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People Share The Most Memorable Time They Made Someone Cry

People Share The Most Memorable Time They Made Someone Cry
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Tears can mean so many things in the complex human emotional spectrum.

A person may cry because they're overjoyed, or deeply sad, or grieving, Tears may fall over a lost dog, or a found dog, or losing the 90th round of Tetris attack in a row.

Crying happens.


One Redditor asked:

How did you make someone cry?

Here were some of those answers.


Happy Tears

"I heard it second-hand from my mom, but I made my grandfather cry (in a good way)."

"I had taken him for his monthy doctor appointment in the big city."

"My cousin just had a baby girl, so he was showing the nurses photos of her exclaiming:"

"I'm a great grandfather!"

"I turned to him and said"

"You were already a great grandfather."

"He didn't say anything but later, Mom told me he cried when he got home."- The2kman

Assuming The Worst

"I worked at a dq."

"As we had a new employee at the time, someone who had gone to the same school as me, I was telling my coworkers who the new employee was."

"I said her name out loud."

"She had been the lobby, just out of sight, heard her name, and assumed I was talking bad about her."

"Started bawling and walked out on her shift."

"She did not last very long after that."- RugunderthePorch

Mean Without Reason

"In 3rd Grade someone in my class told me to ignore a friend of mine for a whole week to see how they'd react."

"I was a baby-back jerk in 3rd grade and normally just did what people asked of me, so I went ahead and ignored my bro in class, recess, and on the bus."

"It hit him hard to the point that he had a full on breakdown."

"Actually still friends with the guy to this day."

"Not sure if he remembers this incident back in 3rd grade, like 15 years ago."

"But I still think about it occasionally, might bring it up next time we hang out and see what he says."- Negan1995

Something Else At Play

"I work at a theater."

"A guest had their cell phone on with max screen brightness and they were sitting in the lower rows so everyone behind them could see it."

"Naturally, I asked them to turn their phone off or stow it completely."

"They instantaneously started crying instead."

"This guest was a woman in her early 20s."- Blacktimus_Prime

Done Their Best

"Casual acquaintance in my friend group in high school cut her own fringe."

"It was so bad I laughed."

"I genuinely didn't mean to 'haha' in her face, it just slipped out in my shock at how bad she'd botched it."

"I felt so bad about it I took her to my hair dresser after school and they tried to fix it."

"There wasn't much they could do."- PimplePopperInNeed

Misinterpreted

"We were doing that thing where you give a gift to someone else, and they do the same, don't remember what it was called."

"I was gifted one of those stamp collecting 'books', more like a magazine.'

"It was a really cute girl and i really liked the gift so with excitement when i received it i asked 'Where did you buy this?!?'"

"Which apparently she thought was me making fun of the gift, so she cried."

"I just wanted to know where she got it so i could get the stamps to complete the collection."

"This was before high school and to this day I cringe when I remember trying to explain myself and no one would listen."

"I never even found out where to get the damn things so I had to throw it away."- TheWeirderAl

Pride

"I graduated high school."

"That's obviously not special, but the year before I graduated, my brother was involved in a serious accident that left him quite crippled."

'He put off getting his degree/GED, so now he'll never have it."

"My dad cried big time when I walked across the stage."- EnsonAmata

Sweet As Pie

"I was in the vet with my 12-week old kitten and my really stressed out husband because my kitten was peeing blood."

"There was a bunch of other stuff happening in our lives and everyone was really stressed."

"We were waiting for the vet to come in and I was freaking out over the kitten."

"I thought he had urinary crystals like my older cat."

"And I was holding him and crying and I was talking about how if he had urinary crystals he might die because he was so little and my husband was basically like 'nothing is going to happen to him, he's our baby' and started crying."

"It was actually super sweet because we had just adopted out his mom and sister and he was the last foster, saved his pregnant mom from the street, and that was pretty much when my husband decided we were keeping him."


"He was ok, btw."

"The vet couldn't find any sign of infection or crystals and just kept asking me if I had dropped him."

"I told her no, but that he threw himself into the ground pretty hard a lot while playing."

"She was kind of giving me the side-eye and then he tried to get down off the exam table, tripped over himself and fell down."

"She was basically like, 'yeah, clumsy little a**hole bruised his bladder, he'll be fine'."

"He was, other than the fact that he's still clumsy over a year later."- KittyChimera

Unwitting Feelings

"I unknowingly friend-zoned a girl hard in college."

"I didn't find out until a while later, but she had a bit of a crying freakout during class shortly after and ran out."

"I only know because my now wife was in her class."- mattreyu

Reasons My Child Is Crying

"During my pediatrics rotation in medical school, we spent a day at a day care."

"I was chaperoning a bunch of preschoolers on the playground and one of them asked me to push her on a swing.'

"While doing so, I decided to make small talk since I had no idea how to interact with children, still don't."

'I said 'So, about to start elementary school huh?'"

"'Which school are you going to?'"

"She had a look of complete shock, stopped the swing, and screamed 'I don't know!!!' then broke down in tears and ran away from me."

"My instincts kicked in and I immediately walked in the opposite direction nonchalantly so the employees wouldn't suspect me. I didn't go into pediatrics."- amediocre

Not being proud of one's past.

"In middle school, I was a bully to two guys."

"One in Sunday School, and another in Summer camp."

"I just tormented them and acted really rude to them, and other times joined in on it."

"I had been responsible for instances where I would see them visibly sobbing because I took part in it."

"I'm not proud of it, especially knowing that I was on the receiving end of it for so much of my life from my family and other people in middle school."

"Being young is complicated, and I don't think I can ever fully forgive myself for projecting so many of my inner demons out onto other people."

"If I could go back in time, I would take it all back."

"IDK, I like to think I'm a good person, other times, I think I'm a piece of sh*t."

"But all I can hope is that the people I tormented are doing well, and have at least started to heal from me being a piece of shit to them."- CivilDeer

That's what friends are for.

"I made my best friend cry, in kind of a good way."

"Back in early September I was at her place for a few days, long distance friendship, and one night we just got home from a whole day w/ friends and her new fling/boyfriend."

"For a good part of the day I wasn't doing so well mentally, because I felt a bit like a third-wheel, and I felt worthless and unlovable because my friends already have a S/O and they're obviously loved, funny, interesting, charismatic people etc."

"So when we were finally alone, a bit drunkily, I bursted into tears opening up to her on what was on my mind for a while and during that day."

"I also opened up on how seriously terrified I was that one day she would just abandon me for whatever reason."

"I guess it was also her empathy and the fact that she saw me cry that made her cry as well at that point, and told me that she had the same fear and that she could never abandon me because she loves and cares about me too much to ever do such a thing."

"We ended up talking for hours that night, and the day after she made sure I was okay."

"I know, it's not that interesting of a story, but it's 4:30 am and I'm an emotional mess that cried again just thinking about that night."

"So, yeah, take it for what it is."- AdorBubblez

"I'm good at it apparently."

"I was talking to a friend I haven't seen in a while and he sorta let out in a roundabout way that he was anxious about not seeing me again, I told him that we would never not be friends."

"He started crying."- Georfe5113

Now That's Cold.

"My old time friend and I got into a fight and he said my dog sounded like a pig."

"His dog died that day so I said in the middle of the class 'oh yeah well at least my dogs alive.'

"#NoRegrets."

Sports can often end in crying...

"I told a girl that she was dribbling a basket ball wrong in gym class in 6th grade."- Interstellar-Weirdo

Bad day?

"By throwing a paper airplane. made our teacher cry."

"It didn’t hit her or anything..it just fell.'

"I laughed and she cried because of disrespect."- Tonches

When a teacher makes a difference.

"I was in the 6th grade and took state testing that year."

"My state test math score went from basic, about 190-250 points, to advanced, about 500-600 points, in that year alone."

"In my 7th-grade year when I got the test scores, I showed my 6th-grade math teacher the score difference."

"She started crying because she was so shocked that she helped me get such high scores in a class I hated and a class I never thought I was good at."

"She was so proud of me too for sticking with it."

"To this day she is still one if my favorite teachers."- Falsehood-Bish

Traumatizing!

"I sat in someone's seat in 1st grade and refused to get out of it so he could sit down."

"I didn't feel like moving because he had a good view."

"He started crying because I wouldn't get up, and then ended up working himself up so much by bawling hysterically that he threw up and we all had to evacuate the classroom while the janitor cleaned it."- caterpillarbra

These were some interesting stories!

Do you have similar stories to share? Let us know in the comments!

People Reveal The Weirdest Thing About Themselves

Reddit user Isitjustmedownhere asked: 'Give an example; how weird are you really?'

Let's get one thing straight: no one is normal. We're all weird in our own ways, and that is actually normal.

Of course, that doesn't mean we don't all have that one strange trait or quirk that outweighs all the other weirdness we possess.

For me, it's the fact that I'm almost 30 years old, and I still have an imaginary friend. Her name is Sarah, she has red hair and green eyes, and I strongly believe that, since I lived in India when I created her and there were no actual people with red hair around, she was based on Daphne Blake from Scooby-Doo.

I also didn't know the name Sarah when I created her, so that came later. I know she's not really there, hence the term 'imaginary friend,' but she's kind of always been around. We all have conversations in our heads; mine are with Sarah. She keeps me on task and efficient.

My mom thinks I'm crazy that I still have an imaginary friend, and writing about her like this makes me think I may actually be crazy, but I don't mind. As I said, we're all weird, and we all have that one trait that outweighs all the other weirdness.

Redditors know this all too well and are eager to share their weird traits.

It all started when Redditor Isitjustmedownhere asked:

"Give an example; how weird are you really?"

Monsters Under My Bed

"My bed doesn't touch any wall."

"Edit: I guess i should clarify im not rich."

– Practical_Eye_3600

"Gosh the monsters can get you from any angle then."

– bikergirlr7

"At first I thought this was a flex on how big your bedroom is, but then I realized you're just a psycho 😁"

– zenOFiniquity8

Can You See Why?

"I bought one of those super-powerful fans to dry a basement carpet. Afterwards, I realized that it can point straight up and that it would be amazing to use on myself post-shower. Now I squeegee my body with my hands, step out of the shower and get blasted by a wide jet of room-temp air. I barely use my towel at all. Wife thinks I'm weird."

– KingBooRadley

Remember

"In 1990 when I was 8 years old and bored on a field trip, I saw a black Oldsmobile Cutlass driving down the street on a hot day to where you could see that mirage like distortion from the heat on the road. I took a “snapshot” by blinking my eyes and told myself “I wonder how long I can remember this image” ….well."

– AquamarineCheetah

"Even before smartphones, I always take "snapshots" by blinking my eyes hoping I'll remember every detail so I can draw it when I get home. Unfortunately, I may have taken so much snapshots that I can no longer remember every detail I want to draw."

"Makes me think my "memory is full.""

– Reasonable-Pirate902

Same, Same

"I have eaten the same lunch every day for the past 4 years and I'm not bored yet."

– OhhGoood

"How f**king big was this lunch when you started?"

– notmyrealnam3

Not Sure Who Was Weirder

"Had a line cook that worked for us for 6 months never said much. My sous chef once told him with no context, "Baw wit da baw daw bang daw bang diggy diggy." The guy smiled, left, and never came back."

– Frostygrunt

Imagination

"I pace around my house for hours listening to music imagining that I have done all the things I simply lack the brain capacity to do, or in some really bizarre scenarios, I can really get immersed in these imaginations sometimes I don't know if this is some form of schizophrenia or what."

– RandomSharinganUser

"I do the same exact thing, sometimes for hours. When I was young it would be a ridiculous amount of time and many years later it’s sort of trickled off into almost nothing (almost). It’s weird but I just thought it’s how my brain processes sh*t."

– Kolkeia

If Only

"Even as an adult I still think that if you are in a car that goes over a cliff; and right as you are about to hit the ground if you jump up you can avoid the damage and will land safely. I know I'm wrong. You shut up. I'm not crying."

– ShotCompetition2593

Pet Food

"As a kid I would snack on my dog's Milkbones."

– drummerskillit

"Haha, I have a clear memory of myself doing this as well. I was around 3 y/o. Needless to say no one was supervising me."

– Isitjustmedownhere

"When I was younger, one of my responsibilities was to feed the pet fish every day. Instead, I would hide under the futon in the spare bedroom and eat the fish food."

– -GateKeep-

My Favorite Subject

"I'm autistic and have always had a thing for insects. My neurotypical best friend and I used to hang out at this local bar to talk to girls, back in the late 90s. One time he claimed that my tendency to circle conversations back to insects was hurting my game. The next time we went to that bar (with a few other friends), he turned and said sternly "No talking about bugs. Or space, or statistics or other bullsh*t but mainly no bugs." I felt like he was losing his mind over nothing."

"It was summer, the bar had its windows open. Our group hit it off with a group of young ladies, We were all chatting and having a good time. I was talking to one of these girls, my buddy was behind her facing away from me talking to a few other people."

"A cloudless sulphur flies in and lands on little thing that holds coasters."

"Cue Jordan Peele sweating gif."

"The girl notices my tension, and asks if I am looking at the leaf. "Actually, that's a lepidoptera called..." I looked at the back of my friend's head, he wasn't looking, "I mean a butterfly..." I poked it and it spread its wings the girl says "oh that's a BUG?!" and I still remember my friend turning around slowly to look at me with chastisement. The ONE thing he told me not to do."

"I was 21, and was completely not aware that I already had a rep for being an oddball. It got worse from there."

– Phormicidae

*Teeth Chatter*

"I bite ice cream sometimes."

RedditbOiiiiiiiiii

"That's how I am with popsicles. My wife shudders every single time."

monobarreller

Never Speak Of This

"I put ice in my milk."

– GTFOakaFOD

"You should keep that kind of thing to yourself. Even when asked."

– We-R-Doomed

"There's some disturbing sh*t in this thread, but this one takes the cake."

– RatonaMuffin

More Than Super Hearing

"I can hear the television while it's on mute."

– Tira13e

"What does it say to you, child?"

– Mama_Skip

Yikes!

"I put mustard on my omelettes."

– Deleted User

"Oh."

– NotCrustOr-filling

Evened Up

"Whenever I say a word and feel like I used a half of my mouth more than the other half, I have to even it out by saying the word again using the other half of my mouth more. If I don't do it correctly, that can go on forever until I feel it's ok."

"I do it silently so I don't creep people out."

– LesPaltaX

"That sounds like a symptom of OCD (I have it myself). Some people with OCD feel like certain actions have to be balanced (like counting or making sure physical movements are even). You should find a therapist who specializes in OCD, because they can help you."

– MoonlightKayla

I totally have the same need for things to be balanced! Guess I'm weird and a little OCD!

Close up face of a woman in bed, staring into the camera
Photo by Jen Theodore

Experiencing death is a fascinating and frightening idea.

Who doesn't want to know what is waiting for us on the other side?

But so many of us want to know and then come back and live a little longer.

It would be so great to be sure there is something else.

But the whole dying part is not that great, so we'll have to rely on other people's accounts.

Redditor AlaskaStiletto wanted to hear from everyone who has returned to life, so they asked:

"Redditors who have 'died' and come back to life, what did you see?"

Sensations

Happy Good Vibes GIF by Major League SoccerGiphy

"My dad's heart stopped when he had a heart attack and he had to be brought back to life. He kept the paper copy of the heart monitor which shows he flatlined. He said he felt an overwhelming sensation of peace, like nothing he had felt before."

PeachesnPain

Recovery

"I had surgical complications in 2010 that caused a great deal of blood loss. As a result, I had extremely low blood pressure and could barely stay awake. I remember feeling like I was surrounded by loved ones who had passed. They were in a circle around me and I knew they were there to guide me onwards. I told them I was not ready to go because my kids needed me and I came back."

"My nurse later said she was afraid she’d find me dead every time she came into the room."

"It took months, and blood transfusions, but I recovered."

good_golly99

Take Me Back

"Overwhelming peace and happiness. A bright airy and floating feeling. I live a very stressful life. Imagine finding out the person you have had a crush on reveals they have the same feelings for you and then you win the lotto later that day - that was the feeling I had."

"I never feared death afterward and am relieved when I hear of people dying after suffering from an illness."

rayrayrayray

Free

The Light Minnie GIF by (G)I-DLEGiphy

"I had a heart surgery with near-death experience, for me at least (well the possibility that those effects are caused by morphine is also there) I just saw black and nothing else but it was warm and I had such inner peace, its weird as I sometimes still think about it and wish this feeling of being so light and free again."

TooReDTooHigh

This is why I hate surgery.

You just never know.

Shocked

Giphy

"More of a near-death experience. I was electrocuted. I felt like I was in a deep hole looking straight up in the sky. My life flashed before me. Felt sad for my family, but I had a deep sense of peace."

Admirable_Buyer6528

The SOB

"Nursing in the ICU, we’ve had people try to die on us many times during the years, some successfully. One guy stood out to me. His heart stopped. We called a code, are working on him, and suddenly he comes to. We hadn’t vented him yet, so he was able to talk, and he started screaming, 'Don’t let them take me, don’t let them take me, they are coming,' he was scared and yelling."

"Then he yelled a little more, as we tried to calm him down, he screamed, 'No, No,' and gestured towards the end of the bed, and died again. We didn’t get him back. It was seriously creepy. We called his son to tell him the news, and the son said basically, 'Good, he was an SOB.'”

1-cupcake-at-a-time

Colors

"My sister died and said it was extremely peaceful. She said it was very loud like a train station and lots of talking and she was stuck in this area that was like a curtain with lots of beautiful colors (colors that you don’t see in real life according to her) a man told her 'He was sorry, but she had to go back as it wasn’t her time.'"

Hannah_LL7

"I had a really similar experience except I was in an endless garden with flowers that were colors I had never seen before. It was quiet and peaceful and a woman in a dress looked at me, shook her head, and just said 'Not yet.' As I was coming back, it was extremely loud, like everyone in the world was trying to talk all at once. It was all very disorienting but it changed my perspective on life!"

huntokarrr

The Fog

"I was in a gray fog with a girl who looked a lot like a young version of my grandmother (who was still alive) but dressed like a pioneer in the 1800s she didn't say anything but kept pulling me towards an opening in the wall. I kept refusing to go because I was so tired."

"I finally got tired of her nagging and went and that's when I came to. I had bled out during a c-section and my heart could not beat without blood. They had to deliver the baby and sew up the bleeders. refill me with blood before they could restart my heart so, like, at least 12 minutes gone."

Fluffy-Hotel-5184

Through the Walls

"My spouse was dead for a couple of minutes one miserable night. She maintains that she saw nothing, but only heard people talking about her like through a wall. The only thing she remembers for absolute certain was begging an ER nurse that she didn't want to die."

"She's quite alive and well today."

Hot-Refrigerator6583

Well let's all be happy to be alive.

It seems to be all we have.

Man's waist line
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Trying to lose weight is a struggle understood by many people regardless of size.

The goal of reaching a healthy weight may seem unattainable, but with diet and exercise, it can pay off through persistence and discipline.

Seeing the pounds gradually drop off can also be a great motivator and incentivize people to stay the course.

Those who've achieved their respective weight goals shared their experiences when Redditor apprenti8455 asked:

"People who lost a lot of weight, what surprises you the most now?"

Redditors didn't see these coming.

Shiver Me Timbers

"I’m always cold now!"

– Telrom_1

"I had a coworker lose over 130 pounds five or six years ago. I’ve never seen him without a jacket on since."

– r7ndom

"140 lbs lost here starting just before COVID, I feel like that little old lady that's always cold, damn this top comment was on point lmao."

– mr_remy

Drawing Concern

"I lost 100 pounds over a year and a half but since I’m old(70’s) it seems few people comment on it because (I think) they think I’m wasting away from some terminal illness."

– dee-fondy

"Congrats on the weight loss! It’s honestly a real accomplishment 🙂"

"Working in oncology, I can never comment on someone’s weight loss unless I specifically know it was on purpose, regardless of their age. I think it kind of ruffles feathers at times, but like I don’t want to congratulate someone for having cancer or something. It’s a weird place to be in."

– LizardofDeath

Unleashing Insults

"I remember when I lost the first big chunk of weight (around 50 lbs) it was like it gave some people license to talk sh*t about the 'old' me. Old coworkers, friends, made a lot of not just negative, but harsh comments about what I used to look like. One person I met after the big loss saw a picture of me prior and said, 'Wow, we wouldn’t even be friends!'”

"It wasn’t extremely common, but I was a little alarmed by some of the attention. My weight has been up and down since then, but every time I gain a little it gets me a little down thinking about those things people said."

– alanamablamaspama

Not Everything Goes After Losing Weight

"The loose skin is a bit unexpected."

– KeltarCentauri

"I haven’t experienced it myself, but surgery to remove skin takes a long time to recover. Longer than bariatric surgery and usually isn’t covered by insurance unless you have both."

– KatMagic1977

"It definitely does take a long time to recover. My Dad dropped a little over 200 pounds a few years back and decided to go through with skin removal surgery to deal with the excess. His procedure was extensive, as in he had skin taken from just about every part of his body excluding his head, and he went through hell for weeks in recovery, and he was bedridden for a lot of it."

– Jaew96

These Redditors shared their pleasantly surprising experiences.

Shopping

"I can buy clothes in any store I want."

– WaySavvyD

"When I lost weight I was dying to go find cute, smaller clothes and I really struggled. As someone who had always been restricted to one or two stores that catered to plus-sized clothing, a full mall of shops with items in my size was daunting. Too many options and not enough knowledge of brands that were good vs cheap. I usually went home pretty frustrated."

– ganache98012

No More Symptoms

"Lost about 80 pounds in the past year and a half, biggest thing that I’ve noticed that I haven’t seen mentioned on here yet is my acid reflux and heartburn are basically gone. I used to be popping tums every couple hours and now they just sit in the medicine cabinet collecting dust."

– colleennicole93

Expanding Capabilities

"I'm all for not judging people by their appearance and I recognise that there are unhealthy, unachievable beauty standards, but one thing that is undeniable is that I can just do stuff now. Just stamina and flexibility alone are worth it, appearance is tertiary at best."

– Ramblonius

People Change Their Tune

"How much nicer people are to you."

"My feet weren't 'wide' they were 'fat.'"

– LiZZygsu

"Have to agree. Lost 220 lbs, people make eye contact and hold open doors and stuff"

"And on the foot thing, I also lost a full shoe size numerically and also wear regular width now 😅"

– awholedamngarden

It's gonna take some getting used to.

Bones Everywhere

"Having bones. Collarbones, wrist bones, knee bones, hip bones, ribs. I have so many bones sticking out everywhere and it’s weird as hell."

– Princess-Pancake-97

"I noticed the shadow of my ribs the other day and it threw me, there’s a whole skeleton in here."

– bekastrange

Knee Pillow

"Right?! And they’re so … pointy! Now I get why people sleep with pillows between their legs - the knee bones laying on top of each other (side sleeper here) is weird and jarring."

– snic2030

"I lost only 40 pounds within the last year or so. I’m struggling to relate to most of these comments as I feel like I just 'slimmed down' rather than dropped a ton. But wow, the pillow between the knees at night. YES! I can relate to this. I think a lot of my weight was in my thighs. I never needed to do this up until recently."

– Strongbad23

More Mobility

"I’ve lost 100 lbs since 2020. It’s a collection of little things that surprise me. For at least 10 years I couldn’t put on socks, or tie my shoes. I couldn’t bend over and pick something up. I couldn’t climb a ladder to fix something. Simple things like that I can do now that fascinate me."

"Edit: Some additional little things are sitting in a chair with arms, sitting in a booth in a restaurant, being able to shop in a normal store AND not needing to buy the biggest size there, being able to easily wipe my butt, and looking down and being able to see my penis."

– dma1965

People making significant changes, whether for mental or physical health, can surely find a newfound perspective on life.

But they can also discover different issues they never saw coming.

That being said, overcoming any challenge in life is laudable, especially if it leads to gaining confidence and ditching insecurities.