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Couples Who've Had Threesomes In A Committed Relationship Reveal How It Turned Out

Couples Who've Had Threesomes In A Committed Relationship Reveal How It Turned Out

Committed Couples Who've Had A Threesome Sound Off About How It Turned Out

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Love and commitment takes work. It's not as happily ever after as the movies like to portray it. One consistent issue in sustaining a long term love story is keeping the intimacy and the sex interesting. After awhile with the same old face one might feel as though the heat has fizzled. Certain adventure can be a risk but if everyone is on the same page... it's a risk worth exploring.

Redditor _airdnaxela_g expressed interest in salacious details regarding relationship adventures by asking People who have had a threesome with their partner, how did that turn out?

ONCE MORE WITH FEELING!

I think my boyfriend thought I was jealous after she left. So he had sex with me almost immediately after. That after threesome sex was the best I've ever had.

AT LEAST IT'S A SHOW.

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It was a little, hmm, crushing maybe? A hit to the ego?

The two girls seemed to enjoy it with each other more than anything else.

HOW MATTER OF FACT.

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Me and my g/f went out drinking one night, met a girl at the bar and she came back to my apartment for some more drinks. Had a threesome that was amazing, and the girl left when we were done. Talked to the g/f after and we both agreed it was a lot of fun and went to bed. Woke up the next day, talked about how much fun we had and after that it was never brought up again for the next year we dated.

AND THEN THERE WAS 1!

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It went okay. There were two no-shows, but I salvaged it.

CRYING?! THERE'S NO CRYING IN THREESOMES!

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Started out great. We had a female friend who we'd been flirting with for a while. She came over for dinner and a few drinks. The three of us started making out, clothes were coming off, hands were going everywhere, and then... My partner started crying. Threesome over. Friend went home, and we hugged and talked it out.

I LIKE BIG BUTTS AND I CANNOT LIE.

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The other girl had a bigger butt and I didn't even make it to my gf. My girlfriend watched me have sex with her friend. But her friend satisfied her. We are no longer together and its super awkward whenever i see either of them

TRIFLIN'!!

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It was very meh. My boyfriend at the time was really into the idea. We talked a girl we met at a party. Turns out, it was basically two straight girls with one dude, the girl and I weren't into each other at all. It's not like she was unattractive or anything, just am not into girls really, as it turns out.

My boyfriend then goes and keeps talking to her after the threesome, and when he tells me that we were going to do it again, I told him no, but then he said he had flirted with her too much to back out at this point, and it happened a second time. It really pissed me off that he didn't respect that no means no... one of the many reasons that he is now an ex.

Later the girl started texting him asking to have sex with just him...

WHY BOTHER THEN?

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For me, I feel like I couldn't really enjoy it because I was manipulated into it. He spend 3 years trying to convince me to do it. She wasn't all that into it either as it turns out.

JUST ARMS & LEGS EVERYWHERE!

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Not my partner but had a 3 some with my best friend and his girl. (MMF) a couple times and once I picked up a girl at the bar who was into it so we had a 4 some. Friend and his girl are still together and I'm in a relationship with a new girl now who's definitely not into it so we don't do it anymore and I don't push for it.

SEIZE THE DAY!

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Surprisingly well. My husband had a little crush on a coworker and would "jokingly" ask me for a threesome. I brushed it off for a while, and considered it just harmless office flirting. Then one night she babysat for us, and the joke was brought up again, and we just kinda went for it. I initially did it to fulfill his fantasy, but I was surprisingly into it and we all had enough fun to do it again a few weeks later. Before the encounter, I was starting to get a bit jealous of their flirtatious relationship, but here's the twist: it turns out, she actually had a crush on me! She wanted to make it a regular thing and wanted to hook up with me solo. Once I realized her intentions, I had to end it. "Breaking up" with her was a bit awkward, but we had fun while it lasted. No regrets.

SOMETIMES IT WORKS AND SOMETIMES NO.

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I had one partner that really took it hard after (it was her idea in the first place), and I had one that loved doing it on the regular. I was cool with it. Lots of fun times.

BE ON SOLID GROUND.

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My fiancee and i had a threesome. She ended up sticking around for over a year. It was fun while it lasted though. Including her, we had a five \some and a foursome. Still with the fiancee. Relationship between she and i is a bit rocky. Tends to happen when you involve emotions into the mix.

HOW POETIC...

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My girlfriend wanted a threesome

To that I readily agreed

Imagine my shock

When they forsake my "stuff"

And then kept going without me.

THE SECRETS TO FOREVER.

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I've done this several times and everything was good with all the ladies. And guys.

It's not for everyone, probably not for most people. But if you go into it with the right attitude and some understanding it can be enlightening, erotic, and fulfilling for everyone. The first time was my wife's (girlfriend at the time) idea. She had a very good friend who was having some trouble finding a useful partner for sexual purposes. She was also not interested in a long term relationship of any sort. Her career was just taking off and she worked long and irregular hours.

So, my wife offered me for some fun times. My wife and I were, and are, very open about things. But when she came home after a girls night out and said"I told Sherry she could bang you," I was a bit surprised.

The first several times were threesomes. Then Sherry would show up by herself. No issues at all. We're all still great friends. Sherry got married a couple years later and asked us to keep the secret. Her new husband was ultra religious and very conservative. We kept the secret and never was a word spoken.

This happened probably 5-7 times with different ladies. And I was reciprocal. If we met a guy she liked we did the same. That was much rarer. I suppose because she is really more into FFM than two guys. But we do have a guy she sees now, probably a couple times a month. And I still sometimes see the other ladies, whenever they are interested. I'm not as able lately, due to a spinal injury, but I try to help where I can.

It has been great. We've been married 20 years and neither of us has ever hinted at any sort of jealousy. We know we'll be together until the dirt falls on our caskets and, until then, everything is wide open. It's great for us, but I can certainly see where and why it might be a serious obstacle to many others. It takes a special kind of trust and the right people or you'll end up riding off a cliff into disaster.

HOW MATURE.

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My bf (now ex) and I invited another girl in, a few times. An acquaintance of his prior (they hadn't slept together previously though).

We all slept together a few times, I started catching the feels for her, she started getting the feels for him and we called it quits soon after that because we were all open about it and didn't want things to drastically change.

It was always just for fun and enjoyment and yeah, adults about it thankfully and good communication. The threesomes were hot as hell and still think about them at times!

BE IN THE MOMENT.

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Not a threesome, but a MFMF foursome. Twice. With the same couple.

The first time was incredible. The second time was just this past weekend and it was also pretty great but I'm a little in my head about it and sort feeling weirdly vulnerable and self-conscious about it now.

T.M.I !!

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Bad... alcohol and erectile dysfunction.

SEXY SECRETS BETWEEN FRIENDS.

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Pretty great. Happened quite often over the course of a couple years. We're still close friends with the other girl, who is now married.

SPREAD THE WEALTH?

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I got to disappoint 2 women instead of just one.

BE HONEST.

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I wanted to have one, and my ex said she did too.

Well, apparently she didn't, but was too afraid to say anything and eventually dumped me.

I'D RATHER ROAST BEEF & SWISS...

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It was okay. I started to think. " would anyone miss me if I wasn't here?" The other girl started to kick me and then I got bored. I ended up making a snack. It was just a sandwich. Turkey. With a little mustard.

People Describe The Most Historically Significant Event They've Ever Witnessed In Person

Reddit user FictionVent asked: 'What is the most historically significant event you witnessed IN PERSON?'

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Do you ever wonder what it must've been like to experience major events throughout world history when reading about them in text books?

But if you take pause and actually think about it, we're living through many newsworthy current events that succeeding generations will be talking about long after we're gone.

Reading about them online or in newspapers is one thing. But seeing them happen unfold before our eyes is another.

Curious to hear from those who'll have anecdotes to tell in the future, Redditor FictionVent asked:
"What is the most historically significant event you witnessed IN PERSON?"

People recall the natural disaster events they've witnessed.

Tremors

"1964 Good Friday Earthquake 9.2 Richter. Was a boy in Cordova, Alaska at the time."

– KitchenLab2536

"My father was skipper of the USCG cutter stationed there. He was inport, and when the quake struck shortly before 5:30pm, he and my mom gathered me and my three siblings on the front porch. At first, it felt like the house was crumbling at the foundation, but on the porch we could plainly see our whole world was shaking. I remember watching telephone poles swaying, and the wires snapping and crackling in the street. The quake lasted about five minutes initially. My dad got his ship underway to avoid the tidal wave which was sure to come. We had several aftershocks in the coming weeks, some of which were quite strong, though nowhere near as strong or as long as the quake itself. I was seven at the time."

– KitchenLab2536

Collapsing Freeway

"October 17th, 1989. I watched the 880 Nimitz freeway collapse during the San Francisco earthquake. The Honda in front of me had the upper deck crush her front-end engine compartment. The mother and her daughter were shaken up but completely fine."

"I was driving a convertible Triumph Spitfire, which was scratched up slightly from debris. However, I walked away unscathed. Aside from the fact I pissed my pants, which I didn't notice until much later."

– CatDaddyWhisper

Thar She Blows

"I sat on the roof of our house and watched Mt. St. Helens erupt less than 100 miles away."

– stinkykitty71

"This must have been fascinating and terryfing in equal measure. What a thing to witness."

– runrossyrun

"It was amazing! The ash that covered everything like snow was interesting to kid me, but less so to my parents."

– stinkykitty71

People recall seeing major catastrophes as a result of malfunctions or judgement errors.

Bomber Crash

"The b-52 crash that led to changing what large military aircraft are allowed to do for airshows."

"I didn't see the plane, but immediately saw the fireball. It was just a perfect, bright red turning to black mushroom cloud."

"Fairchild is a nuclear air base and there were a few minutes there where I was sure the world was about to end."

"A few years before a KC-135 doing the same thing crashed near the school while we were in class."

– goffstock

Tragic Takeoff

"I was standing on my front porch watching the launch of the Challenger."

– StarChaser_Tyger

"Was riding in my parents car to a basketball game in the next town over in north texas when we saw a shooting star and thought that was neat."

"It was the Columbia..."

– Misdirected_Colors

Demolition Gone Wrong

"The failed implosion of the Zip feed mill in Sioux Falls, SD in 2005."

"They hyped it up, sold tickets to it, had a big 'BOOM' marketing thing, and broadcast it live on TV."

"The explosives took out the main supports on the first floor, and the rest of the building above it just plopped down 10ft or so and came to a rest. It was a massive failure, and was a funny little blurb on news stations around the world that day. Definitely not major news, just the rest of the world taking 20 seconds to laugh at us."

"The building sat like that (the leaning tower of SuFu) for quite a while until they figured out how to safely demolish it."

"Here's a clip of the failed demolition."

https://youtu.be/I8DEDUqd0RU

– KitchenBandicoots

These well-known historical events were seen by very few who are alive today.

Historical Remnant

"The tumbling of the Wall in Germany… along with people selling bits and pieces of it on tables in lobby in front of commissary and px in the following weeks and months. I had picked up a chunk about the size of an oreo and kept it… has blue spray paint on the flat side. Wonder if anyone is buying them now?"

– SingedPenguin13

Major Upheaval

"I would have to say the LA riots. I lived about two blocks from where it started. I was on my way home from school and saw someone throw a brick through a window. I didn’t even wait. I just started running the whole way home."

– Scarlaymama0721

Day Of Infamy

"9/11, I could SMELL the collapse of the towers."

– go4tli

"A friend of mine was there. One day in the warehouse we worked in together there was an odd electrical burning smell. He stopped in his tracks and went 'this is what 9/11 smelled like.'"

– mantistoboggan287

I didn't physically witness the fall of the World Trade Center but I was living in New York City at the time.

However, I did see the smoke.

I was living up north in Washington Heights at the time and knowing what happened, uncertain of what was to come, and seeing the plumes of smoke from the attack site was the most ominous sight I've ever seen in my life to date.

Have you ever lived through a historic moment or witnessed something sure to be noted in history books? Let us know in the comments below.

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A job search is not fun, so most people will tolerate a lot to keep a job.

But everyone has their limit.

Sometimes that limit is reached right in the middle of a work day and people are forced to walk off the job with no prior notice.

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Many weddings involve months of planning and thousands of dollars.

But the one guarantee in life is that poo happens and weddings are not immune to sh*t storms.

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When I was in seventh grade, I had aspirations to be a poet. I made a Mother's Day card for my mom with a cute (but now, cringe-worthy) poem inside, and a hand-drawn picture of a rose that took me hours to perfect.

A friend saw the card and said they wished they could do the same. Then suddenly, she asked if she could buy the card from me. I said no, since I needed to give it to my own mother, but I said I could make her a copy. From there, my friend got the idea for me to make copies of the card to sell. I went along with it, mostly because I didn't think it would actually work.

Turns out, it did. After making sure people would actually be interested, we went to the library after school and made several color copies of my card for 10 cents each. The next day, we sold each card for $1. Not only did we make enough money so that my friend and I could both afford to get our moms an actual present in addition to the card, but we had enough leftover to put us over the top for the money we needed to buy the matching faux leather jackets we'd been wanting all year.

The next year, many people who bought cards asked me to do it again, so I did. Once again, we made a killing. We didn't try to do it again once we got to high school, but it was definitely fun while it lasted.

When we tell people this story, they think it's a pretty crazy money-making scheme. Maybe it is, but we're not the only ones who ever did anything like this. Redditors know all about crazy money-making schemes, and are eager to share their own stories.

It all started when Redditor primeiro23 asked:

"What are the craziest ways you’ve heard of people making money?"

Tumble Into Business

"In college, I take a class on how to start & run a small business. Prof tells us to think of ridiculous business models for our fictitious businesses as we will get more out of the class that way. Stupid ideas ensue. Selling paperclips door to door, refilling car gasoline tanks in people's driveways, service to read & summarize the newspaper to executives etc."

"One classmate decides he is going to sell tumbleweed."

"Guess who quits college and started a successful business? Tumbleweed guy. Takes a van to the desert, collects tumbleweed and sells them to Hollywood movie & TV studios who need them. Keeps the tumbleweed in a warehouse and since they never spoil, his only costs are gasoline, storage & a website. He eventually becomes the number one tumbleweed provider to studios around the world, shipping tumbleweed globally."

"Made a heap of money selling what millions of people drive by and ignore every year."

– Accomplished-Fig745

Synopses

"I did have a job reading and summarizing newspaper articles to the boss. Literally only task I was hired for."

– Draigdwi

"An actual union job in the film industry is reading scripts and summarizing them in short mean book reports."

– Trixiebees

Jump!

"Heard of crazier, but a guy I know, friend of my mother's, went to Texas 30+ years ago. (we are from Norway), and he noticed every single garden had a trampoline. And it was almost always "jump king" - the circular with blue mat ones."

"So he went to the HQ, bought 10 and took back to Norway. Within days they were sold, and he ordered 50 more, same thing. So he became the only importer and has God knows how many millions to his name today."

– alexdaland

"This IS wild. I went to Norway recently and one of the first things I noticed was that almost EVERY yard had a trampoline in it."

– TrulyMadlyCheaply

Working For A Home

"Back when Dogecoin took off I wrote a guide on recovering old lost wallets and it got so popular I was flooded with requests for further help. Some corrupted wallet files, some lost passwords, etc."

"I have a background in computer science and experience in data retrieval and password cracking, so I started helping people in exchange for a percentage cut (industry standard for wallet recovery). All above board with a contract and everything."

"For a while I was getting new clients every week and making hundreds up to thousands of dollars on every successful recovery (with a fairly good rate of success). The biggest one I ever recovered was a 19 letter long password someone had lost. The work dried up when the price of doge dropped but it got me the down-payment on a house."

– internetpillows

Horsing Around

"A cabbie in Dublin once told me a story about one of his fares who had a brilliant hustle."

"The guy was a sculptor. He would watch horse races, then when a horse won, he'd use social media to contact the owner directly with a digital mockup of a life-sized sculpture of the winning horse. Now, the people who own winning racehorses tend to be very rich - we're talking sheikhs, oligarchs, billionaires. Every now and again, one of these owners would bite, and spend €100,000 euros or so on a statue commemorating their animal's win."

"Dude only did a couple a year, and spent the rest of the time living the good life."

– escoterica

Sweet!

"Richest guy in a rich town near us makes enormous amounts of money buying Hershey bars and rewrapping them with customised retirement celebration designs or corporate logos to be given away at events. Literally just rewraps them in pieces of paper and doubles or triples his money."

"Every time I try to start a company or invent a better product or something, I ask myself why I’m not just rewrapping candy bars."

– perchance2cream

"F**k man, I think I found my new niche."

– LibertyPrimeIsASage

Slightly Used

"I went to college in a capitol C college town. A friend of mine bought an old school bus, fixed it up and took out all the seats."

"At the end of every semester she would drive around the neighborhood that was the fancier side of off campus living and collect whatever the rich kids were throwing out before they moved / went home for the summer. Flat screen TVs, couches, computers, tables, it was wild to see what people would chuck out and replace the next semester rather than having to deal with getting a storage unit or moving themselves."

"Sold it all on Craigslist over the summer or the beginning of the next semester and made a killing."

– sam_neil

Credit Where Credit Is Undue

"When I worked in a really busy, upscale restaurant my coworker would put all of his cash-paying customer’s bills on his credit card and keep the cash which he used to promptly pay off his credit card."

"He did this all day, every day for quite a while and the points started to add up and he was getting free airfare, etc."

"Worked great for a while until management notice a rise in credit card processing fees with an emphasis on one employee and they shut him down real quick."

– blinkysmurf

We Found Gold!

"My buddy worked his way through college by panning for gold. This was in 2009 in California. Most days he made nothing, occasionally he would come home with a couple hundred bucks worth and I think once he found a night worth over $1k."

– discostud1515

"My cousin had a metal detector when he was in HS. He would go every weekend down to the lake and take it with him on vacation. He found all kinds of things. He did find gold jewelry and would sell it online. He made so much money he bought his own car."

– Content_Pool_1391

Sleeping For The Job

"I knew a woman whose job was literally to sleep."

"A local office building owner wanted somebody on-site 24/7 to be the point of contact with first responders if they ever needed to be called. So they hired her to come in to the building in the evening when the maintenance crew was finishing their work. And she would settle up to sleep for the night in a bedroom they'd set aside for her. In the morning she'd hand the building back over to the office employees and go on about her day."

"No first responders were ever called. It's about the least stressful legitimate job I could ever imagine."

– CaptainTime5556

The Secret

"Back in the 90s, I knew a guy who put an ad in the classified section of the newspaper which read something along the lines of, “For $10, I’ll tell you my secret to making easy money. Send $10 cash to (address) to find out how.” People would send him $10 & he would then instruct them to put a classified ad in the newspaper telling people to send $10 & how to make money."

– freudianfalls

Accident Payment

"I was pushed down the stairs by a teen girl who told me to "pay attention and get out of her way" i ripped my dress during the fall and was getting back up when some guy rushed up to me, apologized for his daughter and handed me $500 as compensation."

– thebrilliantcounc

"LOL - years back, I was in a parking lot during a snowstorm. A guy was trying to pull around me, slid on the snow/ice and hit into my passenger side door. It really and truly was an accident. He was all apologies. We exchanged info - he said to get a quote and he would pay for the damage."

"Well, the car I was driving at the time was a crappy old Ford worth maybe $500. But, I went to a body shop, got a quote on the repair and it was $900. I faxed it to him (this was back in the 90's, LOL) thinking he'd tell me to go through the insurance company and just have the car totaled out."

"To my surprise, I had a bank check for $900 from him in my mailbox three days later. Now, I already owned another car, so I pocketed the $900, sold the smashed car for parts for $300 and ended up with $1200 on a car that was worth only $500 before the accident. I was very glad that he ran into me!"

– Deleted User

Only Feet

"I have a friend who sells pictures of her feet. In heels. Barefoot squishing cake. In mud. She charges extra for special requests. Has strict ‘no go’ rules. Never shows anything above the calf so she can’t be identified (no tats). All proceeds go to her kid’s college fund. Has made enough to fund a PhD."

– NotACrazyCatLadyx2

The things people do for money! But, I guess it works for her!