of being ghosted, one could also be subjected to "orbiting."
People are no longer sitting back and waiting. They are taking dating into their own hands and collecting the data behind the Tinder. Like the woman who gave each of her dates an exit survey. Hey, you can't learn if you don't know the problem, right?
Now another sleuth-y woman is taking it to the next level and getting down to the nitty-gritty. Poet and slam master Jaz Sufi sent a survey to every person who has ghosted her in the last six months.
Creepy? No. Genius.
So I sent a Google survey to everyone who's ghosted me in the last six months https://t.co/7hf66t7ssX— jaz sufi (@jaz sufi)1543793957.0
Twitter users couldn't love this more — including her own brother.
My brother's response to my newfound fame https://t.co/wrx0CtAjZW— jaz sufi (@jaz sufi)1543870423.0
@calamityjaz @mvddm I would pay money to see these responses— Ellace Henderson (@Ellace Henderson)1543809311.0
@calamityjaz I expect a full report by the end of the week. https://t.co/KXIzUqECLK— Isabel Withmory (@Isabel Withmory)1543823773.0
@calamityjaz As someone who does data visualisation for a living, I am very keen to see the results.— Shanan Kan (@Shanan Kan)1543821367.0
@calamityjaz If I were teaching research methods next semester we would spend a class period discussing this survey design.— Dawn Gilpin 🐳🦄🦉 (@Dawn Gilpin 🐳🦄🦉)1543844184.0
@calamityjaz PLEASE GIVE US THE DATA COLLECTED— The Wrock Snob (@The Wrock Snob)1543807904.0
@calamityjaz @nahjaaa__ Wow! Did you get any insights? Closure?— Ann Shoket (@Ann Shoket)1543839999.0
@calamityjaz @crocsandfawkes YOU ARE MY HERO. THE OBAMA QUESTION IS SOLID GOLD.— 🎄why is the carpet all wet, todd🎄 (@🎄why is the carpet all wet, todd🎄)1543816641.0
@calamityjaz omgjdkgv this is something i would do— latinx Jessica Simpson 1999 (@latinx Jessica Simpson 1999)1543798821.0
@bwitt722 @calamityjaz I AM SO INTO THIS. Like, making a google form into it.— Joy Beth Smith (@Joy Beth Smith)1543883933.0
@calamityjaz did... did you get any responses?— Rachel (@Rachel)1543802952.0
@calamityjaz @MarsconMpls I would love a copy of this Google survey to send to people— kayleigh♊️skar (@kayleigh♊️skar)1543959536.0
@calamityjaz WHERES THE DATA— picoso thot (@picoso thot)1543847176.0
@calamityjaz I really hope you get responses and that you post those. This is amazing— Valerie (@Valerie)1543822547.0
@calamityjaz please make a powerpoint presentation with collected data including venn diagrams. yes, i said powerpoint— kate ross (@kate ross)1543823522.0
@calamityjaz @SashaRachelll This is good shit— CaptainClout (@CaptainClout)1543832523.0
Don't mind us. We'll just be waiting for updates, like: