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When Redditor hitmiker asked the online community "What screams 'I'm not a good person?'" they learned much more about what many of us struggle to define.


"People who aren't able..."

People who aren't able to be excited for you when you succeed, no matter how small the success; they always see other people's success as a threat to their own worth. Then, they'll get upset if you don't celebrate for them. I had a best friend in HS (now an ex-bff) who yelled at me that I didn't deserve to get a flute solo in our marching band show because I was drum major. Believe me, I didn't want it/ask for it--I have bad anxiety. Anyways, what makes it worse was that she had a major solo (the whole ballad one year) every single year. She just didn't know how to celebrate anyone but herself.

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"Seems like a no-brainer."

No awareness of their wrong doings and is non-trustworthy. Seems like a no-brainer.

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"Those people cutting others off..."

Queue jumping. Those people cutting others off the line just because they think they should be first are spawns of tbe devil.

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"Never..."

Never accepting blame for anything.

drayd38

"Mocking..."

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Mocking people for liking unpopular but harmless things.

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"Constantly..."

Constantly telling people you are a good person.

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"Stealing..."

Stealing stuff, lying to people, avoiding your responsibilities and sticking someone else with the bill.

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"Never paying debts..."

Never paying debts, even small ones. If you borrow money, even a dollar, with the promise to pay back, do so.

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"If they'll do that..."

Talking sh*t about mutual friends when they're not around. If they'll do that with your other friends, damn sure they're doing it with you too.

Zohren

"Not taking personal responsibility..."

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Not taking personal responsibility for your actions and purposefully withholding important information from someone for your own self preservation or selfish reasons.

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