Gender-specific activities like knitting or playing certain sports have become outdated perceptions in society today.
Anyone ridiculing a person for an endeavor that was previously deemed exclusive to one gender will only face backlash.
People tend to forget that many professional football players have in fact participated in ballet as part of their training.
While the practice has been stigmatized, the ballet and football combo actually makes sense. It helps players with their flexibility – which is equally as important as strength while out on the field – and also prevents many injuries.
Ballet training also helps with speed, endurance and focus.
So if you mocked a football player for going to a ballet studio and were consequently tackled for it, well, you probably deserved it.
There is no shame in going against societal conventions to do the things we enjoy.
Redditor -AboveAverageJoe asked the men of Reddit:
"Guys, what feminine things do you do that you're not ashamed of?"
Based on the many responses to the thread, the pride was real.
His Gorgeous Mane
"I grew out my hair for the first time ever. At 35 years old, my grandma told me my hair was so beautiful that I should have been born a woman."
"Thanks, grandma...."
– Loduk
Products Made For Her
"I accidentally bought women's shower gel once and now use nothing else. It just smells better."
"I ran out of deodorant once and had to use my wife's Secret brand deodorant."
"I kid you not, it's the best deodorant I've ever used."
– enbenlen
Calgon, Take Him Away
"take long hot baths, complete with candles and bubbles."
Cooking
"Had a college level psychology teacher tell me that cooking was a feminine thing to do."
"I like to eat good so I cook.¯_(ツ)_/¯"
"Edit:Just wanted to clarify that my psychology teacher was a woman."
– Aretik
Cheers
"'Girly drinks' are usually super sweet and full of booze, I'd much rather drink those than 20 s**tty light beers that I need to have been drinking for a decade to not think are absolutely disgusting."
Leave My Daiquiri Alone
"It only takes one good daiquiri to make you completely drop the whole gendered drink thing. Life's too short to give a single fuck what people think about my alcoholic slushie."
summer pool GIF by NDRGiphyYou Can Leave The Seat Down
"Sit down to pee."
"Hear me out: you can play on your phone and relax for a few minutes."
"Keeps floor more clean."
"Listen, doesn't matter how accurate you are, there are still little droplets that come out from it hitting the water."
Sew What?
"Sew like a champion."
I think everyone should a least know cooking and sewing basics. Both are also fun."
– Jberg18
My Friends Are Plush
"So I've got a horde of stuffed animals on my bed, and Idgaf what anyone has to say 'bout it! They have been instrumental growing up and even now in helping me cope with anxiety and depression. They're my kiddos and my best buds."
Preventing A Bad Habit
"I paint my nails so I won't bite them. I like having colorful nails tho."
Whatever Moves You
"I listen to a lot of 'teenage girl' music. For a long time I was very self conscious about the music that I listened to and wanted my taste to be 'masculine' and as a result I listened to a lot of music I didn't like and stopped myself from enjoying music I genuinely loved. Then one day I woke up and realized that wasn't who I was. And now I'll proudly blare my Taylor Swift or Carly Rae or whatever new girl pop disco trash whenever I want."
happy taylor swift GIFGiphyHey, If It's Comfy
"I cross my legs like a girl occasionally, I guess. Not ankle on top of knee, but knee on top of knee. It's comfy."
– Wry_Uhls
Releasing The Floodgates
"I'm not sure if that's feminine, but I cry at movies. A lot."
"I'm 23 years old and most recently watched 'Captain Phillips.' I cried out of relief for the character."
"While my country was locked down because of Corona, I stayed with my parents, where my 15 yo sister made me watch 'Coco' because I used to have Disney+ for 'Mandalorian.'
"The result of "Coco" was that I cried three times. My sister also cried. From laughing at me."
"The whole movie was so beautiful and my feelings were all over the place."
"Then, right after the movie we watched the short movie 'Lava.' My sister said she wanted to 'Cheer me up.'"
"As soon as the singer hit the first note in the main lines, the gates were open again and I was weeping like a baby. I just couldn't help it."
"That also was when I decided to cancel my Disney+ subscription because I'd probably dehydrate from crying at some point. And I didn't want to give my sister the opportunity to fool me again."
Redditor PadWanKenobi was curious to hear what people felt were the tell tale signs they were in the company of a possible genius, leading them to ask:
"What’s a sign of extremely high intelligence?"
Instant adapability
"Ability to intuitively and quickly understand complex systems and how lots of parts relate in a coherent whole."
"Like I work with some people who just keep tons of concepts in their head and easily integrate new information into their understanding of those concepts."
"They immediately know what questions they should be asking to better understand."
"And these are things they're currently working on, not like things they spent time studying in school over years."
"They just have a very strong ability to synthesize new information into their understanding."
"I sit in meetings distracted and confused having forgotten what we talked about in the previous meetings, and these folks just consistently have a solid handle on everything."- Ok-Control-787
Innate Problem Solvers
"They know when not to solve a problem."
"This took me a while to understand but the smartest people I know do this."
"It could be a really simple thing like ignoring emails from people asking for help."
"The supervisor or boss might have a quick and easy solution for the situation but instead of just handing it to the person that asked they let them figure it out on their own."
"They know who they can do this with and when to do it."
"If they did that with all of their underlings it would just create a mess."
"Another example that I can think of is planned chaos."
"Some people can predict exactly where things will go wrong and they could fix it before it creates a problem."
"They don't because nobody ever notices what's going on in the background when things are working perfectly."
"Once things fails then everybody notices and if you are the one person that fixed it you become the hero."
"They can also use then chaos to reach a goal they couldn't get before if things were working correctly."
"There's many examples of this in every day life that I didn't see before until I realized what was happening."- atapes
GiphyYou know what they say about people with small hands
"If your hand is smaller than your face."- FallofTheKnight
The all knowing glow.
"When someone asks you a question and you push your glasses up while light comes out of it and covers your eyes for some reason."- JonEregor
Those giveaway behavioral quirks
"Wearing glasses and saying things like 'ah yes', and 'I see' while you pensively rub your chin."- iuytrefdgh436yujhe2
Thinking Reaction GIF by ABC TV + IVIEWGiphyEncouraging others
"When they explain something they make the people around them feel smarter, not dumber."- redkat85
Being one step ahead.
"The capacity to understand complex things, see patterns where regular people don't."- Ostepop234
"They have this tendency to make you go 'Ohhh, why didn't I think of that?' when listening to them talk."- did_it_forthelulz
Why Didnt I Think Of That Cillian Murphy GIFGiphyAn endless love of learning
"A passion for knowledge and expanding understanding of complex concepts."
"The plumber can be just as insightful as the scholar."- KatatoniK94
Of course, one shouldn't always be fooled by what they see.
As many people are masters at appearing much smarter than they are.
In fact, one important sign of super intelligence is being able to separate those who appear smart, from those who actually are.
