Ah college. What a time to be alive.

The people who love to keep that party going are great.

But many have a bad Pater Pan complex and never learn to grow up.

Yet some end up on top of the world.

It's all a coin toss.

Redditorihaveaclip4urcliquewanted to share the tales about what happened to the life of the party after everyone grew up. They asked:

"College graduates of Reddit: What happened to that friend that never stopped partying?"

My life of the party people are dead and depressed. Cheers...

Yin & Yang

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"One’s a doctor, one lives in a towable caravan."

Low_Corner_9061

"There doesn't seem to be a lot of middle ground in this thread."

space_monster

Tabs Up

"Worked at a bar in college, and friends worked at other bars. So I knew a lot of people who drank a lot. Most went on to be in sales or some other job where interpersonal communication skills are more valued than raw academic skills. Some do very well."

AmigoDelDiabla

"Bartended full or part time for 15 years now. It's funny those same people keep coming in to drink, but now it's with coworkers and clients and rack up huge tabs and tip the best."

Minimum_Attitude6707

Drink to the Top

"He drank with the right executives at a conference and got offered a job. He now makes three times what I do."

Moctor_Drignall

"I know someone this happened to as well! Our senior year I think she drunk-tweeted something and a company loved what she tweeted that they offered her a job. We graduated 11 years ago and she still works for them! (Although this kind of goes against the thread because she doesn't drink anywhere near as much anymore since she got married and started a family)."

PAKMan1988

Genius

"Ran into an old friend who was like that. We were in our late 30s when that happened and chatted; turned out he partied hard until late 30s and during that time, flitted around job to job to simply fund his partying. One day he looked around and noticed that he was the old guy at the bars hanging with early 20-somethings."

"He realized that all of the folks our age were ahead in their careers, with family/kids etc. Said that was a pretty sobering revelation and enrolled himself back into school and was in his 2nd year of engineering as he wanted to be an aerospace engineer."

rudebish

The Right Way

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"He partied with the right guys and now makes very good money in sales where he parties with clients but the company pays for it."

MySonHas2BrokenArms

Sometimes vodka works you all the way to the corner office. I'm on my way...

Never took off...

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"He decided to do a commercial pilot license. Spent so much money on the training and the partying that his debts overtook him. Here, most airlines don't accept pilot candidates with outstanding debts or criminal records. He never got to fly a plane. He still owes a lot of people small to medium amounts of money. Accepted a menial job writing technical manuals."

Ruggiard

The Mess

"I lived in a house with a bunch of guys. One of them was in electrical engineering. He got a job at Applebees for some extra cash and started having parties with work people after work (so 3-5am). That made it hard to make class so he dropped a semester."

"We all graduated and he said he would refocus on school soon, but he was having too much fun partying. I went back to college 20 years later for a football game. He is still working as a waiter at Applebees. He is the creepy guy who acts like he is best friends a with a bunch of 20 year old kids. He’s a mess."

alpacasarebadsingers

Tragic

"He never stopped. He continued drinking at a crazy pace, and lost his job, his driving license, and his wife. He had to move near to a liquor store to keep drinking. He was found dead on the floor of his apartment from a hemorrhage in his stomach caused by years of alcohol abuse. He bled to death from within. He left behind two sons."

SpaceLaserPilot

'dedicated party house'

"A friend of mine in college pulled a Van wilder, and spent 7 total years in college (just getting his undergrad) because he liked the partying so much. He lived in the college 'dedicated party house' that had just two modes, actively throwing a wild party, or recovering from the latest party."

"What was wild about him was that even though he lived a party lifestyle, he got excellent grades and took phenomenal care of himself (when he wasn't getting black out wasted and having weird sexcapades), and was the person who got me into running/marathoning."

"Eventually, he finally graduated with a degree in Mechanical engineering, moved to the east coast, got married and became a born again Christian. He seems happy and successful and just had his first kid recently, but its absolutely weird seeing him post pictures of him getting adult baptized and doing mission work."

GlastonBerry48

Unrecognizable

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"He overdosed, blacked out and fell off a balcony at a hotel and hit the pavement so hard his mother couldn’t recognize him."

Impressive-Orchid748

The party has to end sometime. When the lights come on... go home. That's clearly a general life lesson as well.

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